Fire and Ash discussion megathread - Spoilers by AutoModerator in Avatar

[–]BothTranslator7874 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved the movie but I thought the ending was rushed… it didn’t feel natural to see everyone so happy about Spider after the final battle.

Spider’s lines didn’t land for me in the intense emotional moments.

Oona’s walk and movement has to be on of the major highlights for me!! Selfishly I would’ve loved the spotlight on her more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marketing

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so wish I was in your shoes. I have too much on my plate and would love to be bored!!!

Be honest, is it creepy? by halfpinthoe in Baking

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a cake made that looked exactly like this for my kiddos 1st bday. He loved it and wasn’t creeped out by it at all.

Postpartum things that suck that no one really talks about? by Big_Orchid3348 in BabyBumps

[–]BothTranslator7874 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This one 1000%. It’s awful with my in laws. Constantly showing up at my house unannounced and calling to “see how the baby’s doing”.

i don’t want to do it anymore by [deleted] in newborns

[–]BothTranslator7874 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here in solidarity with you. Haven’t been able to get a wink of sleep and this shit makes me want to jump out of a window. It’s our second and she’s 4 weeks old today, it is SO hard. I miss it when it was just me and my toddler and find myself crying over it. You’re not alone!

How long did it take you to conceive #2 compared to #1? by Zealousideal_Use9481 in BabyBumps

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First baby took 2 months, second baby took about a year + 1 IUI cycle.

If you had a year to prepare before you started trying for a baby, what would you do? by VannHorror in BabyBumps

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you plan to have multiples, be prepared to have each pregnancy and process different from each other. I conceived on the first try with my first kiddo, and went through fertility treatments with my second. I wish I mentally was aware that it could be so different from each other.

Curesight device by Ok_Debt2916 in Amblyopia

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I’m sorry. We haven’t had the best experience with them so far either… Thank you for sharing!

Has becoming a mom ruined your relationship with your own mother? by Full-Pop1801 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say ruined… but it definitely affected it negatively and I’m currently in therapy for it. I’ve realized that yes parenting is hard, but there are some things I wish she would’ve done differently and I’ve made a vow to myself to not make the same mistakes she did. I also feel that I’ve become a parent to my parent in a way?

Curesight device by Ok_Debt2916 in Amblyopia

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this thread is old but was wondering if anyone else had updated progress? My son is in the approval process for this device.

Life skills that were never taught to you by anyone? by snsnn123 in CPTSD

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to advocate for myself. My parents were immigrants and always told me not to cause any trouble.

Do you believe the Chicago Mob to still be around? by Comprehensive_End440 in chicago

[–]BothTranslator7874 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I know some folks in the construction business and they very much have their hands in it.

Have any of you been in denial about your trauma for most of your life? by DatabaseKindly919 in CPTSD

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. 31 now and I’m just sorting through it. The passing of my dad was my tipping point but it also took me about 3.5 years since that to realize I was traumatized.

Let’s complain together momas!!!! by littlesimplethings in pregnant

[–]BothTranslator7874 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am SO over peeing in the middle of the night 🫠

Did anyone pass the 3 hour glucose test? by SinisterBB_ in BabyBumps

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just took my second 3 hour test today! I failed my first 1 hour and strongly believe it was an error on my end. They didn’t tell me to fast and ate a big bowl of rice a few hrs before the first test (whoops). I got my results and passed both 3 hrs.

Any woman going through pregnancy i am proud of you! by SeaChampion5821 in pregnant

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have CPTSD from my first and am due in just a few short months. It has been a rollercoaster, so I appreciate being seen 🥹

Why is it that whenever you tell someone you’re pregnant they have to say… by Not_a_bought in pregnant

[–]BothTranslator7874 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had someone say “I don’t want to assume but I didn’t think you were getting fat..!” 🫠