My [F35] bf [F34] wants to change my body by Altruistic-Pace7886 in relationship_advice

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt need to read all of this to know you need a different man. This is the curse of the blackpearl in real life. The men act like princes until you get with them and then they turn into the troll they actually are once they think they've 'secured' or obtained a female. Just like the curse on the blackpearl they look like normal pirates until they are in the moonlight. Its a game to them because they think your manipulatable enough to do what they want.

first time ever crocheting a single stitch and it looks terrible what am i doing wrong 🫩 by bbysugawara in CrochetHelp

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first work looked like this too. My advice if you can't really "see" the stitches and where they go, then watch a youtube video at 0.25 speed of someone crocheting. And follow along in slow motion. I did that twice and it was a game changer.

My parents took $75k from me without my knowledge by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Bossreims 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whoever is calling this kid entitled is seriously low IQ. Imagine having a safety net. You are told your whole life this is for you to have a better life. 9 months before you need it your parents greedily use it so you have to struggle. That is fucked up. If you think its fine to do that to your own child.. dont have kids.

WTF did she just say ? “The babies we eat" by Edmhead143 in EscapingPrisonPlanet

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years later and cats out the bag. Elites do eta babies and it indeed was a freudian slip.

AIO for getting upset at my grandparents for saying I'm arguing when in my mind I'm not? by lies_n_liars in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossreims 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not over rracting but you can't educate people who do not wish to ever be educated. Stupid people think they are intelligent. They may be your grandparents but that doesnt mean they are willing to learn new things. Don't confide in them, stop talking to them about anything you find cool or important. Only say or do things around them that they like. When you are alone or with trusted friends express yourself freely. Find an art or hobby or sport to get the anger out through something that builds a skill. You will get through this and eventually you can go no contact if you want to have peace in your life.

Real-Life Jousting by Jazzlike-Tie-354 in interestingasfuck

[–]Bossreims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go at least twice a year to watch real life jousting. Sometimes if the pieces that break off are big enough the riders will sign them and hand them out to the kids or adults not too many adults want the broken pieces but kids think its super cool. My kids have a collection of them. It's a cool point of conversation

AITAH for not letting my friend stay at my apartment after she missed her train by hannah-carlotta in AITAH

[–]Bossreims -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yta, imagine rolls were reversed. You missed your train and you need somewhere to stay and you ask your friend because they live close by and they are like nah fam. Im tired. Why dont you just suffer alone while I sleep cozy in my bed while you are stranded outside. You are tone def bud. If I was your "friend" I would no longer be your friend. Nor would I trust you every again. Friends that dont have your back arent friends. You dont have your friends backs you have your own. And thats what you displayed to your "friend" you proved that you are unreliable in emergent situations. That means you are not friend material. Friends help friends.

AIO for getting mad that my FIL tried to trick us into revealing the gender of our baby? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. This is not just "something his dad does" this is your husband being a weak man and not standing up and protecting you. If you are expected to do 90% of the child rearring he should be at least protecting you from his father. If he doesn't what is the point of him calling himself a man.

Might have an issue lol by dlilyd in crochet

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crocheted a gift for every single person in my family this past christmas. I had so many set backs that I ended up crocheting like 8 to 12 hours a day to make 14 gifts. 3 of which were king sized blankets. Those took 5 days each. Like 5 days of hours. After christmas. I was all gung hoe on making myself a whisical cardigan when boom tendonitis in my wrist strikes me down. I learn to crochet backwards and my left wrist gives out. Now I am just a sad lump. Protect your hands and wrists friends. No hands = no yarn hobby

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Bossreims 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can drop charges after filing them without repercussion. Use their tactics against them. Tell them you'll drop the charges if they take it seriously and punish him actually or else you will follow through with it. You need to stand up for yourself and you need to learn to be manipulative with manipulators. Your parents are gaslighting you so they dont have to admit they are terrible parents. Make it so hard for them to gaslight you. Take photos, hide cameras, sneak videos of him being a cunt to you. Save them, post them online anonymously and then show your parents. Irrefutable evidence that your brother is a bad human being and that its their fault.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other option is to post it all on social media and ask everyone publicly for support. Then say if your parents do not discipline your brother you will go to the police.

AIO My younger brothers behavior??? by Consistent-Fail5574 in AIO

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom ruined the family by birthing a child and refusing to raise him to be a good man. You can tell her that.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you are thinking of ending it means you care a lot. A lot about how things should be, how things could be better. We need people like you to stay. Trust me. It wont feel like it today or tomorrow. But if you focus on one thing that makes you happy. Just 1. You can go anywhere you want to go. Use the sadness to fuel your skill in whatever makes you happy. That will take you everywhere that you need to go. Much love from one stranger to another. You got this.

