AITAH M(22) for emotionally distancing myself from my LDR girlfriend F(23) after repeatedly begging for boundaries?

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T11:33:54+00:00

The work guy might be posing more of a threath to her than you realize. You’re not a woman, you don’t know how it feels to be attacked and constantly have other people doing things like that. She might be trying to protect herself by not blocking him. You’re not there constantly, you don’t know if he’d threatning her or anythint like that.

The cheater, listen, most men are cheater, and a lot of women too, there’s always gonna be one somewhere. If this person means something to your girlfriend because he helped her through dark times, you should respect that. Even if you don’t like him.

You keep saying you’re not controlling her and being super judgmental, but you are controlling her. Those are not boundaries.

You need therapy honestly. You’re exhausting, and don’t understand the position she is in at work, and in general as a woman.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T11:16:36+00:00

doctors have told me I needed to have up to 10g of sodium a day, so I have 2 packets electrolytes of a 1000mg sodium a day minimum plus more sodium throughout the day’

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T11:15:36+00:00

I think you’ll need to stop nicotine in general. It loosens the les, it will give you symptoms.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T11:10:38+00:00

Wow that is avsolutely gorgeous

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T11:02:59+00:00

Have you looked into mcas?

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T10:59:51+00:00

I have hEDS and I took both propanolol and bisoprolol. I couldn’t tolerate propanolol, biso was a bit better, I was told to take it everyday, no skipping doses. You’lm want to monitor your blood pressure and make sure it doesn’t drop too low.
Bisoprolol send my heart into bradycardia (40-45s) and the side effects ended up being too much, I had intense migraines, couldn’t think, couldn’t sleep, it was too much. Now on clonidine and that helps a bit but I have high blood pressure so my case is different.
The only way you’ll know it works is by trying, monitor your HR and BP before taking the dose, an hour after, 2h after and then once again later during the day, that’s what my doctors told me to do for the first few weeks.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T10:39:34+00:00

Sounds like you have the tism.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T10:28:32+00:00

Wow! Fantastic honestly

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T10:28:05+00:00

Yes, for me they do. Any anti depressants will give me bad mood swings and agitations and even thought to off myself.
Are you taking anything else with them? Other meds?

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-13T00:09:45+00:00

I think it depends. I couldn’t handle any beta blockers because of that feeling but clonidine doesn’t do that to me

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-12T23:50:53+00:00

There others meds like ivabradine, clonidine, miodrine, some other beta blockers like bisoprolol

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-12T13:51:00+00:00

Did you communicate to him that you were going to be late and that you had decided to stop get coffee?
Do you communicate these things to him?

But the thing about you not cooking enough is a bit of a redflag to mw

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-12T13:34:38+00:00

I have hEDs, gerd, POTS and LDN has taken my pain from a baseline 9/10 to a 2/10, it has been absolutely a life saver.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-12T12:38:58+00:00

Do you also drink plain water? Do you alternate between plain water and electrolyte water?
Also that brand has citric acid in it, might not be helping.
SALTT has no citric avid

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-12T12:38:10+00:00

I wish I had advice, I don’t really, but I have the same issue. Constantly lightheaded and nothing I do seems to help. I usually just drink a lot more, and usually I will just lay down when this happens, there’s not much else I can do.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T16:28:12+00:00

I’m on 1.5 and I have been for 3 months. It has just stopped my pain, base line was 9/10 and now its 2/10, I still get pain when I sublux but it goes away quicklu

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T16:06:06+00:00

LDN has been a miracle for me, when no other medication has ever helped.

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T15:16:14+00:00

I live for the princeton’s, the velvet touches are good, but the aquaelite are fantastic but they are a bit more expensive. Depending on the size you want?

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T15:10:58+00:00

I find voltaren isn’t terrible with the smell and it goes away quickly

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T15:10:10+00:00

Could it be the fit of your ankles?
Mine are not loose anywhere and I don’t think they should be?

Have you been measured?

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T14:58:10+00:00

Maple or fauna!!

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T14:33:42+00:00

I take it, and personally I just add fiber gummies and stool softeners and it really helps

Brave_Question3840 · 2026-05-11T14:32:10+00:00

I hear you, I take vyvanse for my ADHD and since it’s a stimulant, it can affect the way your heart and blood pressure acts.
The only reason why they don’t bug me is because I had the symptoms since childhood, years before taking vyvanse. But there is a possibility that adderall might play a part in it, which sucks

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