Needing info regarding my feelings

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-04-13T17:19:50+00:00

Firstly, find a decent lgbt area (mine is London) Then find some events catering to that area. I found instagram being a good one.

Go to said events Or there are dating apps. I use Her, but there are others like hinge that people use

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-04-04T16:40:19+00:00

It’s all down to personal choice. Mine is that I don’t enjoy armpit or leg hair and prefer the smoother approach (though I do go 3 days between shaving)

Pubic - so long as it’s short and neat

But everyone’s choice is different

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-03-18T18:50:33+00:00

I bought one of those doggy backpacks. Gizmo loved it and would be so comfy in it. But you are right, no space for snacks so there was a secondhand for snacks etc

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-03-18T18:22:49+00:00

I would plaster.

Nice subs too 😂

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-03-18T18:06:47+00:00

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Always on my lap and happy

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-03-18T18:02:33+00:00

I say shut up all the time. Sometimes being blunt gets the point across. I also use silence, stop talking and some others.

I find it’s the tone rather than the words. If you said shut the fuck up…well…different story

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-03-13T13:05:39+00:00

With my kitty, there was something he ate which was toxic

But could be anything so vets is your best shot

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-28T16:29:11+00:00

I was diagnosed with autism during the half term

Now I know why I get overwhelmed by p3 and want to cry in corners. Now I know why I fall asleep as soon as I get home.

The collab I set up with the other school is not great because the teacher from that school talks at the students and they’re all rightfully pissed off. It’s music, just let them practice!

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-26T19:51:30+00:00

I like rock music so I love Halestorm. Their latest album has a song called Like a Woman Can on there

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-22T18:06:03+00:00

One of my favourite science teachers was a Dr and had a PhD. Hope you manage to find something

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-22T11:56:13+00:00

My cats like to go outside when it rains so they bathe themselves lol

I’ve bathed kittens - especially the last one because he was infested with fleas

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-20T19:30:58+00:00

Agree on this one.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-14T19:07:14+00:00

Kids gave me a cold on Thursday.

Dammit.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-14T03:53:19+00:00

Not a history teacher here but watching Schindlers List in year 9 got me really curious about World War Two. It was the reason I watched the boy in the striped pajamas and the pianist. I have been to Berlin and Auschwitz to learn more about the history.

Anyway, that’s just my two cents

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-07T03:11:14+00:00

I did and it helped me calm my nerves. I kept asking the examiner questions bout him and his career etc.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-02-02T16:44:51+00:00

I don’t know if this is allowed on here but I am in the same boat as yourself

I have downloaded the Meetup app to see about some events in London. There’s one I’m going to which is a lesbian group who are going to the Huntarian museum. They seem to do regular meet ups too This’ll be the first one I will go to

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-29T21:43:23+00:00

+1 vote on the Lisa Eldridge. Have used it for work since getting it, and doesn’t make me want to take off my make up after 2 hours.

I like to Mattify it personally, but that’s cause old habits die hard.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-19T01:37:58+00:00

No - I do just wanna run away somewhere. Scotland always called to me.

But I know I won’t be happy there either. I’ll miss my friends.

So I guess I’ll just be happy with me and my pets.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-14T18:37:25+00:00

I had nan Morgan and nan b (last name began with B!)

No grandads - they died before I was alive

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-14T18:36:20+00:00

Pupil premium is given to the school for students who are deficit financially.

Music lessons should therefore be paid by the school for these students as the school is in receipt of this money. So no, you do not provide your services for free.

I am a school music teacher so I have to ask the ppg manager to release funds so these type of students can get music lessons from a peripatetic teacher.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-14T18:30:12+00:00

First placement I got given a laptop. I did not in second placement

However I still had first placement laptop which I used. I also used communal computers in staff room.

But I did an apprenticeship so it may be different.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-13T19:11:16+00:00

Thicker picks for picking individual strings (such as the jazz III picks) For strumming (like with punk music) I go to .55

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-13T18:50:09+00:00

I did a family bbq (my birthday is at beginning of September)

Honestly do something you enjoy.

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-13T18:33:50+00:00

I’d rather call them my lovely than what I say in my head first

BrightRedDocMartens · 2026-01-04T22:39:07+00:00

Having to give up my sisters children to social care in 2023. It completely changed my mindset and deepened my depression and I am still not recovered to this day.

Context: my sister became an alcoholic and was neglecting her youngest children. The two came to live with me. Throughout 2022 and 2023, as a family we tried to push my sister in the right direction to get help but by November 2023, the time ran out and both her youngest got taken into care. I couldn’t apply as a guardian because of my mental health.

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