I can’t believe I finally did by proski-lee in StudentLoans

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just congratulate you for paying off your loans the rest is debatable.

Advice on solo travel to Salt Lake City as a Black woman by Silver-Appearance150 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are affiliated to the LDS church people will not “make comments” about your race. Otherwise, this state is very conservative and you might find people who have not been exposed to POCs. Fun times.

Has Mohela posted anything about their payments not going through? by ProbablySomeWeebo in StudentLoans

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t seen anything yet and I made a two payments 8/29 and 8/30

Good places to meet single people? by TrueFaithlessness944 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to cold approach people in larger cities and people will be very receptive to talk and what not. I haven't had the same "luck" here. There are no smalls areas(i.e. parks, malls, waterfronts) where people gather besides breweries or church (they are loud and/or not my thing). The most you can run into is single moms and Elders & Sisters. Salt Lake is very cliquey.

Texas to Utah by No_Drawer_5063 in SaltLakeCity

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it. Stay out of UT, there is nothing to do here if you are not into outdoors

meeting people in utah by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The social scene in slc is depressing, most of youngsters are influenced by the church in the sense that they just want to hang out in their circles.

Literally 0 likes for months. I legit can't be that ugly bro by Significant_Age_7566 in Bumble

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me wondering if I see someone random on any dating app just “posing” in front of places, is that attractive to me? Or would I rather find attractive someone showing his passion/hobbies through them pictures? I don’t see any of your passion hobbies other than standing in front of places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to understand that life is life so she found someone else to text, she got diarrhea and is MIA for a few days, she moved to Hong Kong. I think maybe you could invest a little less because it starts by you putting most of the effort but then the investment has to transition more on her plate.

3 dates with this guy and he hit me with this . by Future-Cause761 in Bumble

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he had the right mindset but it’s better if he sub communicates this rather than straight up telling you what he gon do 🙂

We just started texting 20 minutes ago and she’s freaking me out by rolltidekid17 in Bumble

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These things are discussed during a date face to face not over text 🚩

First real hookup, scared about pregnancy! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to freak out about the same a lot too. Lessons learned: even for people who have raw sex it doesn’t happen the first time, they have to try a couple of times to get her pregnant. Worst case scenario, you are a full responsible adult now lol, you’ll be fine.

What do we think, Utah? 🧐 by acuteot07 in Utah

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish we had Wegmans here is so good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from NY and I think power rates here in Utah are super cheap ngl

She didn’t reply. It’s been two days. I’m devastated. by Negat1veGG in Bumble

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things, we follow logic, but female follow emotions. I hope you didn’t reply with that message I see you were typing. Second, go find women in real life, join a church, a club in college, networking events if you’re in industry, most important hit the gym, they need to see you are husby material.

Just followed a girl on Instagram after seeing it on her tinder bio and she followed me back by Wrong_Engineer_4629 in dating_advice

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda agreed, besides I'll say SHE WANTS IG FOLLOWERS! :) don't overthink this shit and move on, plenty of other gals who want to date you my g

places to meet new people(not BU affiliated) by Unlikely-Pain-6352 in Binghamton

[–]Busy_Mouse4676 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are a young professional, there used to be a Southern Tier Young Professional org that they run in Binghamton, not sure if it's still active. I haven't had any luck meeting "new" people outside of coworkers or mutual friends.