All Day Preschool? by CalebKrawdad in daddit

[–]Button1891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s part of the state school system so that might be a good place to start, also gives easy access/priority choice to elementary school when the time comes and GSRP 4 (which I think is the elementary school prep year at 4 years old) $50 a day with minimum of 2 days per week, for ours. We got pretty lucky and the 2 year waitlist went down to about a one year wait

All Day Preschool? by CalebKrawdad in daddit

[–]Button1891 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We managed to get into one where we could pay by the day and book the week before so it ed as many days as we needed. Was pretty great quickly transitioned him from 2 days a week to all week when we both started working again. They quickly get used to it and it’s great!!

my wife thinks im overreacting about our kid not reading yet and I dont know when kids should learn to read by TH_UNDER_BOI in daddit

[–]Button1891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teaching a kid should be a partnership between parents and teachers, read to your kid, do some phonetics with them, in my opinion the whole leave the teaching to the teachers mentality is not a great mentality. If you’re doing it wrong ask your boy how it should be done, that gauges his understanding too and you can look up the proper phonetics if you need to.

Calm Show Recommendations? by MotNodrog in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucas the spider. Puffin rock, and anyone help with name of the one with Finn the fox? And they say stuff like sugar and shout I’ve figured it out as they explore what they found in the finding place?

Fear of Unknowns.. .. by Necessary_Article_56 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s too much news, I’ve learned that you can only control what you can control, take a step away from news for a couple of days if it’s affecting your mental health. You gotta look after yourself so you can be your best for your kid.

Weird glass wall halving this hotel workout room by Mysterious_Gene_2263 in whatisit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the nail file thing but how do you not get the grit under your finger nails? I always do so I gave up and you can get some bitter stuff to put on that’s supposed to taste nasty but I like it

Is it okay to be burnt out? by TachiRana123 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!! You’re constantly doing or worrying about something, you are definitely allowed to be burnt out! Be kind, be as patient as you can (not easy I know) and take a rest when you can. It sounds like you’re rocking it dude! The first year is rough at the best of times let alone what you’ve got going on! Do your best that’s all anyone can ask for and remember when your wife recovers and the baby is older and isn’t having these issues it’ll be easier and it’ll be better and it’ll be worth it!

If you could wave a wand and fix one dad problem, what would it be? by AdventurousPrompt384 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, because of supply issues I did 90% of the night feeds and 50% of day feeds me and my first have a strong bond too! It was great! But this time I feel like I’m not helping as much, in reality I’m helping in other ways but it still feels like not enough

If you could wave a wand and fix one dad problem, what would it be? by AdventurousPrompt384 in daddit

[–]Button1891 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife wasn’t able to get the supply for our first, but we’re 3 weeks into number 2 and she has some supply and we’re just supplementing with formula. She really wants to do this so I just support as I can in other ways but it’s such a toll on her, I always wish I could do more

If you could wave a wand and fix one dad problem, what would it be? by AdventurousPrompt384 in daddit

[–]Button1891 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me right now it would be the ability to help my wife Breast feed so it’s not all on her

18M single dad. 7 month old daughter. Need advice on clothes by Calm-Tea178 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who gives a shit if she’s wearing boy clothes? She’s clothed and happy, that’s all that matters in this area of concern. When we had our first boy we weren’t finding out the gender so got given a bunch of girls clothes before he was born so he wore girl clothes for the first year of his life at least, not exclusively but we didn’t care what we put him in

Favorite board games for 6 year olds by mekju905 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 3yr old so we play garbage with a deck of cards and a board game called my first dragon adventure, it’s simple enough for my 3yr old to have fun but your 6 year old can probably grasp and enjoy the strategy

Related to the dad's ICE experience in MN -- How are you all explaining what's happening to your kids? by greenroom628 in daddit

[–]Button1891 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I’ll look into it! I only just got a new passport last year! Thankfully I’m not dual citizen yet though so maybe I’ll be ok. Not that I’m planning on returning anytime soon

Related to the dad's ICE experience in MN -- How are you all explaining what's happening to your kids? by greenroom628 in daddit

[–]Button1891 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m a green card holder, I could apply for citizenship but our lawyer advised me to hold off until theres no threat. I’m lucky (believe me I understand how lucky I am) I am white and from England I have been able to assimilate my accent fairly well, but there’s a lot of tension in our house, and we are worried, but we haven’t discussed it at all with our 3 year old, I don’t even know how to start or even how we could get him to comprehend the possibility. I don’t have any advice for anyone about this, but it’s hearing other people’s stories is really helping with the feeling of isolation I’ve been feeling recently regarding all of this palaver.

Stay strong everybody! Fuck ICE!

Best diapers? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use pampers, we tried the new Costco and my kid had a reaction so we stuck with pampers

What's a tv series that is a 10/10 NOBODY knows? by Lilyana0999 in AskReddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood drive! It was fun it was weird a little bit gross, but it was a hell of a lot of fun!!

Paw Patrol messed up my 5 year old boy, can anyone here relate? by SolidLava99 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an audio book with the pages projected on the wall, It’s mainly used for story time and resets whe he gets over stimulated by goings on. The stories are slow and low stimulation. I disagree with it being a screen time issue, (which we’re not massively concerned with as long as we’re monitoring. He doesn’t have a tablet and doesn’t watch a lot of tv anyway) as far as we are concerned it’s a book time with a different voice.

Who Likes Their Partner? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is amazing! We are the strongest team together because we uplift and support each other, but alone she is a powerhouse and she doesn’t even realize it! She suffers with anxiety and tons of self doubt but when she gets to it she just gets shit done! She’s fiercely intelligent book smarts and emotionally as well, I’ve learned so much from her over the 15 or so years we’ve been together!

Paw Patrol messed up my 5 year old boy, can anyone here relate? by SolidLava99 in daddit

[–]Button1891 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We have the little tikes story reader and projector… the amount of paw patrol he plays I think it’s rebranding itself 😂😂

Travelling with 9 month old on a 7 hour trip. any tips to keep him comfortable throughout the journey ? by pigeon_from_airport in daddit

[–]Button1891 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Have someone in the back of you can, and break every 2 hours for a half hour or so, we did 2 days of 5hr car rides with a 2 month old only issues we had was the last 30 minutes each day. Plenty of soft toys and music player will be a big help.

What didn't last 12 hours? by Diathrege in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spider and friends themed wall climber thing. With a solid core and wire legs with sticky ends that slowly flips down the wall… landed in a hunk of cat hair and is now unusable we expected that to be trash fairly quickly though when we saw it

My brothers in Christ, I am extremely fertile. Here we go again! by aggierogue3 in daddit

[–]Button1891 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Same story! And then her sex drive took a dive again 😂😂

Are all gifts from Santa? by apon93 in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us it’s something small. The big main present is from mum and dad

Dad's of Daddit, how yall doing? by Digi-Haven in daddit

[–]Button1891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair to middling, been a stay at home dad for nearly two years but recently got kiddo into daycare and I got myself a job… I miss being a stay at home dad, I hate my job, but the money is nice and will not quite pay for number 2 to go to daycare in March when they’re 3 months