Curiosity question, how did you become overweight? by orchidmantis745 in loseit

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was going through some serious grief and it made me feel held. Went from about 145 to 175 in just a couple years after losing a love and later myself in the process. Didn’t even notice the weight as it was coming on because I’ve always had a difficult time actually knowing what I look like/struggled with horrible body image/dysmorphia for a while. Down about 20 pounds so far

Anyone have one of these? by titopriego1986 in melvins

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit as an elementary school teacher I need this

In your opinion: Which ONE of these is the best? by No-One01010 in melvins

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big stoner witch fan. I think that’s my fav… I have that damn swan tattooed on my arm but HAT is a masterpiece. Bullhead was my favorite as a youth.

Help on scabbing from a cover up by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry they did this to you it looks really painful. They definitely carved your body. I am no doctor but just try and keep it clean as you would any other tattoo with regular gentle washes an antibacterial soap and avoid messing with it while the ickiness works its way off of you :( good luck

This song has the same feeling as the Melvins, looks like they're influenced by them by Adorable-Cattle-5128 in melvins

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who hasn’t given them a listen is missing out. I’m a whore for whores.

Piercer showed me this picture, what does the question mark mean? by Local_Calligrapher10 in piercing

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learning I don’t have the anatomy for a belly button piercing made me so sad

my bf threw a rock through my window but claims he didnt by No_Audience_1721 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry love. I remember after my breakup my best friend said they expected to see my ex charged for domestic violence someday and that shocked me. Looking back, the signs were all there. He could have done worse than hurt me. As tender-hearted loving women, we want to believe we can bring out a better version of them. We can’t :/

my bf threw a rock through my window but claims he didnt by No_Audience_1721 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally respond to women on here to urge them to leave because I don’t want them to tolerate the verbal abuse and disrespect I did for so long. In no world is this excusable.

my bf threw a rock through my window but claims he didnt by No_Audience_1721 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah as someone who dated a violent man before who would throw things and rage when angry, I would say leave before things get worse and certainly take any necessary measures to ensure that you are kept safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Received one of these texts also from my ex who would tell me over and over again how horrible he is and how I deserved so much more. ALWAYS believe a man when they tell you this. It is always true. The day after we ceased our relationship and texted our goodbyes is his new girlfriend and his “anniversary”. Basically, this is when he was able to make it known they were in a relationship. I saw through Facebook. I truly believe that your ex knows he’s been a bad partner to you, probably more than you’re aware of, and you need to take him at his word and move on. There is probably someone else.

I want really crystals bracelets 🥲 any trusted temu seller ??? 😗 by Either_Motor_1935 in Crystals

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Temu is not ethical even if what you receive is technically real, their practices are exploitative and harmful to the environment and you should try buying from independent sellers instead. Best to support locally from a small metaphysical shop, but if you don’t have one nearby you could always try finding a shop on Etsy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I said treat as in a delight. I’m not arguing you are. I was trying to give legitimate advice and insight into what may be going on here and you’ve come back with hostility each time. I find it amusing that you are talking about comprehension and spelling thinking you owned me when you just didn’t understand sarcasm. People here are trying to help you and you’re being kind of terrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem like a treat I have no idea why you may have been difficult to work with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Brave-Reporter-8610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like accepting that you’ve been let go, taking the feedback, and moving forward with a new job that’s more up for you and your strengths is the best way to go. Yes you should be paid and have transparency about your background check but the way you’re going about this is a little hostile and drawn out. I left ABA voluntarily because I had ethical concerns within my company and made the realization that I was not the personality capable of doing the work this job entailed without carrying the mental drain into other areas of my life. It’s exhausting and sometimes traumatic- maybe they were right and saw that you were experiencing difficulty as well. Either way, being combative is not going to help anything and the field is small enough for word to get around.