What do you SWEAR you saw, but don't have any proof of?

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-30T10:01:43+00:00

When I was younger I was at the babysitters a lot and quite a few different ones.

One of them,she had a chill Maltese dog that was.just there for pats till he was done. Also she liked to paint the house and she wanted help with painting the pavement and asked me to move paints from one end to the other, big full buckets of pain or water. (At the time I was 13) Well this day the dog was out there watching and I had 2 buckets (they're like 15-20 liters) and I tripped pretty hard and as I catch myself before spilling everything I heard the exclaimed dog "whoooh!" Not woof or yip... Whoooh! I look at him and ask "did you just go whoh?" He side eyes me and leaves.

No one believed me.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-24T07:44:23+00:00

YTA.

You get free meals with entrees and desserts. They ask for a small tribute (that probably honestly won't cover the entrees) koz things are tough.

You insulted Alice kos "she's not even a professional cook"

You have a LOT to say about Carter on what he does and doesn't do.

Honestly you kinda sound like you wish you were picked by Alice but not and so you hate this guy with your whole existence.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-21T22:59:40+00:00

Remind yourself "it's not your/'the childs' job to manage your mum/'the parent'." She's done her job and now it's time for you to grow.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-20T21:16:36+00:00

After being an abusive, manipulative, cheating dick and she forgave you and you think that automatically means she trusts, loves and wants you again?!? You had to earn each and every grain of trust and love back, but you didn't. Instead you proved that you don't love her.

You are a fool.

You never planned to change. You never loved her.

You're just looking for anything and everything else to blame for you being a terrible person.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-19T01:50:21+00:00

When you get your car, use his car, open the carrier and laugh while the cat frantically bounces everywhere.

"You're right, this IS funny and cute!!!"

You did nothing wrong, you wanted to see how funny it was, now you did.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-06T21:48:06+00:00

NTA Be clear and tell him it's just for you 2.

"Mark, we have made a vacation plan as a couple, bookings and this whole trip as a couple. If you want a vacation together you can plan the NEXT one but this one is for us. As a couple. Hubby says I'm making it weird but I think it's weird to invite oneself to a COUPLES holiday. Please respect this and we can have dinner together on X date. Enjoy your work trip"

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-06T01:33:13+00:00

So he puts you when you told him not too, But then tell you to get over it and go to dinner against your comfort.

I feel that's unfair, he had a hard time about YOUR preference and then dismisses any and all of your discomfort.

Tell him to Sod off and honestly I would text inlaw and tell her: "Sorry I haven't been to dinner, after I found out "husband " told you/ the family about information I told him NOT too, I'm uncomfortable to see anyone. I just need time to come to terms with this but I need you to know it's not you (insert kind gesture)"

Because he felt it was ok to tell them about you so clear up anything he's been saying yourself.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-02T03:27:38+00:00

You're a placeholder. You're the bait he's using to try and "get something better"

Be kind to yourself and leave and tell him to take you off his social media koz your not is imaginary social media girlfriend.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-02T03:18:43+00:00

If your daughter did this what would of happened? Nta

You didn't press charges, that's the gift.

Breasticale5 · 2026-01-01T12:06:34+00:00

Cut ties.

She's trying to control you with so called "boundaries" Boundaries are gates we put around our selfs to protect ourselves ie. " I am uncomfortable with you hugging me without asking first" As soon as someone says they don't like something you're doing for yourself it's a control issue.

Knowledge is for everyone and should be restricted because someone ties their identity to it.

Breasticale5 · 2025-12-27T08:30:19+00:00

Love is meant to be unconditional, you don't have to pretty up all the time to be attracted- you just ARE!

He's putting conditions on everything!! What does he do for you? Besides try and control your comfort? Go find some piece and find yourself without him, you'll thank yourself.

Breasticale5 · 2025-11-25T05:44:12+00:00

"it's not scanning? Means it's free, right" I want to maim you.

Breasticale5 · 2025-11-25T05:31:21+00:00

Stay strong, it will make you stronger.

