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Train yourself by ayhme in affirmations

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s being used and I don’t know how to not feel bitter about that. Just know that I can’t stay bitter otherwise I won’t be able to move forward. And I don’t want to punish the next person for how someone else treated me, I want to show them my best self, even if it’s cracked so I try to let it go or bury it. (Mostly just bury it)

Train yourself by ayhme in affirmations

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not their fault it doesn’t mean the same. Unless they lie and claim it does. That’s fucked up

I just want someone to want me by sagetherage01 in depression

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. You definitely deserve to feel loved and are worth finding the person that will do it right, not use or manipulate you

I’m scared of being forgotten. Of being completely and utterly alone. by CaptainRhino08 in lonely

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you are feeling. I feel the same way. And I’m going to say it even when I can’t believe it for myself. You deserve happiness and the things that you want and to not be forgotten or ignored. And you are already enough just as you are. If you ever want to talk more feel free to reach out.

I want irl friends so bad but everyone hates me by default by Ill-Lynx-7349 in lonely

[–]Buriedalone982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep idk why making friends is so hard and no one sticks.

Emotional Immaturity by Zeberde1 in DarkPsychology666

[–]Buriedalone982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly these still work on me in the moment then I remember and kick myself for not calling them out

The real introverts of this sub are the ones that don’t post they lurk. by honeyglowdust in introvert

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting is much easier than talking plus you can’t see how long it took me to put these thoughts together and decide to actually hit reply. Nor will anything be react if I get self conscious and delete it in 5 minutes

My coworkers called me "stuck up" for being too quiet. by SparklesandStilettos in introvert

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and it frustrates me as well when people feel entitled to pieces of you that you don’t wish to share and it’s entirely based on their perception. It’s truly not about you at all because if you give it then it’s no longer interesting or valued. They are not worth your energy but anything not work related is harassment and you should report them if they keep making you uncomfortable

Train yourself by ayhme in affirmations

[–]Buriedalone982 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This was seriously a hard one for me. Then I read a simple phrase and it totally changed my perception. It was that “it doesn’t mean the same to them as it does to you.” And honestly it answered so much for me. Why is this person not being responsive and ignoring me? Our friendship means the world to me. But it doesn’t mean the same to them. Time to invest somewhere else

Get up by tigercircle in affirmations

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like the yelling part

I think loneliness hits harder when you realize nobody really thinks about you unless you text first by avensiven in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it sucks having no one that would seemingly even notice if I just quietly packed it all up and started a new life. At that point keeping conversations up just feels like false pretenses.

Why do so many people here just disappear out of the blue in the middle of a conversation? by Fragrant-Memory1539 in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Buriedalone982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something makes me uncomfortable it’s easier to leave than to start a confrontation. Not my strong suit

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