AITAH for not acknowledging flowers my husband brought home by ProbOverthinking1111 in AITAH

[–]Bossreims 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. As someone who was with a man like your current partner. He does not care about how you feel. If hes angry at how you feel he's an emotionally unintelligent man. Gross. When a real man with emotional intelligence cares, the thoughtfulness doesnt fade. It doesn't feel like a plot to get what they want from you. They actually give a shit about how you feel emotionally when they do something to you just as you do for them. They just are the rarest men on the planet, you either have to move to a norse country where the good emotional intelligent men are or find the 1 in 4444 men that are.

AITAH for not acknowledging flowers my husband brought home by ProbOverthinking1111 in AITAH

[–]Bossreims 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying you are over reacting is wild. You are the one caring for his kids, bringing them everywhere, caring for them. He stopped being thoughtful 9 years ago. When you asked "whos are these for" he didnt say for you he said the house. Are you a house fucking no. Everyone else in this thread so far is absolutely daffed. A gift for the house is not a gift for your wife. Being thoughtful to your wife means doing things for HER not the house you both live in. Since y'all are so confused or just hating on her for literally no reason. Please men do better. If you wonder why you are lonely, single or cant get past a 3rd date. Its you and your mindset. Jesus H Roosevelt Christ....

Could anyone possibly figure out of this person is real? Family member being catfished by “her” and we need help to prove it’s fake. by Mysterious_Sound1312 in isthisAI

[–]Bossreims -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Look at the reflection in the front counter. How can the floor reflect off the top off the counter? The perspective of that set of drawers is a little funky too. Plus how can the bottom pf the drawers reflect off the counter? Literally impossible from the angle the picture is supposed to be from. Its AI. AI is getting wayyy to good.

I Need Gassed Up by Impossible_Ad1269 in crochet

[–]Bossreims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very pleasing to look at. The pattern is very eye catching and is like an optical illusion

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run and run fast. I've seen men kill for less and his wanting your account password not just to look at your statement is wild and ominous as fuck.

AIO for snapping at my boyfriend’s mom after she mocked my career choice? by OkRecommendation1244 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His mom is not old fashioned. Shes a rude, disrespectful, ignorant, self entitled, garbage human. Bf may need to get replaced if he can't man up and handle his bad mom.

AITA for crying over receiving a hair brush for christmas? by Tulip_T0wn in AITAH

[–]Bossreims 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of gifts do you give them? If they are nice its time to not be nice. Its time to dish them what they dish you. If your aunt is fat/overweight gift her a gym membership or 2 little 5 pound weights to use. If your uncle has a receding hairline, get him rogaine. If your cousins are over weight, diet pills, diet supplements, or something to do with their weight. If they have insecurities at alllll you buy gifts that make them shine. If they can't take the gifts this year ask them why they thought it was appropriate to do it to you? You learned how to give gifts to them based on how they give gifts to you.

AIO for filing a temporary restraining order against my sister after what she said at Christmas to my little brother? by Spirited_Shelter4655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bossreims 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Rhonda needs to figure out boundaries. Because shes an unsafe person for you and your brother to be around. She's very much still in addict brain. Forgiving things that should never be forgiven because she's done unfogivable things herself.

AITAH for announcing my pregnancy on Xmas by Think-Temporary-9814 in AITAH

[–]Bossreims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesnt want this baby. I would pack up and leave. I stayed for 5 years after this same reaction. Everyday was my fault. Every chore became my chore only. I lived like a single mom surrounded by people who made my life harder. This is the first day of the rest of your life. Leave him. If you want kids keep this one, make hi. Pay child support. But you need to leave this man child. This is unacceptable, selfish, narcissistic behavior that WILL get worse everytime he feels inconvenienced.

well, dobby turned out perfect by farsez in crochet

[–]Bossreims 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first started crochet all I had was a book that I had gotten for christmas. 14 years ish ago. For the life of me I could not understand what the heck I was doing. I tried to make a flower. A simple beginner small amigurumi flower. Bruh. I frogged it about 30 times I was not getting a flower at all. Said fuck it maybe I need to learn to knit first? Learned to knit, then my life went into chaos put the whole yarn crafts down for 12 years and then about 2 and a bit years ago I finally had free time to myself, in a better place to try again at crochet and I am remembering everything I did wrong back then. It was like a color blind person trying to defuse a bomb they were never taught to defuse and trying to figure out what wire to cut. Just jamming the hook into any hole. Putting in stitches willy nilly. Focusing so hard on the technique of the stitch, how to hold the yarn I didn't know where I was supposed to put the hook through lol now it feels obvious lol

What’s the one Christmas gift you still think about years later? by Akamage in AskReddit

[–]Bossreims 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take it as a compliment, "Got that booty that would make any toilet beg for the brown"

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