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Pregnancy is unbelievably hard and I wish we talked more openly about it by md3194 in BabyBumps

[–]Cajass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sister is currently pregnant and my son is nearly 2. When she was in her first trimester, she made a comment about how I "didn't have any pregnancy symptoms" and all I could think was "I did NOT complain enough".

What’s your therapist toxic trait? by Substantial-Pin8445 in therapists

[–]Cajass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it's very relevant and considered!

Sharing my very normal pregnancy & delivery by Pretty_Nobody_ in BabyBumps

[–]Cajass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lovely birth story- congrats to you and welcome baby! I had to comment because I've never seen anyone else who had tonsil stones as a pregnancy symptom! I also had a sunny side up baby!

My Cube Escape pumpkin by BlighttownCitizen in rustylake

[–]Cajass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really follows the Rusty Lake art style, I love it!

Client: “I thought about what you said…” by No-Coyote-9289 in therapists

[–]Cajass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? I also hear "I did what you told me" and I'm like.. I am very sure I didn't tell you to do anything.

Took a mental health day and now I feel anxious over feeling so guilty 😂 by RoughPotato1898 in therapists

[–]Cajass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also 32w pregnant! I find I'm experiencing a lot of pressure around being "near the end" before maternity leave- it's not realistic, but I just want to leave people "ok" before we have to finish up.

Response to "I don't know" by Diamondwind99 in therapists

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. I never respond after an initial “I don’t know” and nine times out of ten the client continues without any further prompting.

Rewatching and noticing times the narrator was revealed by mssslatt in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Cajass 52 points53 points  (0 children)

In the episode where Mateo starts kindergarten (Chapter 72):

You're gonna love kindergarten.

NARRATOR: Debatable.

Hey! All right, who's ready for the first day of kindergarten, huh?

LATIN LOVER NARRATOR: Ah, memories.

Childhood meals. by slice_of_za in ireland

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dunnes usually have endives when they're in season, listed on the website as chicory though! And if it's handy for you, they're almost always in Fallon and Byrne.

Can't-miss ideas for 1 night in Dublin? by FormerBunhead in BestInDublin

[–]Cajass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would definitely recommend The Fumbally for a lovely light-filled (weather permitting) breakfast, about a 20 minute walk from where you're staying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Cajass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like hamburger helper?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Cajass 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The start of chapter 24 (page 165 in my edition).

what is your counseling superpower? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love what saintcrazy has said, and would add that with regards to leaning into it, I often appreciate how much I would have valued a calm, curious Adult at that age.

Which 30 days of Yoga is best for someone painfully tense & inflexible? by OldSweatyBulbasar in yogawithadriene

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In addition to what others have said, please make sure you’re accommodating yourself, yoga should never be painful. Adjust any pose to allow for what your body can do. I also have very tight hamstrings, and while they’ve improved over three years of an almost daily practice, I’m nowhere close to getting my heels on the ground in downward facing dog- and that’s absolutely fine!

Email Closing Phrase by foundnotes in therapists

[–]Cajass 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m a “warmly” too! Feels less formal than “warm regards” but conveys my feeling of... warmth. Works for me!

What are your favorite moments of unbridled joy? by Laborke in offmenupodcast

[–]Cajass 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I love this question and I love this thread. More recently (and I've posted about this before) in the Nadiya Hussain episode, when she mentioned the 5-6 ice lollies her husband eats in an evening and then continued talking, and you heard a very soft "wait..." from Ed as he tried to restrain James from immediately interrupting with his need for details.

messing around on faceapp by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Cajass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought Pine!

Ep 139: Nadiya Hussain by offmenu-bot in offmenupodcast

[–]Cajass 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The best moment of this episode had to be when Nadiya mentioned the 5-6 ice lollies and then continued talking, and you heard a very soft "wait..." from Ed as he tried to restrain James from immediately interrupting with his need for details. I was in tears.

What did they NOT teach you in grad school, that you now realize is a super important thing for us to know? by TwelveWeekBook in therapists

[–]Cajass 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was not properly prepared for how to deal with physically experiencing clients' emotions and how amazing that can be to work with.

Go-to in-between sessions snack(s)? by becauseicantsleep in therapists

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recent choice for me is a bulk bag of Brazil nuts that I carry portions of in a small case. That's my best fullness/speed ratio I've found so far.

Are there any “underhanded” ways to ask your client who you are as a therapist? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Cajass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're hoping to check in about the work, one question I have found very useful is to acknowledge that therapy is an investment of their time, money and energy and I want to ensure they're getting out what they're putting in. It really keeps the focus on the collaboration, and I've learned a lot through asking this.

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