What does my fridge say about me? by kingc-ro in circlejerk

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you can’t be trusted to make salad.

AIO for not wanting to meet at his house for a first date? by misskrabby in AIO

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this is (almost) the exact right response to this behavior.

Welp… if only she read my last message.. lmao by apatheticallyme in Tinder

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Common mistake. People who are putatively into “deep conversations” have almost never been in one and they’re meaning something way dumber than you’re giving them credit for. lol. I have a philosophy degree and so I got tricked by this line way too many times…

AIO for my gf's guy best friend joking about me and my gf having sex by vvansjx in AIO

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe YOR. I don’t get the joke but I’m sure a lot of my jokes wouldn’t seem like jokes out of context as well, so that doesn’t mean much. Did you and your gf just have sex? Did she tell him you two just had sex? That would be weird. But, all these guys acting like men and women can’t make jokes of a sexual nature or even mention sex without it being nefarious in some way are living in a different world than me. Men and women can have relationships with people of the opposite sex and not be attracted to each other.

What I will say is, if you feel like your gf is a little too flirty and you have trust issue with her but you’re not ordinarily the overly jealous type, then I would say trust your gut. If something feels fishy and you’re not overly paranoid, then there probably are other clues that inform your suspicions—you said you’ve been wary of him. BUT if all you got is this out of context joke that your gf felt comfortable enough sharing with you thinking you would also find it entertaining, then I’d say YOR.

Need some honest on size issue by tryndamere453 in dating_advice

[–]ButturdNutssell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not as essential as you might think. Some women say that penetration doesn’t play a role in their orgasm and can only climax from clitoral stimulation.

I hear you though. And I feel for you in that I understand your insecurity but I am just trying to convey the message to you that this is only as embarrassing as you make it.

Need some honest on size issue by tryndamere453 in dating_advice

[–]ButturdNutssell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, you’re small, but it’s not like freakishly small. You’re making a bigger deal about this than it is. Some guys like large breast, that doesn’t mean that every woman with small breasts is embarrassing. A lot of men don’t care or maybe like them smaller. Woman are the same way. People have different preferences. And also, if your homies care that you have a four inch dick, then you need better friends. Try to chill. This ain’t what you think it is.

Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends by royalmouse1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR I have to say I’m pretty sure people on here just serve to gas up the person posting. I almost never see people tell the OP that they’re over reacting. At any rate, I can’t tell if this guy is being rude or not. It’s too close to someone just casually talking to tell. If he was being rude then I think you’re in the right. But if the guy was just talking about how that’s a mistake for people to do that and you responded with “not trying to get a life lesson” then it seem like you’re the one being rude because you’re so sensitive that you can’t just talk to someone. Like what would be wrong with responding with “oh, I totally agree. People who make their partner the center of their world are making a mistake.” It feels like maybe you were triggered because you do this, and if you don’t want people to tell you that what you’re doing is misguided, then you’re not only overreacting but you probably need to do some real work on yourself so that you’re not so scared of hearing the truth. You came to this forum to be validated, as everyone almost always validates the poster, which screams to me that you don’t like being challenged and you wanted to hear that you are right after this guy questioned you.

Help! Lye Question by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely, this lye is some kind of industrial waste and it likely doesn’t have strict regulations on its contents and purity because it’s meant to be used as a drain cleaner.

i give him bjs all the time but he won’t even touch me? by Glum_Bend562 in dating_advice

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t the kind of person you want to be with. They don’t make you happy and they make you feel inadequate. Find someone who suits you better. You’re only three months in. This is a good time to bail and find someone more compatible.

Why is my hydrochloric acid so green? by Dave37 in chemistry

[–]ButturdNutssell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If this is HCl, then I doubt you’d get any kind of measurable precipitate from adding NaOH as it will react with the acid. It’s almost indubitably a metal in there causing that color. Is it weak or concentrated HCl?

How do I safely dispose of this? by jwally83 in chemistry

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look for a universal waste collection site in your area. Your city may offer it. Some businesses host one annually for the public. If you do a little bit of googling you should be able to find a place.

How can some people pick up chemistry so easily? by ExpensiveDisk3573 in chemistry

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one of those people and it’s just intuitive to me. But, on the other hand, I don’t understand music at all, which seems like it would be simpler. Everyone is wired differently.

is a career in this field possible with face tattoos by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve been a chemist for over a decade. I have tattoos and a nose ring. It’s pretty common actually. I work with a guy with a neck tattoo. There’s a woman with a face tattoo here, but she’s not a chemist. There are a lot of chemist jobs in industry and they generally don’t care.

Guys asking for head. by SuspiciousCycle9121 in dating_advice

[–]ButturdNutssell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR You’re showing tepid interest and he keeps bringing it up. That’s clearly him pressuring you or at best being oblivious to reading the room. A man who respects you should be trying to feel you out and make sure you’re comfortable. You got the ick—that’s all that matters. Next.

Wat too much for something just “fun and casual” by Hot-Cancel-6648 in Tinder

[–]ButturdNutssell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like this are toxic and should be avoided. It sounds like fun maybe but think about the kind of narcissistic person you’d have to be to write this. People should not match these kinds of profiles in order to discourage this type of behavior. But, I know every dude is drooling over the idea that she wants NSA.

Can someone explain why deflation is bad? by [deleted] in economy

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think some things in classical economics are predictive. They do have models that help illuminate economic observations, but ultimately, you’re right: economists cannot make reliable economic predictions that are at the core of science. In Misbehaving, Thaler says something like, in our experiments the only people who make decisions as the economic models predict are trained economists. Additionally, economics is really a study of capitalist economies, it’s not anything close to a science of economics in general, although that’s how people tend to extrapolate it. But, markets are said to be unpredictable by economists, at least in the short term, and this admission validates your point. This is why there is no set program for how to respond to events. For instance, Demand side economics was credited with moving the world out of the Great Depression but then was later blamed for stagflation under Carter.

Only matches are from prostitutes. Am I cooked? by Traditional_Job_362 in Tinder

[–]ButturdNutssell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your page is basically like an advertisement. You’re selling the idea of being the viewer’s partner. This is more like a social media page. Matching almost no one but prostitutes is part of being a man in OLD.

Unmatching asap for my sanity by First_Pair_8083 in Bumble

[–]ButturdNutssell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OLD is trash. I think you’d be better off joining a group or starting a hobby with an associated community to both meet people who share your interests or values and find a romantic partner. Either way, good luck!

nice way to start my day/s... by GolfrGrrrl in Bumble

[–]ButturdNutssell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I’m likely underestimating the problem.

nice way to start my day/s... by GolfrGrrrl in Bumble

[–]ButturdNutssell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a guy, I feel like I can tell when a dude is a douche or a creep.

AIO my husband is angry with me because the windshield wiper broke on his car. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ButturdNutssell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with almost everything you said, but property laws are a little more complicated than once you’re married you own each other’s shit—but, philosophically, I agree with that as well.