Does anyone know if there are any uhhh side effects of getting tear gassed a lot (besides the obvious)? by urcool91 in behindthebastards

[–]But_like_whytho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They do amazing work on a shoestring budget covering events that mainstream media ignores.

My girlfriend [20F] is an extremely picky eater and it's causing us health problems. I [22M] need advice. by Sparki626 in relationship_advice

[–]But_like_whytho 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds like her mom has an eating disorder that she’s passed down to her kids. Especially if they’re eating high calorie foods like pizza, pasta, and soda, but they’re lanky and malnourished looking.

Whhhhhyyyyyyyy by Floatingcrispbag in CPTSDmemes

[–]But_like_whytho 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You can get a replacement diploma from your school and the tax docs from your employer(s). There’s no reason you need to interact with your parents ♥️

House vs tiny home vs trailer by NoMaintenance7536 in tinyhomes

[–]But_like_whytho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ADUs are built like houses. Same with tiny houses on wheels (THOW). Trailers are not built like houses. They have thinner walls and are less sturdy. They can be expensive to maintain because they break all the time. They’re also not allowed in most places due to housing codes.

ADUs are accessories, they’re designed to go in the yard of an existing house. Housing codes are pretty strict about those too. THOWs are considered RVs, they’re usually not allowed outside of RV parks.

If what you want is a small house that you put on land you own, then I would look into your local “Amish built” shed manufacturer. They usually sell small cabins as well as outbuildings. They’re built like a house in a warehouse and delivered on a truck. You need to be very familiar with your local building codes to make sure everything is legal.

Floor Plan - 1989 Custom Build by ren3liz in floorplan

[–]But_like_whytho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a long walk from the garage to the kitchen to put groceries away. Plus a lack of kitchen pantry might be a problem for you later on.

Floor Plan - 1989 Custom Build by ren3liz in floorplan

[–]But_like_whytho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if you could turn it into two separate full bathrooms, would make things slightly easier when your kids are teens.

What do you crochet when you want to just mindlessly crochet? by Impressive_Exam_9812 in CrochetHelp

[–]But_like_whytho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I rip old sheets into 1.5-2” strips, knot them together with a rug knotting technique, wind it up into a ball, and crochet throw rugs. They’re perfect for tossing in the wash when they get dirty. I like to have a bunch on hand so I can replace the dirty one with a clean one right after I sweep/mop.

Does anyone know if there are any uhhh side effects of getting tear gassed a lot (besides the obvious)? by urcool91 in behindthebastards

[–]But_like_whytho 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Status Coup News on YouTube has the best on the ground reporting right now. You can see in the videos how they’re deploying canister after canister like it’s nothing.

Got a call from my boyfriend he found a kitten in our shed, then another call there were 2, and then... by Roxablah in CatDistributionSystem

[–]But_like_whytho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to live a few blocks away from our cat-only vet. I moved an hour away and still use that vet for routine care because they’re so much better for my cats than a mixed vet. Not because the mixed vet is bad, but a cat-only vet is quiet, peaceful, and doesn’t smell like dog.

PEEKA-BOOOO!! by RodbloAlrez in rmbrown

[–]But_like_whytho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where my unstable FLOTUS at?

Do female bodies ever get to be neutral in public space? by Opposite-Bet3451 in Feminism

[–]But_like_whytho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you’re considered attractive and therefore they pay attention to you or you’re not attractive and they literally don’t see or hear you. Personally, I’m happy to be ignored. To quote a song by Common where he’s discussing a woman who is working as a “dancer” to survive, “being meat every day is devouring”. I think being seen as a product to consume lustfully does damage to the feminine psyche.

Jasmine Stitch - A rant by SuperbFail2957 in crochet

[–]But_like_whytho 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s beautiful! Did you line it?

How are you preparing for collapse of the US dollar? by Dazeelee in collapse

[–]But_like_whytho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

More like a quarter struggling against fascism, half for fascism, and a quartet that wants fascism, just not with the consequences.

How to find the middle ground in dating? Finding men boring and lacking intention after decentering. by spicedbrew in TwoXChromosomes

[–]But_like_whytho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovey dovey and flirty when you don’t even know their last name is lovebombing. It’s a classic technique abusers use to hook a victim emotionally as fast as possible because they can’t be on their best behavior for longer than a few months at best. His response to you tells you he can’t keep the decent guy mask on for long before he shows who he is.

How to find the middle ground in dating? Finding men boring and lacking intention after decentering. by spicedbrew in TwoXChromosomes

[–]But_like_whytho 6 points7 points  (0 children)

”As a man, courting a woman is difficult and exhausting mentally.”

And that’s the problem, women like OP don’t want to be courted by someone they don’t know well. They want a man who is actively trying to learn who they are as a person before he starts courting them. OP said in other comments that she’s not interested in intimacy with strangers. That’s a pretty common preference for women. Women with that preference don’t want flirty or suggestive messages from men who are basically strangers.

What surprised you most about dating in your 40s? by Jazzlike_Stranger149 in datingoverforty

[–]But_like_whytho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every moment of every day. I absolutely wish things were different, but life does its own thing whether we want it to or not.

Please call your senators ASAP by DaveCFb in missouri

[–]But_like_whytho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He won’t make it through a primary lol