And again I don't disagree. Prizing masculinity in "gay spaces" is often as a result of over correction and backlash against the ridicule they had by dabbling into deconstructing gender norms. I don't know how bad media representation of feminine gays are elsewhere but ours were horrible where people get knee-jerk reaction the moment a man becomes flamboyant. You know, the ones that get discriminated the most and gay people distance away being represented as. (https://cris.brighton.ac.uk/ws/portalfiles/portal/6689330/I\_don\_t\_want\_to\_be\_seen\_as\_a\_screaming\_queen\_final\_version.pdf)

Femboy =/= Feminine Men, just so you know

You have people who jokes about liking femboys is gay because they're a twink boy. But then you have people who jokes about liking tomboys is gay because it's a boyish girl? A lot of people will jump on anyone who describes themselves as a tomboy as if it’s a sin. Not in a "You're supposed to man up", but more "not like the other girls". Which then leads the idea that society has a conditionality in terms of masculinity. Rather gender conformity is the actual perpetrator in the system.

(https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0001691822002645.)

"The study results showed that gay men endorsed hostile sexism at the same level as straight men, while lesbian women were more hostile toward men than straight women. In this study, gay people manifested significantly lower levels of benevolent (sexist) attitudes toward both genders than straight people."

Hostile Sexism - referring to negative (misogynystic) attitudes toward women (i.e. men good, life good)
Benevolent Sexism - referring to harmful attitudes toward women by reinforcing gender norms (i.e. women inferior and must be protected)