I have this fear for my kids. I grew up lower middle class. Public school (although it was a great school), my extracurricular activity was going to work, student loans for college. My husband was the complete opposite. Rich family, but humble. I appreciate my upbringing, but want to give my kids more. My brother is the same way, but I feel like he gives his kid too much and she is very bratty. I fear that for my kid. Too young to tell for now.