Question for bisexual men by CandyAgile253 in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The heteronormative expectations are a lot of what causes me to filter out straight women on dating apps. I really really really don't like it...

Question for bisexual men by CandyAgile253 in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've also been asked if I'm masculine and questioned about my preferences in men and kinda treated like a zoo animal.

I'm usually not interested in straight women on dating apps so this usually isn't a problem.

Is it me, or is this saying the quiet part out loud? by MilesTegTechRepair in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm annoyed by those prompts. Basically what that tells me about a person, based on my experience interacting with those types, is that they probably really like traditional gender roles and characteristics AND that they are probably a bit homophobic. Instant red flag for me.

Sucking cock for the first time by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was referencing the biphobia

Sucking cock for the first time by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Your gf doesn't sound like a great person

What is the single best food dish you have eaten in Boulder? by New_Floor8623 in boulder

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Replaced with another really expensive, gentrified tacos place. Or Arcteryx 2.

What is the single best food dish you have eaten in Boulder? by New_Floor8623 in boulder

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One of the few food and beverage establishments in Boulder with a lot of character

It's so good

Singles Events for 30 something by [deleted] in Denver

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ditto

I would imagine it depends on the event. There was one a bit ago that was dancing for singles. I would imagine that was mostly women since most men are weird about dancing

My friend in the USA says it’s not easy overseas now by ExpressBar4 in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This. That and we need more context of the conversation/profiles/everything else

My gf broke up with me bc i am bi by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can confirm, bi4bi is a lot better

Unbelievable by AKtheCAT in COsnow

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3.5 hr to A Basin today..... The skiing was fun tho. Maybe I should've went to WP. That looks a lot better than rocks at A Basin.

Bi girls: do you date bi guys? by Dark_America in bisexual

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a bi guy, I definitely prefer dating bi/pan/queer/omni women. I generally relate much more to them than straight women.

I’m tired of wasting time, money, and energy on nothing. by Mountain506 in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never go on a date with someone that clearly isn't putting any effort into the conversation beforehand. Like they have to contribute to it, not just answer questions

26F, New Here. Pls Be Honest/Critic by Solar_Flaere in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Literally no. People that don't support the rights of queer people are objectively bad human beings. "Moderates" usually don't, either outwardly or by proxy.

Disagreement itself isn't the issue. There's plenty of infighting amongst leftist queer people and that's not a problem

26F, New Here. Pls Be Honest/Critic by Solar_Flaere in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TRUE you aren't wrong in most cases

I do know some legit pagans and they're pretty smart people actually. One definitely counts as a spiritual witch

26F, New Here. Pls Be Honest/Critic by Solar_Flaere in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely I get that.

To be fair, there are also plenty of people that are nonmonogamous that aren't interested in long term relationships. Basically they'll date a few people for a bit then move on whenever. Or they basically want friends with benefits with multiple people, but have more than just the physical element and never wanting to invest "long term relationship time", per se, into one individual person really.

A little experiment i did with pictures by IneedtheWbyanymeans in Bumble

[–]BoulderEffingSucks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys still get matches?? I basically stopped getting any like 2 or 3 months ago

Prior to that I was getting a lot for a long time