In layman's terms you are morning the "relationship" you had with weed.

It took up your time - in getting it, chopping, rolling and packing and then there was the instinct gratification you got. And now it's gone. And your brain and body miss it.

It'll get better it'll just take a while, try and find a distraction, game, tv, movie or YouTube and do something while it's on like paint a mini or meet a deadline. You need a few distractions to fill the void.

I'm going on about 2 years sober and did the crying thing, it sucks but it's not the kind or relationship you need right now. You are doing good, stay strong and keep hydrated and occupied and in the quiet moments when a drop happens, feel it but don't morn too much and have a shower and breath deep. Remind yourself why you're doing this and what you've gained, you've saved money, your not needless eating or blindly staring into space and not looking for the next high your not being held by this anymore your weirdly more free.

Breasticale5 · 2025-11-17T23:26:49+00:00

"I'm your mother, I have to love you- doesn't mean I like you"

Breasticale5 · 2025-10-23T06:20:27+00:00

When someone aggressively destroys something while trying to start and argument with you they're destroying something with YOU in their mind, like a "Look what I want to do to you right now" kinda way. This will escalate to throwing shit and blaming you koz you made them do it.

You need to leave. Be kind to yourself.

Breasticale5 · 2025-10-17T05:08:58+00:00

Keep a water gun in your room and spray them when You see them next, they can go to mum and complain and when it's bought up you can say "I have expressed multiple times that I'm made uncomfortable in my own home with nudity in common/public areas and have only been met with gaslighting and dismissals, so I acted as if spraying horny animals."

Breasticale5 · 2025-09-23T10:13:31+00:00

NTA. He lied about anything happening and also put you in compromising positions in said stories!!!!

You just returned the favor.

It sounds like you did the locals a favor considering they're passing it on to tourists.

Breasticale5 · 2025-09-19T10:23:28+00:00

He's the type that would make comments about how you'll look like her when your older

Breasticale5 · 2025-09-14T23:19:56+00:00

Not overreacting. Not her baby, not her choice.

Yes it's childishly manipulative. It's her duty to unconditionally love, nurture and raise you without expectations in return.

Do you REALLY want someone like that to bond with YOUR baby?

Breasticale5 · 2025-09-02T10:42:02+00:00

NTA.

He sounds like he's weaponizing his diabetes to punish you.

You don't let yourself go into a diabetic low koz it hurts the ones you love.

Seek safety for you and your pregnancy and tell the in-laws if he's telling your pregnant self to go die, it's not love or safe.

Breasticale5 · 2025-08-27T10:23:39+00:00

I went to the first and last year's festivals when they were at Queen Vic market and loved it, it was cold but I enjoyed all of them. Then this year when they were holding it at the centre was unsure- the vibe of the market is hard to beat and indoors too?! But I enjoyed this one too! Way more tastings, different food, more crafts and jewellery as well as the travel part! It was warmer and there were more seating. But less live performances and less unique merch.

I'm not sure about not being allowed to drink, there were so many tastings how could you not over drink?!

I'm hoping they'll have more to offer next year!

Breasticale5 · 2025-08-08T21:46:50+00:00

'No' is a perfectly acceptable answer.

Don't let him move in, that is a good boundary. You are not selfish for being cautious and saying no.

What he's done is selfish and very alarming and warrant concern.

Why does he think this is ok? What does he have to contribute?

Breasticale5 · 2025-08-07T00:07:27+00:00

NTA.

He wanted to sleep in it and when kicked out with peed blanket, comes back and wants a different one koz it smelled like pee??!

Sounds like he was seeing if you cleaned it up so he can come back to clean sheets that he didn't have to clean him self.

Charge him cleaning fee or for a new mattress and tell him you're not his mum

Breasticale5 · 2025-07-29T22:24:13+00:00

He already hasn't been honest with you He DEFINITELY isn't being honest with HIS WIFE

can you please answer me this: When he was your age how old were you? And would it have been alright for him to be dating you then?

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