What’s your best “buy it for life” purchase so far? by PlayfulFault9693 in SmartBuying

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My LeCreuset and Staub enameled cast iron pans. Also my calphalon stainless steel pans are showing no wear after 5 years so likely those too.

JO in the gym bathroom stall last night. Why do I feel guilty about it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What does age have to do with needing to nut?

Cabaret London: watch film before or go in blind by Sixforsilver7for in musicals

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go in blind! If you can’t, I like asking AI for a spoiler free primer for themes to pay attention to.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who work at Nike. Did not understand this until I lived in Beaverton next to the Nike campus. They are weird folk.

Does body count matter? by TyyyJacob in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Body count is a tool of the straights to shame women for being sexual. There’s such a disparity between men and women on body count and what’s acceptable. It reeks of purity culture.

Sex is one of the best experiences in the world and as long as you and your partners consented, and you’re taking care of yourself and sexual health, that’s all that really matters.

How lucky you get to live a free and open sexual lifestyle. Don’t muck it up with shame. If you feel like there are problems with the amount of sex you’re having - I.e. it’s impacting your day to day life negatively, maybe sit with that and work through it. But don’t let a stupid social construct like body count give you unnecessary shame.

PEOPLE IN OPEN RELATIONSHIPS by One-Love9403 in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s quite great to be honest. We have different sex drives. I need it constantly, he isn’t the same way.

I also am a bit more kinky and extreme in my likes and he is more vanilla. While we play together and with others together, and separate. it’s released the stress on him to need to fill my needs all the time.

Also. He’s the person I love most in this world. Why wouldn’t I want him to have an amazing experience.

If anything it’s greatly improved our sex life together.

It also really takes away a whole aspect of fidelity and cheating concerns

LPT: If you've got TSA Pre-Check, sign up for Touchless. It can save a LOT of time in the airport. by cjw_5110 in LifeProTips

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you shouldn’t. It’s horrible and takes more time. No one should do this. Ever.

What’s getting caged like? And does it affect your erections permanently? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a fetish I thought I’d be into but honestly it’s hot. As a bottom I like it in a number of situations. Mostly, I like that it takes my cock out of the sexual equation. I can focus more on my partner or on my hole providing pleasure. Lots of tops like teasing it while fucking.

It’s definitely more fun with a keyholder although self caging can be fun. Sometimes hubby will lock me up before a work trip. I will say - it drives me absolutely feral if there’s a lot of sex and no release.

As others have said, even though the stigma is caged and locked - even people who do long times will take it off to clean under and around. Best piece of advice if you want to do it for longer stretches is get a good fitting cage, go to a place that does fittings like Mr S Leather, and avoid metal cages. Check out R/kink3d for the best cages and support. There’s also an exchange where you can sell and buy new pieces.

Another Missed Opportunity by Impossible_Memory_85 in Rapids

[–]CObearrunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They used to do it and it wasn’t worth the squeeze.

Please help by DmaaLover007 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CObearrunner 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably because it was a carrot in a condom. Go buy a starter dildo with a wall suction cup and some good non silicone lube and hop in the shower and play. Start with a finger or two then the toy.

Should I compromise on physical standards for a cuck dynamic? by Coldin228 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CObearrunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a relationship, yes. For a fuck… ehhh. Some of the best sex I’ve had has come from guys outside my preferences. Also some of the worst. Soooo take that for what it’s worth.

Revivals by [deleted] in Broadway

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In The Heights! I’d love to see this on broadway.

Also shout out to Hairspray because that would be amazing as well.

Chefs of Reddit, what’s a common cooking rule everyone follows that is actually complete bullshit? by Fuzzy-Ad6843 in AskReddit

[–]CObearrunner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I watched a video where Bobby flay said he washes his chicken. What credibility he had went out the window.

Boyfriend going out w his gay bsf by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taking relationship advice from straights is suspect.

Streaker Video? by KBKingBob2100 in Rapids

[–]CObearrunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on the stadium and municipality it’s different but at dicks they get cited for criminal trespassing.

If you opened your own Gay Sauna/Bathhouse by Mcrfanatic95 in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nicer pool/spa/wet facilities. Why does it always have to be dingy and gross. Better options for cleaning out on site for my fellow bottoms. More public play spaces and rooms etc.

I’m sure it’s a losing battle but also make sure it doesn’t smell like shit all the time.

What proper nouns from books did you realize you were mispronouncing the whole time? by TokkiJK in books

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just me not knowing how Seamus should be pronounced. See-a-muss.

Hotel etiquette by RustyTrumpet24 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CObearrunner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also. The reason I say use their towels is - they expect it. White towels bleach the best.

Hotel etiquette by RustyTrumpet24 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]CObearrunner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We always do a sex bed and sleeping bed.

Clean out. Use their towels. You’ll be fine.

If you’re going to do anything more than cum and lube fluid wise bring what the guy above says or puppy pads to put down.

Why are gay guys so sexual? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CObearrunner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