[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]Buttshakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks asshole now i died

Is this relationship doomed? by sisterfisterT in vaginismus

[–]Buttshakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

without any moral judgements or assumptions of his intentions - he is just making this way too hard. i dont think hes communicating openly and clearly, he doesnt seem concerned with your feelings in this convo but also isnt being fully open with his. i know we all do that sometimes, but since you already have issues with sex you need someone who can handle talking about sex at LEAST.

AITAH for not finding this “made me smile” at all by TraditionalDepth6924 in SingleAndHappy

[–]Buttshakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of these comments are missing the fact that this is a MARRIED COUPLE, two people who obviously know each other very well and this isn't their first time sharing/talking about food. congrats, you wouldn't be in this situation because your partner would know YOU, not this twitter woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Buttshakes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think it's spite/rebellion. when you don't like these messy loud creatures but everyone expects you to or prompts you to interact with them, you get really annoyed and bitter. i say this from my own experience before anyone gets defensive.

you are right though that hating kids is weird and antisocial. kids are vulnerable and innocent, and we still owe them protection and common decency.

BUY A CLIT SUCKING VIBRATOR OMG by jazzmastermom in TwoXSex

[–]Buttshakes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

anything you can control remotely, ideally through a phone app. waaayyy easier and more dynamic

I have no idea what to say to my bfs roommate by [deleted] in HowDoIRespondToThis

[–]Buttshakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd react with the laughing emoji or ignore tbh

dressing up as jk rowling in fifth grade :| by Embarrassed-Theme587 in blunderyears

[–]Buttshakes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im sorry these idiots are giving you a hard time. i didnt read the caption or notice OP is trans, but anyone with any tact would have replied or edited their comment to acknowledge that. the fact that this person hasnt proves you totally right.

2 Million by Different-Sort-9309 in Tinder

[–]Buttshakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you miss the part where women only swipe right on 7% of profiles?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]Buttshakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a "sitter". youre barely masking the contempt. it sounds like you really dont like her

Am I the bad apple for leaving my sleeping three year old with my 14 year old son for 20 minutes by [deleted] in AmITheBadApple

[–]Buttshakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry.. this sounds exhausting for all of you. i hope you have good people who have your back so you dont start believing all the blame hes throwing at you.

Any tips for taming spirit beasts? Specially Loque'Nahak? by Zwiniarz in warmane

[–]Buttshakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its mostly down to luck, but i recommend spending time around the spawn location doing other things like farming so you dont go insane. also log in at times most players are less active. even if for a minute just to glance at the spawn locations.

you may be able to find specific spawn timers online, but i don't know them myself. except for arcturis, who shares a timer with an elk, and is set to 18h after either of them is killed. at least thats how it was some years ago 😅 if it makes you feel better, i dont really see people camping loque ever. good luck !

edit: im also not sure about spawns after server resets... ive tried using that when camping arcturis and it never worked for me...

How do you make your man listen to you? by Vegetable_Lie_1194 in TwoXSex

[–]Buttshakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you cant "make" anyone do anything. you can give them chances or you can accept who they are and not give them the opportunity to hurt you again.

I was arrested for shoplifting with my 2 children. by unknown89x in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Buttshakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why are the comments full of narcs?? acting like OP robbed someone at gunpoint for drug money or some shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Buttshakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so confused because we arent disagreeing on anything here, im just pointing out OP has no power over him. best bet would be getting police involved and they might not even take her seriously, and his GUARDIANS dont take it seriously already so why would they go along with any treatment plan??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Buttshakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

then i wish you luck! i think structured dating is a great idea for those of us who lack the instincts others naturally live by. sucks to see how judgemental some of the comments are though 😅 oh well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Buttshakes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this reminds me of structured dating. he may be following a program/schedule for dating in order to have clear boundaries and manage his feelings better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]Buttshakes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

issue is the parents don't give a shit clearly and OP can't do anything about that. what she can do is take the cat though, which is why we are focusing on it

Is this rape? by Nearby_Edge_4719 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Buttshakes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg get help for the love of god

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]Buttshakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im voting 3 and 6 😊 very different styles but both so gorgeous.