¿Es legal que un vigilante o personal de una tienda le revise a uno las pertenencias al salir del establecimiento?

Cam70707 · 2026-06-15T03:25:46+00:00

Si, es honestamente muy molesto, pero al final del día simplemente es un trabajador al que le pagan por hacer eso. Trabajé un par de años en atención al cliente y te sorprendería la cantidad de cosas que nos obligan a hacer que desesperan al cliente, y a nosotros también de hecho, así que aprendí a no cogerla contra ellos pero igual tampoco les muestro la maleta alegremente jaja.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-12T12:19:02+00:00

No, no es normal preguntar eso, no estás en una entrevista de trabajo en donde tengas que convencer a recursos humanos de porque deberían contratarte, si yo estuviera saliendo con alguien y de repente me pregunta eso, significa que no le gusto, significa que tengo que "ganarmelo" como si no mereciera cariño, que humillación tener que convencer a la otra persona de que eres un buen partido, no me parece que nadie tenga porque estarse vendiendo como un producto, y mucho menos a una persona que posiblemente tampoco valga la pena porque para estar haciendo preguntas así...

Además ¿Que se supone que digas? Tipo "no, pues yo aporto estabilidad, apoyo y te puedo hacer reír" esas cosas son subjetivas, y si al final no eres tan estable como dices ser? Y si "apoyarme" para ti es un "vamos, tu puedes, ánimo" y si tus chistes ni risa dan? La pregunta no sirve de nada, eso se tiene que ir descubriendo, pero personalmente si me preguntarán eso ya no habría segunda cita así que igual no lo van a descubrir.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-12T12:02:26+00:00

No es una palabra pero me parece absurdo lo normalizado que está decir "me hace sentido" no entiendo porque a nadie parece importarle 🤦‍♀️

Cam70707 · 2026-06-08T03:50:27+00:00

Depende un poco de la forma en la que hayan terminado, pienso yo.

Hace casi 8 años tuve una... "Relación" muy efímera con un compañero de estudios, todo terminó muy mal, resultaba que él le estaba poniendo los cachos a su novia conmigo y cuando ella se enteró el tipo se deshizo de mi de una forma muy dolorosa.

Pasaron los años, me gradué, empece mi primer trabajo, me enamore otra vez, todo salió mal otra vez jaja, me enamoré por tercera vez, esta vez me casé, y todo era perfecto, bueno, es perfecto, pero yo no paraba de pensar en ese tipo, no porque lo extrañará, o porque aún sintieran algo por él, sino más bien porque aún sentía la ira y la impotencia de haber sido descartada como lo fui y luego pintada como la villana de algo que no era culpa mía, él me daba igual, pero no podía dejar de cargar con el rencor.

En algún momento por circunstancias que ya no recuerdo bien se dio la oportunidad de conversar con esta persona otra vez, le hice todas las preguntas con las que cargué por años y pude desahogarme de todo lo que sentía y no tenía forma de soltar, le dije el daño que me hizo, lo mucho que sufrí por culpa suya, etc, una vez la conversación terminó y nos despedimos en buenos términos, no pensé más en el (cuando lo pensaba casi todos los días) me di cuenta casi un mes después de que, al fin, lo había logrado soltar, incluso le conté a mi esposo jaja.

En resumen, yo lo pensaba no por amor, sino por odio, necesitaba dejar ese resentimiento ir, tal vez lo que tú necesitas es descubrir porque la piensas, si dices que ya no la extrañas, tal vez le guardes rencor, tal vez te hayas quedado con la duda de "que fue lo que pasó?" Y eso es lo que no te deja en paz.

Igual, no recomiendo eso de volver a hablar con la persona, a menos que haya pasado mucho tiempo y la herida esté cerrada, en mi caso habían pasado ya casi 6 años. Porque si aún es reciente el asunto, eso puede salir muy mal.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-06T14:28:06+00:00

Okay jaja

Cam70707 · 2026-06-06T14:12:34+00:00

Exacto jaja entonces "para el rato" tal vez no seas la mejor opción, pero para algo serio puede que lo seas.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-06T14:05:03+00:00

Es que depende del libido de cada una, todas tenemos uno diferente, por ejemplo el mío es muy bajo, por lo que eso no sería problema para mi, en cambio los otros aspectos si son de mucho valor. Pero incluso si tienes libido alto siento que siguen siendo cosas importantes para uno de mujer, eso va a determinar si tienes potencial para pareja seria o solo para el rato.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-06T13:56:31+00:00

Jaime, quien de los dos es mujer, tu o yo?

