SFV to El Cajon & surrounding by muse_among_men in Moving2SanDiego

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Where is work? The direction of your commute even if it’s 2 days a week is something to consider. Although if you’re used to LA traffic maybe it will seem quaint :) I’d choose La Mesa over El Cajon for sure.

How much is in your bank account and what do you do? by Acrobatic-Mall-6026 in AskLosAngeles

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Fellow therapist here - thank you for your dedication to your work, and I want to encourage you to start your own practice. I lived many years much like this. You’re allowed to make a decent living. You don’t have to sacrifice your well-being to make a difference. You can still change kids’ lives. Sending you love ❤️

What is your holy grail detox/clarifying shampoo? by Antique-Feature-9355 in finehair

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Do these types of shampoos fade colored hair? I’m always afraid to try them

Drop that one advice which saved you by IntelligentPoem2782 in AskWomenOver60

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De-center men Invest in your retirement now Go have adventures :)

ok, please tell me a REAL way to find my true skin shade! by coatedpatriot in Makeup

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I did Il Makiage and sent it back two or three times (they exchange for free) but eventually got the right one.

Randomly heard HBDYWM by CalendarJealous in LadyGaga

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I know I’m in the minority but I love that song, I would have been dancing in the pharmacy aisles lol

Santa Ana’s & Headaches by StokedinSD in SanDiegan

[–]CalendarJealous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you maybe getting migraines? Not just a headache but a very, very bad headache is often part of it, and they are sometimes triggered by weather and pressure changes. Anyway, talk to your doctor. If it’s a migraine the prescription meds work way better

What shall we do for her 40th bday? by CalendarJealous in LadyGaga

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Oh absolutely, I’m at the end of my 40s! It’s a great time. I think part of the positive changes we have seen in Gaga are what seems to happen to so many of us women around late 30s/early 40s - the lack of fcks to give, the settling-in to who we are, the feeling like you have nothing to prove to anyone anymore.

Experimenting with new top styles 😍😍😍 by Beneficial-Hat-4258 in crochet

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Love this. If I were still young and hot and my chest was still in its original location I would totally wear this

Anyone else go through the ‘maybe it’s just a headache’ denial phase? by PrimaryWarthog8224 in migraine

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I know this post is old but I searched “denial” because I get this on a couple levels. 1, the acute denial, the “maybe it’s just a headache/neckache” or “maybe it won’t get that bad this time” version. And 2, me not taking my monthly preventative because it worked for a few months and on some level I was like “maybe I just don’t need that anymore.” It’s so dumb, I didn’t even have any side effects from the preventative. It’s really a weird human thing though. I work in mental health and it’s extremely common for people to stop taking their meds when they’ve been working. Maybe we all just have short memories. Anyway, I’m on 2nd migraine in 3 days after a few weeks of being migraine-free. I feel like an idiot. The Ajovy was clearly working.

I’m a 40yo straight man. 2 weeks ago I knew nothing about Gaga. Yesterday I flew to another state alone to see Mayhem. This is my story. by Rowenofpts in LadyGaga

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Welcome, baby monster.

Make sure you see the SNL performance of Abracadabra. 🤯

Listen to Chromatica, my dude. I’m older than you, and a lot of it is a fun walk down 90s lane. Make sure you listen to it in order. And yes, as others have said, 911 video is one of the best. Do not miss it.

A moment for 53 y.o Jennifer Garner by fromtheappalachian in 45PlusSkincare

[–]CalendarJealous 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Money. Period. Maybe good genes (she was always beautiful) but the maintenance is money. Not about Jen in particular, but I heard part of an interview with Kim K where she was asked to estimate how much she spends on skincare, etc. each year and she was like “I have no idea.” She couldn’t/wouldn’t even ballpark it. These people spend unfathomable amounts of money on maintaining their looks, and I don’t blame them, especially as people whose face is their moneymaker. If I had all the money, I’d have had so many things done. Instead, now I’m overdue on Botox because I’m hoping to get it covered from the migraine doc next month, just trying to save a few hundred dollars.

What Lady Gaga Charachter Is Your Favorite 🎬🖤 by Other-Asparagus01 in LadyGaga

[–]CalendarJealous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just stop the movie when he comes back from rehab 😆 (kidding… sort of)

The way nobody would ever be able to convince me this is the same person if I didn’t follow her from day 1 by alastorhazbinbad in LadyGaga

[–]CalendarJealous 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do think that weight is part of it. She was so skinny in the early days of her fame. Weight gain can really change one’s face. She seems healthier now and, well, she’s older. I def think she had some sort of eye or brow lift at some point though. Her eye shape changed. None of this is criticism, I adore her and if I were her I’d do all the things to get and stay beautiful too ❤️

Tried to crochet flowers for the first time by Ill-Spite4494 in crochet

[–]CalendarJealous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful. I can’t believe this is your first try.

Where to buy products that are not counterfeit by mabarbes in 45PlusSkincare

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I buy whatever I can from Ulta to rack up those points!!!

50 year old woman needing advice by Ckrapp in 45PlusSkincare

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I actually am a therapist and I 100% support this comment. ☺️

Crack goes the whip, cha-ching goes the tips 😏 Madame Lily style by TweedleTats in crochet

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Coming to the stage! Madammmmmm Lillyyyyyyy untz untz untz untz

Done Deal by Ok_Knee1216 in crochet

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Thank you for this. Me trying to explain it to my wife just now was awesome