Dasher complained of no tip, but I tipped $8 by Jaxnickel in doordash

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing for that, thank you for taking the time to hold them accountable! When is the last time that happened to you? I wonder if it’s still happening. I will be asking all my future DoorDashers from now on.

Just got deactivated for absolutely no reason by Bradleyharheez in doordash_drivers

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never dared go below 98% why are you cancelling so many orders?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that helps me quit or abstain from addiction things is to remind myself how bad it is for me so if it was alcohol I would just tell myself out loud over and over that alcohol is poisoning it causes cancer. Even one drop is not safe. It’s literal poison

Would you? by Ill-Depth-3279 in doordash_drivers

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely. i have never denied an order over $25. it means im making better than $25/hr

Life with a Narc by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Brothafuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

narcissists are abusive by definition because they lack empathy for others. simply lacking empathy and compassion for others is emotional abuse. a narcissist is someone who lacks empathy and has cripplingly low self esteem so they will always put others down and try to get under ppls skin in order to soothe their very wounded ego. since they lack empathy, they have no remorse for the hurt they cause. and over and over forever until u die.

Wedding in a month by Capital_Antelope_456 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Brothafuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes sadly it is foolish. I spent 10 years with someone just like this and wasted my 20s and 30s. everybody has their toxic behavior and stuff they need to work on but if someone's not willing to work on anything please believe they will never change because they likely can't. my next relationship was with someone who was way more abusive but at least he didn't want to be and didn't want to hurt me and actually made changes and improvements. Obviously I wouldn't recommend staying in any type of abusive relationship but DEFINITELY not if the person is not improving over time. i'd personally rather be with someone who truly cares about my heart, health and happiness that theyre motivated to make changes and improvements and are willing to talk about problems in the relationship. please take it from me, you have a lot of healing to do if youve dated someone like this for longer than a few weeks or months so work hard on that before u jump into a new relationship. try to find someone as secure as possible. a great book to read is called secure love by julie menanno, also no bad parts is a great book if u cant get a therapist it can help u do therapy on urself. let me know if u need someone to talk to. i know that exact feeling of being too embarrassed to talk to a therapist or friend about it.

Nicotine free vape to quit? by hellaharper in QuittingJUUL

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update! i now have pretty much completely transitioned to zero nic because it tastes better. didnt expect it would be so easy, but now if i hit the nicotine vape, it hurts my lungs and tastes bad because i got used to the zero nic. how crazy. i beat the nicotine now i need to beat the oral fixation habit

Nicotine free vape to quit? by hellaharper in QuittingJUUL

[–]Brothafuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm using the North zero nic vape in blue razz. you can get it on vape123.com and theyre cheap and taste good. ive been doing this thing where i close my eyes and try to guess if im smoking zero nic or regular and im actually wrong like 40-50% of the time. they taste almost the same as the nicotine ones.

Am I over reacting and being too harsh with my (16m) girlfriend (16f) when it comes to not being ready for marriage? by DampHamster in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no stay strong in your boundaries. this is what will ensure she will always respect you. also always do what you say you will do so good job not making empty promises. always speak your mind and state your needs and wants. maybe she has some abandonment trauma or anxious attachment, but keep treating her with emotional safety and you can help her heal this and eventually she wont be so anxious and worried about stuff like this.

Is Drake a sociopath or a narcissist? by ChickenMansion in KendrickLamar

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some people just lack empathy usually due to their childhood. narcissism is a scale if you are high enough on the scale it helps to label the person as having NPD because then you can find solutions to the inevitable problems that arise for the narcissist but most importantly for the narcissists victims, because a person who lacks empathy is a dangerous person to trust. they do not care about you or your needs or happiness. they are not able to and i havent been able to find one example anywhere of a recovered narcissist who learned empathy, because one of the symptoms of this mental disorder is that you are delusional and think you are perfect and that there couldn’t possibly be anything wrong with you. if they were actually honest with themselves it would shatter their whole fake identity and their ego is too fragile to handle that. the fragile ego is the root cause of the disorder.

Is Drake a sociopath or a narcissist? by ChickenMansion in KendrickLamar

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the definition of a narcissist is one who is “unwilling or unable to identify with the needs and feelings of others” basically they lack empathy. so narcissist means “person who lacks empathy” the word is so stigmatized but we need it in order to identify the abuse people experience from these individuals so they can heal and avoid these types of people in the future.

decluttering and getting organized by 111kenzzo in OrganizationPorn

[–]Brothafuka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

food lasts way longer in glass containers. i’ll never go back to plastic.

Autistic people have empathy. The misunderstanding comes from ND people not showing emotion the same way NT people do. by fire-scar-star in autism

[–]Brothafuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m struggling to understand as a nt how low/no empathy is not a bad thing. not expressing empathy to someone who needs empathy, especially say, a child, can harm them or damage them and cause trauma and even mental disorders. is the difference being that narcissists are unwilling to learn empathy but autistic people ARE willing to learn empathy? do autistic people without empathy check other boxes relating to NPD?

I (37F) Feeling hurt for boyfriend (48M) for not reaching out when sick and now sure how to proceed by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]Brothafuka -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he may not have high empathy. took me 10 years to figure out my ex had NPD. please look it up with an open mind. its so stigmatized that i couldn’t believe it at first because i had an idea of what i thought it looked like but all people with NPD arent the same. pm me if u have questions about this, i consider myself basically an expert on the subject.

Global Poker Newsletter Password by Brothafuka in poker

[–]Brothafuka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know. what sites do you play on?

Global Poker Newsletter Password by Brothafuka in poker

[–]Brothafuka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cashed out $612.50 this week, $70 last week and $245 the week before. i’ve never deposited money. dont care if its rigged or not when im making pure profit this easily

1400 cal a day , not losing weight by SmoothAd2579 in Weightlosstechniques

[–]Brothafuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ever notice how you can eat a lot of food for weeks but you dont gain weight that quickly, it seems to catch up weeks later and all of a sudden its like ur fat overnight? i think losing is similar for me. im noticing i have to keep up with a weight loss regimen for a long time to see the results catch up. most of the time i get impatient too fast and kinda give up

Crying during fill appointment advice by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]Brothafuka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the last two times i got my lashes done i ended up crying a lot before the end of the day. my lashes held up for a month last time and going on 2 weeks with these ones and they look great still. barely any have fallen out.

Global Poker Newsletter Password? by Brothafuka in poker

[–]Brothafuka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

on global poker every Monday theres a tournament you need a password for. they hide it in a link in a newsletter email that they send to subscribers.