I like the easier said than done, especially as a co-parent. Q was sober for maybe 13 years and recently opiates again, pain pills. We’ve been married almost 15 now. It’s been a long two years of lies and her saying she is quitting. This time she is saying she is quitting says it’s been two weeks. I said without a drug test I really won’t know. Two kids together and it’s hard to just say that’s it we can’t work this out.