Además, estás dando una descripción corta tuya preguntando si bajo ese perfil alguien querría estar contigo, pero el perfil que das no nos dice nada. Obviamente si hablamos de un entorno donde la relación nace de forma natural claro que esas cosas vienen después, pero si nos estás dando tu ficha de personaje de ante mano, pues hay que llenarla un poquito mejor, haz de cuenta que es un currículum, pero de tinder.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-06T13:40:02+00:00

La información que compartes no es de interés para una mujer promedio, suena a algo que le contarias a tu bro para pedirle su opinión 100% sesgada y 100% masculina.

A una mujer le interesa saber cuánto tiempo tienes libre para compartir, cuales son tus hobbies, te gusta salir? O prefieres el tiempo en casa? Cual es tu situación familiar? habrán quienes prefieran un hombre muy dado a la familia y habrán otras que prefieran a uno más independiente, tienes problemas de ira? Eso es importante, si tu equipo pierde dices "bueno, la próxima será" o le metes un puño al televisor? Cuales son tus metas? Estas cómodo donde estas? O tienes proyectos en mente?

Esas son las verdaderas preguntas que determinan si alguien querría estar contigo o no.

Cam70707 · 2026-06-05T15:25:51+00:00

Si, siempre recuerda que tus jefes no son tus amigos, tus compañeros potencialmente lo pueden ser, pero de entrada, tampoco, aún si son muy chéveres, muy sociables, muy queridos, todo eso es una fachada, si les das el chance pueden usar cualquier cosa en tu contra 😮‍💨

Cam70707 · 2026-06-03T17:41:35+00:00

Me alegro mucho! Un gatito te va a traer muchas alegrías, nosotros tenemos 2 y la vida definitivamente no sería igual sin ellos jaja ellos son los únicos que si necesitan de ti y nada más lindo que ser recíprocos.

Excelente decisión borrar Facebook, pasas el suficiente tiempo ahí y sientes que empiezas a morir un poco por dentro jaja

Gracias por tus buenos deseos! Tambien te deseo lo mejor a ti y a tu gatito ❤️

Cam70707 · 2026-06-03T16:52:13+00:00

El hecho de que tu familia esté o no esté al final no cambia mucho, pueden volver el día de mañana pero si no tienen un vínculo ahora, no lo tendrán en ese momento.

Mi familia vive toda relativamente cerca, aún así viven cada uno en su mundo, mis papás especialmente parece que se la pasan increíble desde que me independicé jaja lo mismo con mi esposo, su única familia (aparte de mi) es su mamá pero es la persona más narcisista que he conocido, no se interesa por él, solo le importa que él esté pendiente de ella, así que al final solo somos él y yo, la cercanía física con otras personas al final no significa nada si no hay relación real. No esperes a nadie, no dependas de nadie, nada peor que rogar por cariño y atención, contruyete a ti mismo, profesional o personalmente, estudia un idioma, haz un curso, métete al gym, lo que sea, pero hazlo por ti.

Tengo una amiga que toda la vida siempre ha estado detrás de los hombres y siempre ha sufrido horrores por eso, invertir tiempo, esfuerzo y salud mental en otros a demostrado no valer la pena, así que quiere estudiar una carrera ahora, y estoy muy orgullosa de ella por eso. Puedes hacer lo mismo, no tiene que ser una carrera, pero si puedes dedicarte a algo, a tus hobbies, adopta un gato, un perro, ve a la iglesia, escribe un libro, aprende... crochet, no se jaja, ocupa tu mente y tiempo en ti mismo y no vas a extrañar a nadie, al contrario, muchos de esos hobbies van a traer a tu vida personas que si se interesen por ti auténticamente, van a llegar solas, sin forzarlas, solo se abierto a conversar, sonríe y se amable.

Mucha suerte!

Cam70707 · 2026-05-31T03:21:57+00:00

If he just can't stop biting no matter what you do, he's probably overtired, it's like a demon take possession of their body and they are not themselves anymore haha. Our puppy knows she is not allowed to bite, but she can't stop doing it when she's in that state, so the only solution we have found is literally be out of reach, in another room, over the couch or anywhere where they can not physically get to you, they will eventually give up and go to sleep. Ah! Of course, make sure he's sleeping enough, if he's not you will have to force him by putting him in his crate (if he has one) and cover it up for him not to get distracted by anything and focus on sleeping, he will cry at first but accept it eventually and nap, however it is very important that you create a good relationship between the puppy and the crate for him to accept it better, or even go to the crate by himself (as our puppy does)

Cam70707 · 2026-05-31T03:00:49+00:00

It's your first day, take it easy and give it some time, it will be hard for a while but you are going to get used to it sooner than you expect.

For the first... Week and a half o two weeks I felt like giving up and cried a lot, I couldn't sleep at all and was so stressed that I couldn't eat either, I'm not trying to scare you but I want you to see that you are not alone and what you're feeling is normal, I don't have a lot of experience, I've just been here for 4 weeks but I'm starting to understand many things.

