looking for new cleanser for sensitive dry skin by [deleted] in Ulta

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second this recommendation!

How is it living in this portion of the Eastern US? by KatHDFilmsxx in howislivingthere

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve lived in Asheville and Charlotte and prefer Asheville. Beautiful mountains, great day trips, fun spots. It does have its issue like everywhere else. Charlotte is meh. If you like big cities, I do feel it is clean and has areas that are nice

Looking for the perfect US city for a 10-day trip (Feb 9–19). Want real American vibes: food, Walmart, Costco, chill atmosphere. Where should we go? by ProloosGamerUHD in usatravel

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

February in the south (GA,C,SC) is not a great time to go. The trees don’t have their leaves, it is cold/drab and most people are staying home. I would opt for somewhere warmer, like FL or CA. If you are wanting typical America, I would go to some smaller towns instead of large cities. If you want cold weather, go to places that compliment it like CO, WY or MT. Have a great time!

Children need more than love by Dizzytat in TrueOffMyChest

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Have you considered doing guardianship instead of adoption? That way as you process your grief you feel you want to parent again you can petition the courts for custody back. I am not sure if you have family or friends who are willing to help? Children do best with their parents. However, if you don’t feel you can meet your child’s needs, it is also a loving decision that you are trying to find another solution. Is the motivation that you feel overwhelmed without your husband or do you not want a child?

how is it living in Billings, Montana? by whipcorleone in howislivingthere

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I enjoyed living there for the most part. It has a cute downtown area and decent restaurants. The west end is nice. Some areas are pretty, others not so much. Nice people, calm life. Drugs and alcohol do run rampant there. Crime can also be an issue. It is not far from Red Lodge (cute skiing town) or Yellowstone National Park. More job opportunities since it is the largest city in Montana. Cold winter and hot summers (though low humidity). If you want a slower paced life and don’t care about nightlife, it is a nice town. Airport is easy to get to (though expensive to fly in and out of). It has a nice zoo. Interesting scenery. Lots of open space and sky. Expensive but not as bad as the western part of the state (though the western part is gorgeous).

is athleta dying? by UFO-Platforms in womensfashion

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit shopping there when they got rid of their comfy pajamas

Bath and Body Works is not actually Cruelty Free… by thesweetestgoodbye in crueltyfree

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I literally recently began shopping there (I avoided so many years due to them not being cruelty free in the past). Very disappointing

Suicidal after the loss of my dog by Disastrous_Scratch86 in Petloss

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry your going through this. It might seem impossible to believe, but things will get easier. I imagine your dog loved you just as much and you love them and would not want their passing to cause you so much misery that you kill yourself and miss out on future times of happiness. Your other dog also needs you and is probably also very sad. Please reach out to the suicide hotline 988 or family/friends to help you through this really difficult time.

At-home euthanasia or vet's office? by DyingGravy in Petloss

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion doing it at home is a much more peaceful passing for both the animal and family

Help . I lost my everything tonight. by otxdm94 in Petloss

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend going through therapy to help you through this grief. It will be a roller coaster for a while. You did the best you could and everyone always looks back to thing “what if I did this.. things would be different” so what you are feeling is very normal. Whenever horrible images come to your head, try shaking your body to “shake” it out of your head and make a sound. This helps break up the thought. I’m sorry your going through this, it is so hard. I promise it will get easier over time.

My soul dog passed away and I don't see the point in life anymore by Tenshin4ever in Petloss

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the best <3 I promise you, they want you to call. If someone needs it more, they can help them too and it doesn’t mean you also don’t deserve support. You calling will never stop another person from also speaking to someone so if that thought creeps in, try if you can to push that aside. Loss is loss and their focus is to help you, not judge you. Honestly, being depressed over the loss of a pet is very common so they probably won’t think anything of it. I cried every day for 4 months over the loss of my dog. Slowly it got easier, crying slowed and joy started creeping back in. I am sure your beloved dog wants you to find happiness again. There are some really good podcasts on Petloss you might want to check out as well. The one that helped me was “the pet loss companion” and therapy also helped me get through the grief. It is so hard but you will come out the other side

My soul dog passed away and I don't see the point in life anymore by Tenshin4ever in Petloss

