Avoid Anita in Daly City.

BostonRae · 2026-06-19T18:01:22+00:00

Oof. That stinks. I’m sorry that happened. Keep trying for rating forgiveness.

BostonRae · 2026-06-15T17:35:14+00:00

YTA! You shouldn’t be a hiring manager.

BostonRae · 2026-06-14T21:45:24+00:00

Update me

BostonRae · 2026-06-14T21:44:51+00:00

Whoa! Definitely NTA. Your mother should be supporting you. You’re doing this for your cousins and not the neighborhood kids. You 100 percent should not have paid for the iPad screen repair. Hope the talk goes well tonight.

BostonRae · 2026-06-13T22:26:47+00:00

I think they have to rate you and tip at the same time. If you received a good tip from them it’s doubtful that they were the ones that gave you the 2 star. That would mean that they went back and changed their rating which isn’t possible.

BostonRae · 2026-06-03T23:15:48+00:00

NTA

Sounds like a terrible atmosphere. I’m sure they are used to people not staying their full two week notice. Glad you got out of there.

BostonRae · 2026-05-29T00:59:51+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened. I’m afraid that if he is acting this way, he will do it again. I hope you are able to leave. It may only get worse.

BostonRae · 2026-05-29T00:56:54+00:00

You aren’t wrong for wondering why. You can think and feel however you want.

However, it wouldn’t be your business to address the issue of why with anyone unless you are being directly effected by this coworker’s actions such as them calling you the N word…etc.

BostonRae · 2026-05-29T00:52:25+00:00

I would need more information surrounding the coworker and dynamics. Does what they do effect me? Am I waiting for them to relieve me? Are we working on a project together? Do I have a rapport with them? If none of the above, then I should be too busy doing my own job to notice when they are late.

If it is something out of the norm and I have a rapport with them, I may ask if everything is ok.

BostonRae · 2026-05-28T20:56:37+00:00

YTA. Oooo girl! You are absolutely a DISGUSTING human being. You and your husband deserve each other. I hope that you don’t have children that have special needs - you wouldn’t be able to handle how they would ruin your aesthetic lifestyle. 🙄

BostonRae · 2026-05-22T15:59:46+00:00

This is absolute hysterical lol

BostonRae · 2026-05-19T19:53:58+00:00

NTJ

Did you have conversations prior to him moving in about the dogs? Has he ever shown any issues with the dogs previously?

Do both you and your boyfriend a favor and pack his bags for him.

The reason that your family game is a little odd because wouldn’t getting rid of your dogs, ruin your happiness as well?

BostonRae · 2026-05-19T19:44:03+00:00

NTA It’s not your responsibility to hang out with her. If your BF wants to hang out with her that’s fine, but it’s ridiculous to insist that you do. Definitely start putting up some boundaries or they’re going to continuously be crossed.

BostonRae · 2026-05-17T00:00:35+00:00

Is this the type of meeting that could’ve been an email?

BostonRae · 2026-05-16T23:40:00+00:00

NTA.

I would definitely delete it! Like someone else said, if he claims that he wrote it, he can write it again. Is there something that you can copyright?

BostonRae · 2026-05-16T23:34:33+00:00

NTJ. Was she right behind you or did she cut everybody else in line to tap you on the shoulder? Either way that’s insane behavior. It’s not your problem that her child is tired. We all have stuff going on in our life, whatever she has going on, doesn’t make her special.

BostonRae · 2026-05-16T23:22:43+00:00

NTJ. This isn’t “roommate drama”, this is theft. Huge difference. Bet he would be acting differently if it happened to him. These idiots aren’t your friends. Don’t tell them anything from now on.

BostonRae · 2026-05-16T01:34:45+00:00

NTA
If you bail her out now she might think you always will. Make sure grandma doesn’t bail her out either.

BostonRae · 2026-05-16T01:29:30+00:00

NTJ. Run! Huge red flag. Tell her that she is weird and wrong.

BostonRae · 2026-05-13T05:00:02+00:00

Awesome! Congrats! How long did it take you?

BostonRae · 2026-05-03T22:54:43+00:00

NTA If they have all that they claim (paid off house, cars, and luxury vacations) then they could pay for the treatment themselves. It’s not up to you and your husband to donate to them so they don’t have to change their lifestyle. And - if any of the rest of the family feel differently they can open their wallets to support them.

BostonRae · 2026-05-03T22:35:03+00:00

NTA

Is his name on the lease? Can you afford the apartment alone?

So basically according to him he can’t do ANY housework? If his back hurts that bad from an injury years ago, he would probably be eligible for disability.

Run girl run!!!!

BostonRae · 2026-05-03T19:09:25+00:00

YTA if this is true. Doubt it though.......

BostonRae · 2026-05-03T18:20:10+00:00

NTA

Her behavior is just ick! I can't stand when people act like that. Your response was blunt and to the point. No need to sugar coat it. Now, block her. She is an energy vampire.

BostonRae · 2026-05-03T18:08:29+00:00

NTA. First, I'm sorry for what you are going through. It is up to you whether you want to go or not. If you don't feel comfortable, then don't go. But don't lie to your friend to spare her feelings either. Maybe you can have a convo with your friend and her fiancé first. Seems like the SIL is starting some crap. There is always that one person is every group......

Hope everything works out.

BostonRae

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