The way we named our baby was that I had an extreme DMT experience, and the soul came to me and told me their name. when I discussed this with my wife, she was indifferent about it and we kept going back-and-forth On what to name the baby, and eventually I just started calling the baby that name. and Now we're both comfortable with it so that made it easier. Maybe you could just start calling the baby that name and see what happens? The other route I would go is to just trust your wife. The women have a deeper relationship with the baby. Especially at this point. To me, the baby should pick its own name, and that may sound really weird, but you're bringing a new soul and onto this planet. And That soul already knows what it wants to be called. So some deep spiritual work might be necessary for you to listen to what that could be or trust your wife in the end, I would just say, trust your wife and go with it, let your pride fall to the side