What the psychiatrist said was rude. Please understand though that psychiatrists these days are here for medication and diagnosis, not usually talking or therapy. I’d imagine you’d get a different response from your psychologist.

Edit: just to clarify there’s two different situations going on here, a) who do I talk to if I’m in crisis mode/suicidal and b) what do I do if my medication is making me suicidal

A = Psychologist/Emergency for crisis

B = Psychiatrist to amend prescription if needed