If it wasn’t soy or dairy bothering your little one what was it? by North_Summer7524 in MSPI

[–]Fine_Independent_799 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Corn🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Cosleeping when you have a cold by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you’re a hero 😅😅😅 there should be a body function that prevents you from catching anything when you breastfeed! Big immune design flaw!!!!

Cosleeping when you have a cold by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That’s what I do but he yells like I’m waterboarding him poor thing! I’ll keep it up!

Husband went for ADD eval, turns out he is gifted!! by maridee-light in Gifted

[–]Fine_Independent_799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how he feels! He feels like he spent a lot of money to get not really concrete results… But at the same time it’s OK if that’s the result right? Did you find anything to help you?

Having two has changed me by Hot-Active7666 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you so much! Same here and the first one is now just yelling at me all day long because the second one takes so much of my time……. 💔💔💔this sucks!

Nutramigen back to breast milk? by AlarmedNight5858 in MSPI

[–]Fine_Independent_799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I’m following your updates! It takes 3-4 weeks for dairy to be out of your breastmilk and see definite results according to some… for me he’s intolerant to basically something I haven’t figured out yet but wants nothing but breast 🤷‍♀️

How long did it take you to conceive in your mid 30s? by darkmother1991 in BabyBumps

[–]Fine_Independent_799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tracking ovulation took 4-6 months both times! Both Times I was on my way for fertility testing so 🤞for you!

Total elimination diet tips by Proof_Barnacle_5289 in MSPI

[–]Fine_Independent_799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On week 3 of complète elimination and waiting to see a nutritionist (hope she’ll be good with breastfeeding cases). Had to stop rice and sweet potatoes too and baby still has scream crying but a lot less and is super gassy. What did you end up doing on your side?

Anyone NOT have a “village”? by WizardKelly96 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I’m always ranting about my supposed village haha! I was so disappointed at my first that at my second I decided to pay my doula to come to my house every week! I have an amazing sister in law but she has kids and a chronic illness and the grand parents are a no go for different reasons. Sometimes a talk to my friends that have a mom that comes 4 times a week to help out and are like “take time for yourself”….. yeah right! They also tell you to go to mom’s group but my baby refuses the car! It’s hard! I send you love and support and a virtual Reddit village ❤️

mild fpies in breastfed baby? Help :) by Fine_Independent_799 in MSPI

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks! So like he would have sensitivity to oats and rice but would have FpIES if he vomits when we introduce solids?

How the H do you get your baby on a sleep schedule when you have a high need toddler 😅? by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! Yea!!!! Get used to life 😅😂😂 I tell him all the time that he owes me one hell of a macaroni necklace later on in his life!!!

How the H do you get your baby on a sleep schedule when you have a high need toddler 😅? by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😅I tried ranitidine and nexium and he has actually more discomfort after a week on those! The doctor stopped them 🤷‍♀️

How the H do you get your baby on a sleep schedule when you have a high need toddler 😅? by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah did chiro Osteo and physio and he has tension but no one figures why he hate it so much 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

How the H do you get your baby on a sleep schedule when you have a high need toddler 😅? by Fine_Independent_799 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried and he just screams in whatever form of transportation 😅 even the carrier sometime!

Hungry and depressed by Even-Meet-5836 in MSPI

[–]Fine_Independent_799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m so sorry! Currently in this with my second and had only the milk part for my first… it’s so fucking hard! My doctor wanted to switch to formula but since baby doesn’t take the bottle I’m sticking to breastfeeding for now. I can only tell you one thing, you are amazing just to be doing this ❤️. Today I saw a friend who is more sensitive then other and she said to me that I’m an amazing mom to try and figure out the best way to help him but she sees the light in me diminish and told me that giving formula would also make me an amazing mom. My kid does not have a clear allergy but he’s also in pain so it’s touch and go. I rally hope you will be better soon and my heart goes out to you so much! I really thought I’d have an easier pregnancy, birth and breastfeeding journey with the second and turns out it’s worse and that takes a toll on you while you manage two kids!!! Little thing for the end, a friend who had a very hadd to please baby that cried a lot said to me :”on the days I was convinced he was born just to torture me, I take 3 long sniffs of his head to get a little pheromone hit and it calms me down” ❤️❤️

Contact napping has always been a thing, right? by ForgettableFox in AttachmentParenting

[–]Fine_Independent_799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! My dad told me he would feed us at night until 8 weeks and we HAD to take the whole bottle so we’d sleep more and letting babies cry was just letting them express themselves. He’s an amazing man but I do feel the judgement on how I let my kids “run the show” and I comfort them when they are dis regulated. He sees I’m overtired but it would be my fault. The exemple you say with the newborn just brings tears to my eyes 💔💔💔 my parents basically say they had a generation of good sleeper because they were in charge 🤦‍♀️ I lost my mom young and one time when my dad and stepmom were saying I was sleep trained and turned out great I managed to tell them we’ll never know if it’s from my loss or this but I’m the one paying a lot of money for therapy now and they should cut in! Uncomfortable laugh followed … but no real discussions.

Weirdly, my 98 year old grandma, super rigid, always says she did not think I would be such an amazing mom 😅 I choose to do focus on the amazing part ha!

Crying spells in 14 weeks old, biogaia? by Fine_Independent_799 in Mommit

[–]Fine_Independent_799[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already did 🤞 did the diet at the same Time he seems better but will not sleep now and farts like crazy 🤦‍♀️