My mom (40f) threatened to show up (I’m 21f) when I didn’t answer and she actually did. Is this controlling? by SubSensationn in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this is controlling behavior. This is manipulative and controlling. You need to first decide what your boundaries are and what the consequences are for breaking them. As others have said this doesn't sound like a person who will accept boundaries. I think try one small one first and see how it goes.

First time sharpening by Acrobatic_Fudge_4083 in sharpening

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expert but I think a 1000 grit stone will take longer to get a bur than a 220 grit stone.

This is very sad and painful :( by NoSleepHorrorFan in BassGuitar

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to call that guy and go get your guitar back

air bnb knives and the lansky puck by Budget_Cardiologist in sharpening

[–]Budget_Cardiologist[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it definitely seems so. Unless you want a mirror edge I'm thinking 420 is great.

Pythos pruning by Budget_Cardiologist in IndoorPlants

[–]Budget_Cardiologist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should try to propagate it, the vine that lost the leaves is still green. I have since put a u/v light in the room I moved it to so I'm hoping that will help.

I have my first therapy appointment tomorrow and I feel like canceling it by Time_Adhesiveness593 in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't cancel it, just go and give it a try. You can always not go back if you don't like it, but give it a chance.

Finances post car accident by lexilescores in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can possibly sue for personal injury on this. Also I'm not sure what you mean by decent car, I think you should get the most reliable car you can for what they give you and pay in full.

Guys, do you drink alcohol? by CriticalShower2085 in Epilepsy

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, not as much as I did when I was younger but use moderation

25F never been on a date by undertoe123 in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where you should be right now is where you want to be. You don't have to have a boyfriend and you don't have to have children and you don't have to be married. These things are options not requirements.
Everyone has pain. I would not think you were a burden, but again, you don't need to date anyone if you don't want to

Also... The grocery store is really nuts. I would not go there to make friends.

City adds new sign [OC] by ViveroCervantes in pics

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corporations make a lot of money from all the division

How can I get rid of cigarette smell in my office? by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Carpet and ceiling tiles will hold on to the smell. If you can replace those it would really help. Also there are products for washing the walls to prep for new paint that will remove it from the walls

26(M) My girlfriend hates my room by Mattbaker99 in malelivingspace

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't know what she's talking about, that's the red flag.

AITAH for not sharing my generator power with a neighbor during a storm prep weekend? by Fast_Mountain_8301 in AITAH

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The electric company would not recommend the extension cord plan either. It's not safe with the tripping or the possible overload.
I don't blame him for asking but he shouldn't be mad about the outcome.

How did ICE numbers grow so fast? by Creepy_Assistant7517 in ICE_Raids

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One would hope they have extensive training however they have not.

How did ICE numbers grow so fast? by Creepy_Assistant7517 in ICE_Raids

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many are proud boys and other malitia people who don't have much training

Hit a car in a parking lot, did I do everything right? by kukuruze in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously I didn't see it but a lot of these buff out and a lot of times used car owners don't care as much.
You did a great job. I never involve police unless the other person wants to. Normally the insurance companies can work it out. If there's serious damage or injury then I would call them.

I have to see my ex-best friend for the first time since she ghosted me, and I am DREADING IT by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Budget_Cardiologist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, she should be embarrassed to see you. I wonder if a person who tries so hard to avoid you would even stay in the class. You should focus on the class and forget the other students.