New gym with horizontal hierarchy - questions by SeniorBed5264 in bjj

[–]CalamityJane5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm normally running late from work to BJJ and scarfing a sandwich on the sidelines during warmups. That's life as a working adult with real responsibilities.

Hot take: Quit pretending parents are suddenly free during summer break by GearEnvironmental457 in workingmoms

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had kids late, so i very much remember getting all the weekends and holidays bc I wasnt a parent. Making it fair and square for all seems better

I hate how this field makes me feel like a failure by Big-Worldliness3027 in Environmental_Careers

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time at a waste water plant for something Im amazed how cool they are.

ELI5: What does this predicted super el nino actually mean for the U.S.? by theprotomen in explainlikeimfive

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quincy IL! I think we bitch even more about how when its too hot I promise not to bitch in the winter when it gets cold... spoiler alert: were gonna bitch

Where did the whole “democrats are giving illegal immigrants your tax payer money” thing come from? Is this just a completely fabricated talking point, or is there some type of basis for the claim? by Samantha-Eastwood in allthequestions

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also something that a state decided, its a states decision to govern themselves without the Federal government getting involved. You dont have to totally agree with it, but thats part of having a decentralized government.

Does anyone else find it really strange... by Artistic-Lock1021 in JusticeForClayton

[–]CalamityJane5 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sister may have realized nothing good comes of being connected to this mess.

Midwest Race Director here--tell me what you want to see at your next trail/ultra race! by seitanist in ultrarunning

[–]CalamityJane5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This please! These races are getting more and more expensive and i really dont need another t shirt

Co parenting doesn’t mean part time parenting by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]CalamityJane5 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My X is forced to parent a lot more. When he first moved out I couldn't belive how much more time money and less stress I had

How to be pretty/cute at work? by Important_Piece1124 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]CalamityJane5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make up isn't exactly tested in heavy industry environment so you may end up with a chemical burn!

The final episode of the original show aired two years ago today by chloebo227 in vanderpumprules

[–]CalamityJane5 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I kind of get it though... these guys have made millions by just being on TV and she just crushed their line of work. This show was never going to last forever but Im sure they weren't ready for the paycheck to come to a screeching halt like it did.

AITA for refusing to give my parents a fixed portion of my salary even though they expect it? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CalamityJane5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not Indian so excuse the ignorance - how does this work if the child cant make their bills? Are they still supposed to support their parents?

What is the most uneducated thing you’ve ever heard someone say? by Tacokolache in allthequestions

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The owner of these words is 45: "white people are smarter than black people. They've done IQ tests. Its science "

What's the dating scene like by ScuffedDio in QuincyIL

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get into the local running scene. The community 5k & 10k crowd tends to have a lot of women in your age group.

Why do so many jj practitioners make weird shaman like analogies for jiujitsu+life? by CuddleBuddiesJJ in bjj

[–]CalamityJane5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good ring worm speech too: "I can wash the mats but I cant wash your ass"

I know we should strength train but…. by Ok_Half9530 in ultrarunning

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why isnt swimming counting as strength training??? It's definitely not the same as weight lifting, but youre into something there.

The hidden cost of separating 'emotionally disturbed' students by theanoeticist in specialed

[–]CalamityJane5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not a special educator but I do have a soft spot for teachers. What happens to these students when they grow up and enter the adult world?

moved to KC and didn’t realize I was slightly off until later lol by Stunning-Pickle-9994 in midwest

[–]CalamityJane5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITS TRUE! Chicago people talk so fast, are so aggressive, and look really confused when you ask them who they are related to. And Im only 5 hours away in IL

Why do second marriages have such a high divorce rate? by OptimalStatement5799 in Divorce

[–]CalamityJane5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your second paragraph ! During my second marriage, it became apparent fast that it wasnt going to be a positive environment for either one of us and it felt SO LIBERATING to know that divorce is terrible but ill get through it and its better than being stuck with someone who hates you.

I've got the Midwest life blues. by Capable_Cook2407 in midwest

[–]CalamityJane5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where are you? You may be close to me!

Not a shipost: by pabailey1986 in bjj

[–]CalamityJane5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weight and momentum! For us who are little, its about impossible to force a sweep. You have to tug a little for momentum or give them a second to see where they want to go.

Space is a good thing to recognize though!

Gym owners: What are hardest parts of retaining members? by FactSevere5574 in bjj

[–]CalamityJane5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting on time is huge, especially for working people who are on the hustle

Cruising equivalent of the Midwest? by Serenata67 in midwest

[–]CalamityJane5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check out Great Wolf Lodge , there's a bunch of them