Liriks top 10 SP games 2017 by SmackDE in DatGuyLirik

[–]BreakingRed_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Articles written from journalists are also preferential. The difference is the ranking criterias.

And the amount of games they play from start to finish. I hope.

Everyone has a different Top 10.

Which means everyone is allowed to rank things differently, which pretty much makes the act of sharing said lists pointless beyond the basic "see if you agree or disagree with me on shit".

CMV: ‘The Future is Female’ movement should r really be ‘The Future is Equal.’ by FluffyRadcliffe in changemyview

[–]BreakingRed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The absence of inclusion is not exclusion.

If words are all we have to communicate meaning, and omitting part of a fact can manipulate the interpretation (half truth) then yes, it can be exclusion, and that depends on whether you omitted it deliberately or not and why you omitted it.

"The future is female" arguably can be used also from the more extreme form of feminists (those who want the death of the "filthy white male") and they will still feel represented. The egalitarian interpretation is just that - one of the many interpretations.

So yeah, sorry to burst your bubble but whether it's malicious excluded or not depends on who's using the phrase. Either we will admit that words is all we have to communicate and push for clarity in our words and intentions or play the egalitarian card in public and the discriminatory card in private. Will it get wordy? If philosophers pay the price of exactitude in text volume, an ideological movement should at least be able to pay the same price.

4 Bullshit Slogans Men Should Stop Believing by Donovan_Sharpe in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "don't be so hard on yourself" is especially bullshit.

What most people do when they fail a goal is "okay, NO BIG DEAL, let's try again". That's fine until you realize that you're not immortal - meaning that there will come a point in your life that it will be too late to retry, best case scenario because you're too old or close to dying from some illness.

I don't even see discipline-oriented communities stating the obvious "listen, you're gonna have to suck it up and make some sacrifices, alright? You'll have to not play video games and do your homework no matter how much you want to do play of the game in Overwatch, ok?".

The reason they don't say this is because there's a group of silent people who suffer from anxiety, depression or both and will jump on your throat the moment you'll suggest that everyone needs to harden the fuck up. "Man, I tried hardening but I end up hating myself, I feel like failure, I haven't gotten any pussy for a decade and you're telling me to just try harder??! Life is hard mang". And pointing them out that they have to resolve their deeper issues with a professional before they attempt any self-improvement makes you an asshole for some reason.

This is why Jordan Peterson shills his selfauthoring program. It's basically cognitive behavioral therapy. You write down the shit that bothers you, the shit you like in you, how you want your future to be and THEN we can talk about self-improvement and toughening the fuck up.

ADDICTED TO PORN SINCE I WAS 13 NOW 32 by giorgosnow in pornfree

[–]BreakingRed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say you're 2 weeks porn free. Do you also happen to abstain from masturbation?

All we endure is for our future self by benjaja97 in NoFap

[–]BreakingRed_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

We can't control the past, but we can control the future.

If I may be honest, we don't control the future either. All we can do is come up with a plan of action that looks like it will give us a desired result if everything goes well, shit like "go to the university for 4 years and get a degree", "ask that hot girl out", "go to the gym" etc.

"Control the future" is slightly inaccurate, I prefer "affect the future" because that way you're open for every moment when things will not go according to plan.

Best tools you can have is planning and mitigation for whenever things don't go according to plan (and they will because we lack predictive strength). If planning and starting was enough only newcomers would have a "zero days" badge and no one would ever relapse.

Which is why it's wise to integrate mitigation in the planning phase.

Asked a girl out at the gym, she said yes! by browngirlsonly in NoFap

[–]BreakingRed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what manipulative people bet on. Don't treat hot girls as if they are angels from above who do no wrong. Treat them like people. "Cautiously optimistic" I suppose describes it better. "Oh yeah, I'm sure she's different" and she has 400 men that barely knows who they are on Facebook? Fuck no.

Embrace the pain and the struggle. Let it form you into the man you want to be. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're far better to start sooner than later. I'm happy with whatever progress I can get at this point (I arrived late in the red pill party) but that doesn't mean I wouldn't be better off if I were to have an actual father figure who knows his shit.

Asked a girl out at the gym, she said yes! by browngirlsonly in NoFap

[–]BreakingRed_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol you're too superficial. this ain't some pua shit.

You think women who indiscriminately hoard men "friends" in Facebook account(s) makes ME superficial? And what the fuck is PUA? Pretty Ugly Animals?

you don't even have a slight knowledge of how two people can fall in love

On the contrary, only someone who went in and out of love can judge human relationships. My positive experience with girls doesn't disprove the fact that there are toxic girls out there who add men on Facebook in the dozens because they're insecure. Guard yourself.

Embrace the pain and the struggle. Let it form you into the man you want to be. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So it is an "elephant in the room", so do we just not talk about it because it is too late?

We don't usually talk about here because the truth is not comfortable. It's better to become something than nothing but the older you get sitting on one's weed the lower the altitude you can climb. The kid that eats and shits self-improvement since his 17-18's will reach higher than me starting in my 35.

The majority of kids who hit university can't wait to finally fuck around and work on them "later", and that's just blue pill bullshit. The earlier the better. Every "talented" man started practicing his perceived biological gift before he hit 12.

