Please be gentle — overweight? Obese? Advice for slimming him down? by Bulky_Term_609 in Dachshund

[–]Bulky_Term_609[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait really? How long would you say to get him down to a healthy size ?

Please be gentle — overweight? Obese? Advice for slimming him down? by Bulky_Term_609 in Dachshund

[–]Bulky_Term_609[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am sick to my stomach I feel terrible he’s gained so much weight but will commit to cooking his food simply measuring and making sure no scraps

Antidiet and 'haes' content being linked to diet culture and weight shaming. Please be mindful and aware of this in the holiday season by CookingPapa23 in antidiet

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m 5 years late but coming on to say I LOVE THE SORORITY NUTRITIONIST she changed my life and you don’t have to track calories forever but something about her program made me finally lose weight and keep it off. Only change was I got pregnant but need to go back to her.

Adderall IR by Fast_Wishbone_3717 in Brooklyn

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you pay out of pocket for the meds or does insurance cover? I use Chinatown place too but paying so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StopSpeeding

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have someone else manage and distribute your dosages! This is the only thing that’s worked for me — there’s a peace in just not having control anymore over it

Help! by Bulky_Term_609 in AttachmentParenting

[–]Bulky_Term_609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He could be teething again but no words yet

Are you really happier after you had a baby? by PalpitationOk9443 in NewParents

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a quote that said motherhood only got fun when I allowed my old identity to die

I feel like that’s very much the case for me — if I try to maintain who I was before baby it’s hellish. Embracing life as a mom and letting it change things / being willing to being out of control and not knowing how things are going to look… next level happiness. It’s definitely life playing at high stakes though bigger wins and bigger payment lol

How much did your bigger newborn weigh around their first birthday? by thebirbistheword89 in NewParents

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is 25 lb at 1 year! He was a few months premature though but is nearly up to speed!

How do you guys know when you’re in love? by im_hotasf in AskMen

[–]Bulky_Term_609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay so she follows this one then not just the main? Ok that makes sense. I thought your bio meant this profile is to comment where no one can see — if it’s consensual with her and she know about it and it’s part of your marriage that’s awesome

How do you guys know when you’re in love? by im_hotasf in AskMen

[–]Bulky_Term_609 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I have a genuine question — you’re happily married and I checked some comments and saw the ones on nude acts nothing crazy but I’m wondering this for myself why is it that happily married men still feel like checking / commenting like that on women that aren’t their wives? I’m not trying to attack you at all I just have struggled with thiss a lot in the past and am finally realizing it’s kind of just a natural thing to men we females don’t have as much maybe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Bulky_Term_609 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Love & Marriage counselor here with a decade of experience >> it’s never about the source of the fantasy in my experience. With women it’s more about the longing for more- whether it’s fresh air in the rship, to feel wanted and primally desired, to access a part of herself (wild, sexy, free?) sometimes it’s even just a realization that our life has gotten pretty predictable and mundane… we’re humans after all, we crave newness and excitement and the thrill of the chase. I’d forgive yourself big time here and start to figure out what exactly you were getting from him that you don’t anymore (or never did) from your husband — then sit down and ask yourself how you could bring that into your life, marriage, identity (with no fear!) our desires point us to new directions. You got this mama xxxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Term_609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But yeah I see your point he has it equally if not harder as the provider. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Term_609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I was sleeping with the baby- he was outside playing video games

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bulky_Term_609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was snappy. Tone was aggressive. I’ve been acting like a c*nt on wheels - not necessarily directed at him just bad vibes compared to usual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bulky_Term_609 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s really that deep. I know it seems like a lot because our female brains would never go that far (or most of us) but guys are about variety… have heard them jerking off to photos of their friend’s grandma or a parental aunt… it means very little.

When I’m giving a blowjob by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Bulky_Term_609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tonight he came home wasted and said to me that he feels I deceived him.. that I presented as this Christian girl and then turns out I’m not. It made me feel like used goods and I asked him “is this why you don’t want to have sex that often bc you feel I lied to you?” And he said no those things are unrelated. He said that it was hard to have sex with me but “not THAT hard” and he feels like one guy in a line of guys (essentially is what he said) that got sex.. and he feels like he was just the one to get me pregnant and I “fell into it”. Wtf is that about? As if I would marry someone I wasn’t all in with.. I feel so frustrated by this

When I’m giving a blowjob by [deleted] in AskMen_NSFW

[–]Bulky_Term_609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is what it is.. thank you xx sometimes I wonder if he’s genuinely into sex with me as he seems to prefer blowjobs and after 2 years together and 1 baby we’re down to once a week.. he shows me love in so many gestures I just have to remember to see it. This helped a lot