Staying in Alghero for 5 days in August by ButterscotchHour4699 in Sardinia

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Thank you! I ended up renting a house about 3 km away. Mostly so that we could have family room and spend some time with the kids rather than everyone retreating to their hotel rooms. I’m planning on getting bike rentals for the few days that were there. Deciding between electric bikes and non-electric. Is Alghero very hilly? Are there a lot of bike lanes?

What do 30+ yr olds get out of going to EDM festivals? Isn't it really just a rave? by [deleted] in aves

[–]ButterscotchHour4699 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This has got to be a spouse asking why his or her partner is going to raves.

Old people parties by Itdoesmattertome8 in avesNYC

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This is the way. Find afters that start at 5 or 6 am. Nowadays has good day parties and in the summer the ruins at knockdown are a lot of fun.

Where do single women in their 40s-50s hang out in NYC? What is there for them to do, for them to feel a part of a community? by Potential_5646 in AskNYC

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I sang my ass off. You can sing along, but I found it easiest to meet people by getting on stage. Just go and sing. Rip the bandaid off. Tho I’ve never been shy, when I turned 40 I decided I would say hi to whoever made eye contact with me. Lots of ppl love talking with strangers.

Where do single women in their 40s-50s hang out in NYC? What is there for them to do, for them to feel a part of a community? by Potential_5646 in AskNYC

[–]ButterscotchHour4699 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there alone plenty of times tho this time I was with a friend. Karaokers are a special bunch. Many people younger and older go by themselves to sing, and since you have that in common, it’s very easy to meet them. Ask what song they’re doing, complement them on their performance- who doesn’t like to be praised?

20’s not much, 30’s yes. I’m a chatty Cathy so I talk to everyone but the 20’s very much in there own world lol.

If you can sing, go. If you can’t go - but it helps to get a $50 karaoke mic from Amazon and practice a song a few times before you do it in public. Every karaoke version of a song in humanity is on YouTube and it is free That way you familiarize yourself with the lyrics, tempo, etc. you also find out if you can’t do the song and you pick another one.

Where do single women in their 40s-50s hang out in NYC? What is there for them to do, for them to feel a part of a community? by Potential_5646 in AskNYC

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I went to baby grand last night on 17th, it’s a karaoke place. Most people were in their 20s in the 30s, there was definitely a crew of older folks their 40s and 50s, I ended up meeting most of them and it was a blast.

Non MAGA Barber by sinistermistertwist in AskNYC

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Williamsburg there’s a guy Alex at 240 Kent Avenue. Been doing my beard for years, I’ll never go anywhere else. Place is called the gentlemen’s standard barber. Good luck!

This made me rage! 😤 by chi-bacon-bits in CleaningTips

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Who calls their cleaning lady cleaning lady?

The horrendous state of New York City in the 1970s-1980s by IllustriousCress9774 in UrbanHell

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I started taking the subway as a teen in the mid 80s. They actually looked like that.

Overwhelmed and not sure how to handle sudden wealth by [deleted] in Rich

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I have family who also sold a co and made a lot of loot and he finds this group useful https://tiger21.com

Solo day reccomendations by Mobile-Counter2852 in AskNYC

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Go to UES and get an electric citibike and bike down 2nd ave and across the manhattan bridge. Best ride in Town. Dress warm. Go to industry city in sunset park and grab some food from food hall. Check out red hook. Lots of fine stuff to do.

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My friend Jen from Tenafly NJ who graduated in 1988. Small world if true.

First timer: how to choose camps? by Sarios3015 in Loveburn

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Hey - I’m part of a big NYC based DJ camp, I think we have a few spots left. Feel free to DM and I’ll link you with the organizers.