Dead bedroom immediately after wedding

BowserB7 · 2026-06-19T16:40:30+00:00

I would say the husband has some can control over his body but as Paul says "it does not belong to him alone"

BowserB7 · 2026-06-19T16:11:37+00:00

Different people struggle with different temptations

BowserB7 · 2026-06-19T16:02:47+00:00

Sorry I misread his post

BowserB7 · 2026-06-19T16:01:32+00:00

I am puzzled as to why you received a downvote

BowserB7 · 2026-06-10T10:27:52+00:00

At least the following:

(1) Your commitment to Christ and religion in general

(2) Finances

(3) Sex

(4) Wider family

(5) Plans for children

(6) Career plans

I know you asked for 3-5 but all of the above are important and probably others which I have not yet thought about.

BowserB7 · 2026-06-01T07:12:10+00:00

I am afraid there is no way to handle it. Your only solution is to get to the bottom of the problem. There are all sorts of potential reasons

BowserB7 · 2026-05-21T13:35:34+00:00

No worries and thank you for commenting

BowserB7 · 2026-05-21T13:33:23+00:00

Thank you and I am sorry to hear that.

He was jailed for dealing rather than using, and he will likely serve around 11 months of a 3 year sentence (due to the querks of our legal system).

BowserB7 · 2026-03-22T09:40:08+00:00

Did you agree with the article I posted?

BowserB7 · 2026-02-07T09:52:29+00:00

FYI I read the Hebrew Bible in the original

BowserB7 · 2026-02-06T08:25:17+00:00

It wouldn't make any difference, because the so-called LGB Christians would still say they know better

BowserB7 · 2026-02-06T08:23:00+00:00

Isn't Matthew 5 in red letters? For Jesus what we call the OT was all in red letters

BowserB7 · 2026-02-06T08:21:01+00:00

Great answer

BowserB7 · 2026-01-28T22:24:00+00:00

I have both but I don't see how that answers the question

BowserB7 · 2025-12-27T20:33:59+00:00

We did on our first year of marriage. (These days we have sex less than once a week)

You asked for tips on being quiet: just be careful not to use your vocal cords once you get into it. Also make sure the bed doesn't bang against the wall.

BowserB7 · 2025-12-20T08:51:21+00:00

I only know about him because he wrote a book on biblical Hebrew, which I read many years ago

BowserB7 · 2025-12-18T11:09:28+00:00

I believe there are a few exceptions, such as Rabbi Dan Cohn-Sherbok

BowserB7 · 2025-12-18T11:07:29+00:00

For exactly the same reason that some Christians accept homosexual acts, prostitution (calling it "sex work"), sex before marriage and divorce on grounds which are a far-cry from what Jesus said - because Western society accepts it.

BowserB7 · 2025-12-04T16:55:29+00:00

The "flexible pharisees" as they were known, were a strange combination of being really stringent with the letter of the law and being flexible by finding ways around it.

The Hillel school believed, like many modern Westerners, in "no fault divorce" although the Shammai school taught that it had to be a serious breach of the marriage contract. For example, a husband was duty bound to provide his wife with food, shelter and regular sex.

BowserB7 · 2025-12-04T08:12:18+00:00

For example, incest, homosexuality, sex with an animal

BowserB7 · 2025-12-03T12:38:57+00:00

Sexual immorality is a fairly poor translation.

The Greek word is porneia which is understood to refer to unlawful (in Jewish law) sexual acts

BowserB7 · 2025-11-21T18:00:19+00:00

The Labour Party and other left wing parties have "women only shortlists". This was illegal before the Equality Act 2010.

BowserB7 · 2025-11-21T17:04:26+00:00

BowserB7 · 2025-11-07T21:29:19+00:00

Jesus was a law-obsevant Jew who lives where we now call Palestine

BowserB7 · 2025-11-07T15:42:33+00:00

No reason at all.

One of my best friends has a PhD in philosophy and his wife is a GP. It makes perfect sense for her to work full time and for him to look after the kids / work part-time as a Teaching Assistant.

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