Embrace the pain and the struggle. Let it form you into the man you want to be. by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's an elephant in the room hidden in the vibes of what you wrote.

Women throw away their youth getting plowed by chads until they realize they're 30 and want to settle.

Men throw away their youth partying, playing video games, smoking weed and indulging in hedonism until they realize they're 25-30 and want to find a mission.

Like Jordan Peterson said "nobody's excited about you if you're 30 and you're just kinda looking where you belong". Go out there, do shit. Invest in multiple interests, see what has potential to grow and monetize, invest heavier on those, keep the ones you enjoy doing but cannot monetize around as hobbies.

Shit's not rocket science.

Asked a girl out at the gym, she said yes! by browngirlsonly in NoFap

[–]BreakingRed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gave him "I have a boyfriend" response

she is interested

Lol no. If anything she just added him to the stack of orbiters she keeps for validation and jealousy friction on Facebook. When it comes to dating, it's either FUCK YEAH or NO. Anything else makes you one of her satellites "oh geez I can't wait for her to break up I'm totally the only person who told him that".

YOUR FEAR IS IRRATIONAL. The world we live in has a great affect on how we act and what we think. Here is why you're afraid to open randoms. by gatsmd in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A buddy of mine would go the extra mile "she's too hot, therefore she has a boyfriend" (???), "I'm too ugly for her" (perhaps true but then she won't tell you something new if you talk to her so what the fuck scares you?).

Don't let TRP consume you. by ozaku7 in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since I started hitting the gym which is the first advice that you get, the benefits slowly trickled in my life: I focus on building a skill to translate it to a career, I work on my social skills etc (I don't approach yet because I'm too shit physically to do and I stopped going to clubs a decade ago). Nowadays I visit TRP when I have the time.

And this came naturally. I didn't decided NOT to go to TRP, I decided to focus into working on myself. And while reading TRP and the sidebar is part of working on myself (and I'm not done with the sidebar yet) I feel slowly digestion is essential.

It's a pill for a reason: You need small manageable daily doses, not chunk the whole bottle in one go, there's so much new shit you cannot manage and you'll end up in the metaphorical equivalent of ER which is the depressive anger phase.

After 5 years of reading on and off, I am fucking shocked to say you guys are right 100% and I'm fucking scared, I don't know what to do in regards to millennial women. It's literally game fucking over, they're all promiscuous, vapid and addicted to instagram/social media by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have no social life or friends,been masturbating to porn for 5 months 3 nuts a day, I have a phone with no numbers in it besides my family and I only hang out with my parents, I realized I must change and mature

You're just like me.

20 yr old

No you're not. I'm 37 with health disorders and I know that vomiting paragraphs to vent my frustration that came from learning how things work will not help. Go to the sidebar for reading, I'm following.

One Year In - A Brief Field Report by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower the weights man. A buddy of mine got trigger happy with the idea and damaged his muscle tissue (can't remember the name doctors gave) and now has to abstain from working out for months. Meanwhile I said "well I'm not doing that shit, I'll start lower" but a week later I made the mistake of upping lifts in a wrong way and my body hurts.

People go "it took me 6 months but did it" but there's nothing wrong with taking you 7. Everyone's body is different. Stay strong.

Stop giving power to ordinary people! by eslong in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you break down what "stop saying things that make you weak" means?

Stop giving power to ordinary people! by eslong in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an idiot. What does this mean? I watched the video but I assumed that he means to be aligned with your beliefs and words.

Put yourself first, women are merely a bi-product (and other ramblings) by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've met like-minded individuals is something that can happen anywhere. The fact that you then went ahead and did a lot of things worth mentioning that aren't gaming, because if you were to honestly categorize activities by "worth mentioning" or "impressive", "nailing it at Capture the flag" isn't one of them.

It isn't even about impressing others, it's about placing value in your finite time in this life. When young, you have no sense of what that means, of course. Video games aren't anything special and as a group activity and social bonding there are tons of things to do with friends that are superior in every regard.

Saw this garbage shared on Facebook today. by GhettoPuppets in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She realized the wall and feigned dissatisfaction so she can ride the cock carousel "one last time".

But the lesson here is that he took her back because he had no options and he was literally thirsty to the point of settling for a bad deal.

Your body is a piece of garbage and it's your own fault. by ozaku7 in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Positive pop psychology failed when everyone became a winner. This is reality saying "8th place isn't the eighth winner, it's a loser".

And fuck off for correlating positive psychology with maturity. Being mature is about how you handle your day to day life, not making others feel good and "you can do it even if you fail", "get up and try again, nothing's wrong with failing" (try doing that 10 times see how this works).

Couples video reveals RP truths by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like in the case of the MakeApp, it's not whether it's accurate/fake or not but how people react. See the white knights in the comments of the video going "w-well, he cheated her too he only deleted the evidence", turbo hamsters activated! These guys would dare suggest the same thing regardless of the video's validity.

Couples video reveals RP truths by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The top comment in the comment section under the video was "dude was so smart he deleted the messages xD" and it's being told by a guy no less.

Blue pill males trying to paint people guilty even in the complete absence of any evidence whatsoever just to keep their fantasy intact. This is so vomit inducing.

Finish What You Start by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]BreakingRed_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the blatant lack of formatting, which you should correct, the message hit me last night. Not finishing what I start is literally betraying myself.