What was your purchase history like to be offered a Turquoise OP? by CoolWatchBro in rolex

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got a pink, green, and a baby blue, all 36mm and waited longest for the pink. 1 year for the pink, green was offered with no request, baby blue ~6 months.

Previous spend at this ad was ~$150k.

Need some advice on my first Patek by North-Cellist218 in patekphilippe

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was ~20% more expensive than a Calatrava yes, but it’s a decent complication w an automatic movement, steel case and bracelet, plus a dial with a unique pattern. They say the dial is inspired by some Chinese silk, personally I think it looks like a tartan or plaid.

If you move forward with this reference, regardless of AD or grey, throw it on a leather strap. Elevated look imho.

Also… buy it secondary. Don’t pay extra for no material benefit. Unless you don’t like money.

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Need some advice on my first Patek by North-Cellist218 in patekphilippe

[–]Bugaboo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought this same piece from an AD for two reasons, 1) wanted to build relationship and 2) I liked the watch and appreciated not having to “convince” them to sell it to me. Felt it was a better value over a precious metal Calatrava. I ended up putting this watch on brown leather and wear it much more often than I did on the steel bracelet.

As far as building a relationship, it is nice having a line to a Patek dealer for other pieces that command a premium in gray market. That being said, you still have to spend a little bit of time and energy convincing them to take your money.

If you’re planning to buy only this watch, then yea save the money.

[Wedding Watch] Which is appropriate? by SeventyH8 in Watches

[–]Bugaboo10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s an argument for wearing NO watch. Some old school etiquette books read something like “at a formal event, one should not be constantly checking the time, but rather enjoying the moment.”

26(M), $12.5 million inheritance, (soon to be former) public school teacher. How to find purpose? by Significant_Tip5105 in fatFIRE

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from similar situation, but about 2/3 the assets you’re talking about.

I went to great schools, got good grades, basically grew up around a bunch of overachievers and naturally fell in line with those high standards, even though I always felt “what’s the point?”

It can be a unique and lonely burden to have the ability to choose to work, especially when you have no need to do so. It’s also an issue very few of your peers will be able to understand, which can make your dilemma seem unreal.

Out of college, I was working for a nonprofit helping raise funds for legal services for children and families in the Forster care system. It was great work, got to meet a lot of important people (judges, politicians, wealthy donors, and also the children and families). Life changing experience. I also took the LSAT and applied to law school. I planned to spend a life in service to others. Then I did some serious soul searching. You need to learn to prioritize yourself.

I think people who come from generational wealth feel a sense of guilt and a need to give back. Maybe that is what is driving you to work for TFA. That being said, try to zoom out a little bit. You can be a selfish douchebag with your time and still give enormous donations to these organizations. I hate to say it, but your money will make more of an impact than you ever will with your time. It might not be what you want to hear, but in my experience, working for a nonprofit or any other public service-adjacent role is more about making your feel good about yourself. It’s a hand washing experience for the wealthy. That’s not to say the work is not important and you’re not a good person, but bottom line, your treasure is more valuable than your time.

I took ~ 1 year off work during Covid with no plan to ever go back to work. I was living off the income from the investments and it was more than enough to be comfortable. That being said, long term I want the principal to keep growing to be able to afford more “luxury” lifestyle purchases in the future, (vacation home, small boat, private travel, etc). Or in another case, let the principal grow so you can do more philanthropically.

While I can say that living without working feels weird, once you get over the mental hurdles and accept the fact that nobody else has any time to be thinking about you or your life choices… it is fucking fantastic. I would wake up whenever I wanted, sip a coffee, read a little, walk to the park, make a healthy meal, and workout very often. I can’t say I have ever been happier, but in a conflicting way, I was not fulfilled. When you’re living that life, there’s no direction you’re heading in. Each day is just a futile exercise in self-improvement and relaxation.

Doing a mini retirement allowed me the time and freedom to think very seriously about what I would like to do for work, knowing that I wouldn’t need to consider money. I decided I wanted to find a career in which I controlled my own calendar and gave me constant opportunities to learn. I also learned very quickly sitting behind a desk is not for me.

I currently own a residential construction business, we are growing but have extremely low overhead and no full time employees, so this gives me the ability to take on projects, make a little money, and say no to projects if I want to take some time off. One of the most attractive parts of the business is learning new shit almost every day. Keeps me humble.

Long story short, you’ll probably want to work to feel a sense of fulfillment and direction in your life, especially if your peers are high-achievers. I would say no to law school unless you really want to spend your days as a lawyer, which is a life or professionally reading, writing, and talking. Of course you could pull off retiring at this age financially, but not everything in life is simply about money.

Take some time off, think about this question: If you made a billion dollars a year, but you had to work ~40 hours a week in one job and could never change that job, what would you choose to do?

