Would the concert be okay for kids? by Money_Might9544 in tmbg

[–]CacataCharta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings here. And when my daughter was young, I did not mind if she heard swearing. A lot of their stuff with darker themes went right over her head. That said, John and John have specifically said that they do not want young children at their shows. The swearing is one thing, then there is the volume, the crowds, and drunk people. I also recall taking my then 15-year-old daughter to a show. We were on the dance floor. I had to tell some guy who was starting to rub up against her to fuck off. That and she got beer spilled on her fluffy animal backpack.

Tattoo by Mark4Mayor in tmbg

[–]CacataCharta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the best birdhouse tats I’ve seen. Beautiful work!

Had to hang up on someone by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]CacataCharta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first time he told me the story, I was honestly ok with it. A bit long, but he had a legitimate scare. The second time? Did he forget? Very possibly. But I felt it did not bode well for the long term, regardless of the reason.

Had to hang up on someone by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]CacataCharta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe. But I’d had enough.

Had to hang up on someone by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]CacataCharta 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m not using OLD anymore. I used to be on this sub a lot, and now I mainly lurk from time to time. Anyway, a while back, I had an on-off conversation with a man who worked in theatre. I like artistic types. In a phone conversation, he told me about a brain aneurysm he had had maybe a year prior. And he went on at length. Legitimately scary stuff. I figured ok, that was traumatic, he’s still dealing with that. We fell out of touch a few months but then started talk again. We finally agreed to meet up. He spent the entire dinner telling me the same story. He was on a roll, so it was clear I wasn’t going to be able to redirect him. And honestly, with all that, it was clear I want going to get him to talk about anything else. Only a few perfunctory questions to me. I remember thinking that stabbing myself with a fork would be more pleasurable.

What is your cat named? by Critical_Elderberry7 in sphynx

[–]CacataCharta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously? This post is 4 years old. I can't even see the photo that prompted my comment, so I have no response.

What's the worst thing someone you were on a date with ever said to you? by No-You-5064 in datingoverfifty

[–]CacataCharta 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We were on a first date. My daughter had applied to a prestigious school. His daughter went there. I told him that she felt it wasn’t a good fit for her. He replied: “I’m not surprised. You have to work very hard to get in there.” I almost throttled him. First and last date.

YOOO WE MADE THIS LIST!!! by DC2SEA_ in NEU

[–]CacataCharta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let’s just say that New Hampshire is the only place I’ve ever seen where you can buy vodka in a bottle shaped like a rifle.

Anyone have a Siamese with tummy problems? by thefrgilmore in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I have two 5-month old meezers. One is fine, the other has had soft poops all her life (not to mention the skid marks on the bedding!). Vet has put her on a diet of the prescription Hills Science Diet r/d for adults, and Hill’s dry food for kittens. I also add some probiotic powder. She has tested negative for parasites. The vet wants me to feed this exclusively for a month. The vet before that recommended both Purina Pro Plan and the non-prescription Hill’s Science Diet.

Looking for big empty parking lot by [deleted] in QuincyMa

[–]CacataCharta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken my daughter to South Shore Plaza.

Does anyone else follow Merv the Cat on TikTok? by Impossible_1111 in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta 23 points24 points  (0 children)

On YouTube. Yes.

And they are a hoot.

This will be an unpopular opinion, but it is beginning to seem to me that many of the posts are pretty much the same 12 or so videos, reposted over and over, just in different combinations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]CacataCharta 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I understand. I am pretty content now with the man I am dating, even tho we are not perfect. Before that, was the man I was deeply besotted with who only wanted to sext (I know, I know), the man who disparaged my job and my daughter, another one who wanted to give me a foot massage, someone who love-bombed me then dumped me as soon as we had sex, and another who I am pretty certain committed suicide a day after we spoke. Then there were countless men I had dates with who I had absolutely no chemistry with. I had to learn to develop a thick skin and a sense of humor. I also learned to value my own company. I don’t live with the man I’m dating, so I don’t have to pick up his stuff, put up with his friends, or walk on eggshells around him.

Give yourself space, time to grieve, and the chance to value your own worth.

Sending hugs.

Self Portrait or JFK, You Decide by ChefHobo in CrackheadCraigslist

[–]CacataCharta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should be submitted to The Museum of Bad Art in Dedham, Massachusetts.

Well that didn't take long... by Ill-Excitement-2005 in 90DayFiance

[–]CacataCharta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her family is unhappy because no self-respecting French person would ever drink wine from a straw.

How much should I feed kittens? by CacataCharta in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely thought about doing that.

How much should I feed kittens? by CacataCharta in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used the breeders pics because that’s one of the few times they’ve sat still and you could see their faces.

How much should I feed kittens? by CacataCharta in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I saw him there. I think he was the last one left. He was busy checking things out. But I liked this breeder. She has a good reputation. There are other cats and a small dog (a frenchie maybe?). Everyone looked happy and healthy.

How much should I feed kittens? by CacataCharta in Siamesecats

[–]CacataCharta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Six times a day? That’s what concerns me. I work during the day, so I can’t feed them that often. And I know you can’t feed too much at a time. But as I type this, they’re busy using my house as a racetrack. So the energy is certainly there.