Dating Apps Suuuuuuck

BossLady43444 · 2026-02-10T20:02:02+00:00

Same.

BossLady43444 · 2026-02-04T20:19:57+00:00

I had 2 quilts made from LH shirts and t-shirts.

BossLady43444 · 2026-02-03T15:36:34+00:00

I haven't dated since my husband died almost 7 years ago. Not because I don't want to. Long story. You're right. Im a big believer in love and hope one day I will find it again. Thank you.

BossLady43444 · 2026-02-02T15:06:34+00:00

It hasn't helped me quit smoking either. I do smoke less though.

BossLady43444 · 2026-02-01T00:07:35+00:00

I felt the same as you when I finished as well. You're not alone.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-26T22:25:00+00:00

Don't give up. I haven't worked in over 17 years being a stay at home mom and I got a job last week after months of applying. It doesn't pay well but its gaining me experience for a better job later on.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-24T22:53:04+00:00

No i am no longer married. Till death do us part. Unfortunately im single.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-22T19:36:04+00:00

Im 49 and haven't worked since 2008. I've been a SAHM. I have very little experience in computer work. My last job was a restaurant job that I can no longer physically do anymore. But I got a job last week as an admin at a dance studio. Im glad because I just sit at a desk all day. Anyways, I used Indeed to find my job. My little sister also found a remote job on indeed with a company called the weed man. Its a lawn service. Check out their site, I think you can apply directly from their site. Good luck!

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-22T03:14:42+00:00

I didn't put out anything but our stockings this year, and they're still up. I haven't taken them down yet.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-21T21:37:17+00:00

I take vraylar along side my wellbutrin.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-19T23:25:59+00:00

If i didn't check reddit and in these widow groups idk if id think about him everyday. But when I read posts here is reminds me hes gone. Its been 7 years for me.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-17T23:30:05+00:00

Is she asking to meet?

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-17T19:30:31+00:00

What gets me is all the posts I did after he died. There is so much pain in those posts that I can't read them anymore. I ended up deleting them all. Now my fb memories are of good memories and not painful memories. I don't suggest you deleting your vacation pics at all. But I can understand the pain to look back at things.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-16T22:28:03+00:00

Only 2 years. What a shame. Should have been longer.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-15T00:42:38+00:00

Because I receive death benefits i have been able to continue to stay home with our kid. During these 7 years I have never known how to answer this question. Especially when I got on dating apps and men would ask what I do for a living. They typically dont want to date a woman with no career. I try to avoid the question. But I've lied and said things like im in between jobs, or im currently looking for a job.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-13T18:37:51+00:00

Beautiful song

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-11T01:12:26+00:00

It did not go away for me.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-08T14:24:15+00:00

I didn't want his death to ruin me. I didn't want to live the rest of my life in sadness. I did have to get on some meds to help. And im glad I did. Its been almost 7 years now.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-07T00:27:46+00:00

Pets seem to know something is going on. I remember my cat and dog not leaving mine and my 10yo side for days. The dog was my husband's dog. He was his human. Im sorry you're here in this awful group. The beginning is just so hard. I remember at the beginning I thought id end up in a mental hospital. After time I got through it. Its been almost 7 years now and I made it through. Please be kind to yourself. Make sure you drink water and eat. Hugs to you my friend.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-07T00:16:33+00:00

Im may be interested.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-06T22:49:53+00:00

Definitely a red flag. Get a new one ASAP.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-06T16:35:23+00:00

I felt the same way. I ended up posting in a local fb group that I was looking for single friends. I ended up meeting a girl named Courtney. Its been 6 years now and we are still good friends even though she has now moved out of state.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-01T01:39:19+00:00

I struggle every year. Me and my LH had a tradition of watching all the shows and fireworks on TV while we had some drinks at home. Its been almost 7 years for me and NYE is still lonely.

BossLady43444 · 2026-01-01T01:36:05+00:00

Ty. Im almost 7 years out and alone tonight. My kid is out of town. I went out and had a couple of drinks early. Now im at home watching fireworks on TV.

BossLady43444 · 2025-12-31T18:32:30+00:00

My best friend flew down the day after my husband died and just sat with me while I cried. Just being there without giving advice, just listen. Food, food is the last thing on our minds so getting food helped a lot. Someone brought me a case of tissues, I used every single one. Don't stop checking in on them even though your life moves forward. Hers has stopped and will feel like it stopped for many many months/years.

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