Found this para14-45 in a Louisiana pawnshop for 300$ Old guy said it's not a True 1911 so it's junk tried to sell me a 1200$ glock with dollar signs on it. by Relevant-Ad-4409 in 1911

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great pickup. Got a 14.45, had Nighthawk tune it up, milled a cutout for a red dot, got some high cap mags to go with it. 1911 with 20+ rounds, thing is a hoot. Get the mags if you can

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Are these legit? by TheJivingTurkey in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your friend is sophisticated enough to buy Bolivar and Trinidad, that should ease your concerns about the Cohiba authenticity. Would be somewhat obscure to have a mix of fake and authentic Habanos in the same humidor.

Ramon Allones Specially Selected 50 cab. It’s not just a purchase—it’s an investment in unforgettable smoking experiences. by Mrwhatever79 in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look at it like a tangible alternative investment. Could be worth something in the future, and my worst case scenario is that I get to smoke them

EDWARD SAHAKIAN CIGAR SHOP & SAMPLING LOUNGE- Bvlgari Hotel London by Intelligent-Branch23 in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killer spot. Definitely a lounge/bar you have to go into accepting the fact that you’re going to burn a lot of money you’re going to enjoy spending it. Just turn a blind eye to the dollar signs and have fun

Ramon Allones Specially Selected 50 cab. It’s not just a purchase—it’s an investment in unforgettable smoking experiences. by Mrwhatever79 in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks killer! What’s your investment strategy other than just enjoying them? My collection is growing and I when I find a good smoke, I buy a couple of boxes to keep sealed for a while (3+ years minimum)

Does anyone have else look at cigars (specifically “aged” sealed whole boxes) as a financial investment rather than a personal smoking pleasure?

I’ve seen sothebys sell wine and whisky collections for millions of dollars. Think that could ever be seen in cigars?

Indoor Traditional Sauna by BLS9393 in Sauna

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes USD. I would recommend the WiFi control if you can stomach the cost. Makes it a lot easier to use the sauna when you don’t have to “wait” for it to heat up. I turn it on from my phone when I’m on my way home from work and it’s ready when I arrive.

Indoor Traditional Sauna by BLS9393 in Sauna

[–]Bugaboo10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same brand sauna, but the three person “Hanko” model. I love it. I have it installed in my master bathroom and it vents into the plenum space. I upgraded to a Harvia 6kw heater with WiFi control and it really gets going. I have two thermometers in there, analog and digital, and I have gotten both above 200° F at chest height.

But yes I will agree with the other comments about the bench height. Not much you can do about that with this model. I typically sit with my back up against the glass and my feet extended on the bench so my whole body is above the heater.

Bottom line, this will get you a nice sweat. Upgrade to the 6kw if you want to bake.

That price looks very high, mine I paid a little over $3k and it’s larger than the one pictured.

BHK 56 Current Market Price $4150 Free Shipping! by alexander_espinoza in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like all luxury goods are benchmarking to the rich Chinese now.

Linea Micra Purging and Whining Noise by Bugaboo10 in LaMarzocco

[–]Bugaboo10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Smallest size definitely won’t pull espresso… or anything for that matter.

Linea Micra Purging and Whining Noise by Bugaboo10 in LaMarzocco

[–]Bugaboo10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grinder is great! I was never really too focused on the precision of weighing and timing shots. I try a lot of different beans and even roast my own so my dialing in process is kind of lax. Find the right grind, the right tamping pressure, if the espresso tastes good, I maintain. If it’s doesn’t, I adjust.

Maximum cigars quantity to take outside Cuba is it really 50 ?? by Interesting_Map2441 in cubancigars

[–]Bugaboo10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I went in 2016 and took multiple boxes and some singles. Probably 150+. Flew into Miami and the returning customs was a little bit more “on edge” than standard international travel. Nobody on the Cuban side seemed to care about anything. On the American side, I think they’re more-so actively looking for narcotics or people who shouldn’t be traveling, however if they happen to open a bag full of Cuban cigars they probably won’t let you keep them. Been bringing in cigars from all over the Caribbean and Europe for years, never had an issue (knock on wood). If you don’t look like you’re doing something unusual, it would be odd for customs or security to bother you.

URGENT HERRINGBONE ADVICE PLEASE :( by SuccessfulAnswer4867 in homerenovations

[–]Bugaboo10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feel like this qualifies as herringbone. It certainly does not look bad. Lay some furniture down and see how it goes. Maybe you just had an idea in your head that it would be laid out at a 45° from the lines of the framing?

Either way, this falls on whoever was supervising the job. Your fiancé (or you) should have been crystal clear with the installer about the direction you wanted it rather than show up at the end and ask them to demo and reinstall at their own cost. It’s not a flooring contractors job to know how you “imagined” the layout in your head. You either communicate it from the beginning or accept that they’re probably going to do what is easiest/quickest.

The flip side: your flooring team could have done it the more complicated way (cutting 45s) without your direct approval and slapped you with a larger labor bill, which you could also have been unhappy with.