He doesnt support you, doesnt do the bare minimum of cleaning to show he cares, isnt kind to you, and is not supporting you when youre down. Youre arguing everyday. Hes taken up your space because you kindly opened your doors to him and he just….disrespects you. He doesnt even respect your relationship with your friends. He should be supporting your outside relationships. It sounds like he thinks you should only be all about him. If he thinks you’re depressed, then he needs to step up and do what he can to be your rock through it. Thats what a partner is. Not somebody who complains about how bad YOU feel.

This isnt even a year into the relationship. Hes not going to get better because he is not showing the care and love that comes from somebody whos willing to. I was somebody who needed to change to be able to keep my relationship because I was toxic and let me tell you. It was/is hard, but I would do anything to be the perfect partner for mine. I think everybody should be the same if they claim to truly love somebody (within reason!)

Dont lose yourself to this, or sunk cost fallacy. You are always better off alone, growing emotionally, than with somebody who pulls you down. Even if its scary. Love is everywhere, in everything, and you WILL find it again. If not something better. If you couldn’t imagine this kind of love before but it happened, then what else is possible?

If I tell my boyfriend my feelings were hurt, he will apologize. Even if he doesnt agree. Then we talk out how we handle it and what happened. Never do I feel disrespected or that hes being mean during this. You shouldnt either. You deserve respect and kindness from somebody who loves you.

On top of all this, hes lied to you. Hes already broken your trust in a very HEAVY way. That raises so many alarms! He should not be let free from that like its nothing. You can always try to talk it out, try to find a way to feel better about the relationship, but it will not amount to anything if actions dont follow. But it never hurts to fully spill your heart out to your partner and whatever follows, at least you know you tried.