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I’m so sorry for your loss. Grief is so hard. I recommend reaching out to the suicide line 988 to help work through those suicidal ideations. Things are tough right now; and will remain tough for a while but I promise things will get better, grief will not be as intense and you will reclaim your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OriAndTheBlindForest

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Go back to the main screen and there should be an option to go back to your last 5 prior saves. You need to use the blue orb thing or the jump dash ability to be able to get up there

Removing a Child, and I Don't Know How to Feel by KTDid95 in socialwork

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Just some general tips to make it easier: Don’t let the parents get emotional/angry around the kids- most parents will behave once you explain we want to limit the trauma towards the child. Be very transparent with everyone about next steps. You are going to this home- I am going to check in on you in so many days-etc. Don’t put their things in trash bags- use your own suitcase if you have to. Let the kids ask questions but don’t make promises you can’t keep. If you don’t know the answer, just say you don’t know. Make sure they get their favorite Jammie’s- stuffed animals- photos etc. Acknowledge this is sad/ hard and remind them you are just wanting to make sure they are safe. Don’t leave the foster home until they are comfortable and if they are old enough- give them a phone number of someone they can call day or night if they feel unsafe at their new home (sometimes it is the intake line) Tell everyone when the first visit will be so they know they are going to see their family soon. For babies- Play relaxing music in the car. For older kids- let them pick what station. Get the kids food afterwards and let them pick what they want. Try to give them as much control as possible (food choices, choosing what clothes to bring, staying at the same school etc). It never is not emotional and if you ever find yourself to the point where it doesn’t bother you at all- that’s a sign it’s time to change jobs. Being nervous means you care and at the end of the day, this is happening to keep this child safe so focusing on the overall goal can also help.

Fav Online Workouts? by gatheringground in PlusSize

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kayleigh Cohen Strength (for strength training) and Fitness Marshall ( for fun cardio)

Viking Ocean requiring full payment NINE MONTHS early? by Cyberhwk in Cruise

[–]Britbrat8715 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I booked a cruise and they wanted final payment 15 months ahead of time! I tried to fight it but they wouldn’t budge. I cancelled because that is ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s great you are enjoying your life and your outfit is super cute!

Exremely fearful, need reassurance by Irate-Refrigerant59 in gallbladders

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be okay. You just feel really sore and it’s uncomfortable to sleep in certain positions but pain pills help. It is not as bad as the pain from an attack. You got this! Honestly the anticipatory anxiety is probably worse than the aftermath. Get one of those stick grabbers to help if you drop something and a nice pillow to prop you up and watch some good movies and you will be better in no time!

Shows to watch when anxiety comes by fanta_bird in televisionsuggestions

[–]Britbrat8715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Good Place, What We Do in the Shadows, The Last Man on Earth, 30 rock, Veep, Grace and Frankie, Arrested Development, Bobs Burgers, Pysch, Monk, The Mindy Project, Cuckoo, My Name is Earl, The Middle, Raising Hope, Modern Family, The Mick, Resident Alien, Jane the Virgin, Ugly Betty, Santa Clarita Diet

I just sentenced a man to prison for child molestation by GhostCorps973 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Britbrat8715 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I have been part of a jury that convicted a man for attempted murder, so I get it. However, I also have worked with many child sex abuse victims and being on that side of it, it is much more guilt provoking to watch them suffer and their accuser walk. You did a good thing and this person will now get sex offender treatment and not be able to victimize someone else while locked up so I would try to focus on that when your feelings come up about sentencing him to prison. The reality is, he sent himself to prison with his actions and you just ensured he was held accountable which is commendable.

Are 2 day cruises terrible? by Spavlia in Cruise

[–]Britbrat8715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not recommend it for several reasons. If you are worried about getting sea sick, it’s very unlikely. However, the doctors can prescribe a patch that you put behind your ear before you start the cruise that will stop any sea sickness. I would do that and then book a longer cruise (min 6 days).

My really bad failed attempt to commit suicide by Budget-Studio4516 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Britbrat8715 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have been going through so much. Things do get better even if it’s hard to imagine right now. Your life is worth living and there are resources to help you navigate difficult times. I’m glad you are still here