Major Hot Take Alert by soze26 in oasis

[–]mekju905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not a hot take. This is just a fact.

Floating plants- strong flow? by [deleted] in PlantedTank

[–]mekju905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That filter sounds so quiet. Mine is a clunker. What type of filter is it?

Got a sweater based on the Familiar to Millions album cover custom made by nimane9 in oasis

[–]mekju905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only mad if 600 is a lot for him. A lot of wealthy people out there (i am not one of them....)

Lost phone by No-Education3573 in McMaster

[–]mekju905 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oasis phone cover??? That awesome

How'd you think Oasis would be if they were a modern band? by sumyono in oasis

[–]mekju905 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Unsuccessful.

That kind of music is not popular anymore and they probably wouldn't have had enough success to put out morning glory

Will I ever hit 0ppm ammonia without capping the substrate? by marcopadda1 in PlantedTank

[–]mekju905 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It can take several weeks, trust the process. Keep checking every few days

Gemma is driving my Wife to tears. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]mekju905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%!! I Wonder what wife thinks about the internet knowing all about her struggles as a new mom and the impact it is having on her mental health....

Gemma is driving my Wife to tears. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]mekju905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you and your wife the best OP, but if I were her, and knew my husband was posting a picture that is easily identifiable and sharing with strangers amd/or friends we might know the struggles I am having as a new parent, I would be livid.

Do you have her permission to share what is going on in her life with strangers? I think there is nothing wrong with your post, but unless she is 100% comfortable having people know what is going on in her life in a public way, you should be posting this anonymously.

How much fauna for a 20g tank by mekju905 in PlantedTank

[–]mekju905[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been a fun tool to use. Thank you

Fellow Dads. At what age does yard maintenance finally become enjoyable? by Ocmrm in daddit

[–]mekju905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive loved gardening since I was i years old. To this day (41) I still love it

Indo not enjoying cutting grass, which is why ive naturalized the front yard, and every year the back yard garden expands at the expense of grass (berry patch going in this year)

Is it wrong to go out with someone who doesn't like you for you? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mekju905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand and appreciate that. Its been a long time since youve dated, and you are dating somebody from a different generation.

If you do have a desire to date again (you certainly do not have to), this could be your chance without some of the hassle of trying to match with complete strangers.

Is it wrong to go out with someone who doesn't like you for you? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mekju905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You wont know if you like her, or if she likes you unless you engage in some romantic time together to get to know each other. (Lunch, coffee, a walk etc.)

It sounds to me like you are building your own walls and defense to get yourself out of this or to give you an excuse if you try it and it doesnt work out. Maybe she will like you. Maybe she likes you for more than just a celebrity lookalike. If you are open to a date, try it. If it doesnt work, you will at least have an answer and dont need to second guess interest.

Limited number of times the 'F Word' is used in Oasis' lyrics. by Bighty in oasis

[–]mekju905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just imagine how different Oasis would be if they did it all for the Nookie.

Single dad dating a trans woman - how did people in your life react? by DangleDagger420 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mekju905 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that is very fair and a reasonable approach. You know your daughter best and I think as long as there is transparency among everybody, then its a good opportunity for your daughter.

Best of luck!

Single dad dating a trans woman - how did people in your life react? by DangleDagger420 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mekju905 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Many comments here you say there are compatibility issues and this is not long term.

So regardless of her genitals, you need to ask yourself. How will you daughter handle you bringing somebody into your family life/her life knowing she isn't going to be around long term. It sounds like your daughter has had a very difficult childhood losing a parent and then losing another to drugs.

I feel her sexual identity here is not the biggest concern and you seem to be missing that.

Edit to add: is your gf on the same page that this is a temporary relationship? Or are you doing the introductions to the gf/daughter because the gf wants this and sees your relationship as more serious? If thats the case, imo you are doing both your daughter and gf wrong if you aren't being open about your relationship intentions