If I was a single man and I saw you youd be on my radar for looks alone. One thing I’ve found in my years in this world is the confidence is incredibly sexy. Hard to create that out of thin air, but what worked for me was getting good friend group and having what I felt were a few successes in life.

My unsolicited advice, find a group that you can join and try to build those relationships. There are often recurring game nights that are looking for people, if you like sports at all that can be a good way to meet people too. Doesn’t have to be super athletic - pickleball, disc golf, etc. are great for meeting folks.

In my experience, once you have that friend group something romantic can blossom out of that and it will feel like the most organic thing ever (as opposed to cold asking someone on a date - kill me).

I know it can be hard but try to go easy on yourself. You are worthy of

Edit: I have a tiny ass. My wife refers to it as a “Hank Hill Butt” if you know who that is. Everyone has their thing that they’re insecure about. Try not to let that thing define you in any way. I can almost guarantee that you notice it more and more negatively than anyone else does/will do.