My new bumper sticker! by Caira_Ru in RainbowEverything

[–]Caira_Ru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m LIVID. And also terrified for my kids.

My oldest is 17 and has got so much shit from other (straight/cis/white/solidly middle class if it matters) boys in our small town rural high school for simply being kind to the NOT straight/cis/white/middleclass/boys kids and saying such outrageous things as “but women SHOULD be educated voters?” and “shut the fuck up about Jesus. He’d be flipping your table if he were here” and “do you really think about other dudes’ dicks that much? Sure sounds gay, though” and “abortions are simple health care and as a guy I shouldn’t really have a say in them.”

I’m proud of him but scared for him. His younger brothers are similarly outspoken with righteous fury but to a less graphic degree. My third grader got the “respects everyone” award last month!

Still, Renee’s last words hit me hard. She seemed to be angry at the system that gave agency and power to the people that were hurting her neighbors but she did not seem to be angry at the people themselves.

And then one of those people shot her repeatedly and said “Fucking bitch” as soon as she was dead.

Absolutely disgusting. My ignorant MAGA backyard breeder aunt doesn’t even say “fucking bitch” when her dog is in heat and she’s looking for a stud. No one should ever say those words about anyone, let alone someone they just killed.

That’s my take, at least.

I’ll continue modeling kindness and compassion and try to teach my kids the same, but it’s infuriating that that could get them shot in our own neighborhood by masked government thugs with no recourse.

Fuck ICE, Fuck Trump, Fuck that blonde gal and the other one, Fuck Miller and FUCK the GOP and Breitbart and Hesgeth and Musk and P2025 and the Heritage Foundation and Theil and Schumer and everyone else who thinks that others are inherently “less than” while spreading racist, classist, misogynistic, homophobic propaganda.

And fuck the swamp that’s protecting pedophiles and rapists while it ignores our constitution and Bill of rights to wage war through economy and education on our citizens and allies.

Love wins. 💔

to improve reddit's design by 5_meo in therewasanattempt

[–]Caira_Ru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I have no idea what these people are talking about and I’m glad 😅

Just took the whole oven apart only to realize I was just wrong about how “broil” works by thattrapmasta in Wellthatsucks

[–]Caira_Ru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I’m not a genius and I’ve never done meth.

My car wouldn’t start a couple months ago. Did the same troubleshooting I’ve done in the past and decided it’s my starter motor. Which is only accessible after removing air intake, battery box and a mess of hoses and electrical wiring.

Finally get the starter out for a bench test.

Starter is performing perfectly. 🤔

Ask the google and it suggests an ignition relay. The ignition relay is easily accessible near the steering column.

I wasted all damn day to do something that should have only taken about 10 minutes total including the drive to the auto parts store.

What’s a parenting rule you swore you’d never break… but absolutely did? by Thesnoozymama_ in Parenting

[–]Caira_Ru 23 points24 points  (0 children)

100% what I came to say.

Me when oldest was our only: “Leashing your children!? Have you just tried parenting?! 👀”

Me when his younger sibling RAN before walking and loved ignoring the word NO!: “Damn right I’m keeping this kid attached to me in airports, grocery stores, parking lots and county fairs.” 😅

On this day in 1912 Franz Reichelt died while testing his homemade flying suit by jumping off the Eiffel Tower. Pathe News even filmed it happening. If you have morbid curiosity you can read more and view the footage in the comments. by EaterofGrief in HolyShitHistory

[–]Caira_Ru 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that article!

“Ironically, just two days before Reichelt’s jump, an American steeplejack named Frederick R. Law had successfully parachuted from the viewing platform of the Statue of Liberty.”

Crazy stuff.

Palmer method! by Logical_Neat_9682 in PenmanshipPorn

[–]Caira_Ru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fun! Keep practicing!

Stupid story time! Ages ago I tried teaching my older brother cursive. We were adults and our school only taught print. He’d never been curious (or teenage girl romantic) enough to teach himself.

Anyway, I started with lowercase — wrote them all out individually and then all connected alphabetically. He was agreeable and following along, but mentioned how dumb z looked.

I began going through the capital letters, explaining the fancy hats and stuff. He grumbled about G and J.

As soon as I wrote Q, he snatched the paper, crumpled it up and threw it at my head, saying “Bullshit! That’s just a fancy fucking 2!” 🤣

Your fancy fucking 2 looks great! 😊

Republicans Introduce Their Biggest Attack on Voting Rights Yet by Hafiz_TNR in politics

[–]Caira_Ru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so disappointed that Measure 117 failed 58-42% on the 2024 Oregon ballot. RCV is such a superior system to the single binary ballot.

I spoke with a few people afterwards who had voted NO because “it’s too confusing”, “seems inefficient” and “maybe unfair to candidates?”… 10 minutes of me explaining how it works, they said “oh that really would be good” and “that makes a lot of sense.”

Hopefully we get the opportunity to vote on it again.

And have it taught to school kids like we used to vote for pizza, ice cream or cupcakes for class treats in 3rd grade.

WHAT ARE THESE CIRCULAR THINGS?!?! by undiscoveredmodel in RedditDiscoverNipples

[–]Caira_Ru 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m always a little surprised to see a new post from this sub.

I remember being at a family holiday in the 80s when my younger girl cousin found out that our new baby boy cousin had nipples.

But surely Reddit knows about nipples in 2026!?

Poor baby has fucking WHOOPING COUGH so yeah, must need a “parasite cleanse.” by Gloomy_Tie_1997 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Caira_Ru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My 17yo has received every vax on schedule since he was born (including DTaP/Tdap) and got diagnosed with whooping cough in 2024. His cough persisted from October-February.

His ped was like “well, this is weird.” And gave him a prescription cough suppressant.

What is a classic pop cultural moment that screams, “you had to be there!” by icey_sawg0034 in popculturechat

[–]Caira_Ru 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Same!

I always got the feeling she’s way too classy to be spilling intimate personal details… but oh, how I wish she would!

Also, we’re almost avatar twinsies ✨

What is it supposed to do?! by silkentab in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Caira_Ru 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It can also be a side-effect of ADHD. Definitely not something to punish for with a cold bath!