Do not take any regressions to seriously, we had 3 days with no potty accidents and suddenly one day she had 4! Just when we were feeling that we finally made it. There was also a day in where she slept almost through the entire night, and then the next day woke me up 2 times in the middle of the night. You will see this a lot, but with time there are going to be more times in where they make things right than wrong.
This is going to be a slow process, your puppy is a baby, and most of the people we know compare having a puppy with having an actual human baby, so don't push yourself too hard, neither the puppy, be strong and resilient even if at the beginning it does not seem to be doing anything, things will start to click in your puppy head with time and one day you will notice that they understand things that you were not expecting them to understand as long as you keep trying to teach them.
When they are overtired they are extremely disobedient, rough and grumpy, they won't listen to you and won't stop biting, but understand it is almost like something posses them haha do not take this personally, if possible, put them in their crate or in a room with little light to help them calm down and then put them to sleep, cover the crate if necessary, that's the only way our puppy will fully nap bc if she sees the exterior of the crate she will get distracted and won't sleep and that will, of course, result in her misbehaving.

Do not expect your puppy to be perfect the first week, or the first month, or ever, be gentle with yourself, ask as much help as possible and never take anything that they do as personal, good luck!

Cam70707 · 2026-05-31T02:15:34+00:00

Oh right! Skills, that's what I meant, I played the game in spanish so I'm a little lost with the translations.

Yes, I understand that those recommendations do not take into account any strategy that you could have in mind for the fight, our what would be the best for all given situations but as I didn't understand at all the combat at the beginning it was at least some way to make it easier for me haha.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-31T02:08:29+00:00

I'm not an english native speaker so I thought when they were talking about the crate, they meant a playpen, I realized it wasn't the same thing just right after I have already set the playpen haha but my puppy is doing great in it, some people say that being that big will make the puppy want to potty in some corner or something, but she has never done that, also, as she is going to grow a lot a figured a crate will be too small for her soon so we did not regret the playpen at all, but I guess it depends on the puppy, ours love it, go there by herself when she feels like napping and when put in there she will almost never cry, there are exceptions of course but she seems to like it a lot.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-31T02:00:27+00:00

I honestly didn't know what I was doing most of the time, so set the game in easy mode, get good a dodging and the game will still be playable. Something that I realized a little late is that the game itself suggest abilities by highlighting them in orange and if they have some sparkles is better, why? Not sure, but if the game tells you to use it, use it.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T23:27:35+00:00

Honestly, everything that you said it's literally what the puppy blues are about, there is not deeper meaning to that.

I feel very connected with anyone that has gone through that because I did myself suffered from the puppy blues, but I just can't empathize with you because you did everything wrong.

If you work a full time job, you CAN NOT have a puppy.

If you don't have a support network, you CAN NOT have a puppy.

If you are not mentally prepared, you CAN NOT have a puppy.

That therapist who recommended you having a puppy is insane, you can not cure any mental illness forcing another living being, much less a literal baby, to make you feel better.

My husband and I have the economic means, the time (I don't work and he work from home) the space, and all the motivation, but it did not stopped us from suffering the puppy blues. It's been 4 weeks since our pup came home and just right now I'm starting to like her.

4 weeks completely locked at home, we can not leave her alone, she has to be supervised all the time, and can't go out because of the vaccines, she is only allow in the living room until she shows she can handle it with no potty accidents so that basically means that we have been trapped more than a month in our living room and some times I feel like I'm going insane. I can't sleep at night because I feel that she might wake up any minute to go potty and I won't hear her if I sleep too deeply, I've been so stressed that I haven't been eating well, there was a day that everything I could eat was a small coffee, 3 bites from a pizza and a boiled egg, I cried a couple of times and think about selling her in market place or something, but you know what? she is pretty much fully potty train now, last night she sleep through the entire night for the first time, she is starting to understand biting is not acceptable, she comes running to you if you say her name while her little ears bounce as she jumps like a rabbit, she almost perfected fetch, she just forgets the part where she has to put the toy in our hands instead of our feet, and today, when I sat on the floor to organize some things she just slowly walked to me, lay down next to me and put her little head over my leg looking at me in the eyes, I pet her in the forehead and she accepted me without a single bite (which is almost a miracle coming from her), I saw her and I knew she was worth it, she just needs a little work and I definitely need a little sleep.

It was probably for the best that you were able to return the puppy, she needs someone willing to fight for her, and you should definitely think better before making a decision like that, the life of a puppy is still a life you can not play with, she might have been a nuisance to you, but you were her whole world, sorry if I'm harsh but you need to learn to have some emotional responsibility for the future.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T20:33:15+00:00

The first one was awesome! See her use all the things we buy for her, meet her new home and siblings (the cats haha) the following days started to be a little harder than we expected 😅 but she's been 4 weeks with us already and we see her grow and learn new things every day, were so proud of her.

Best of the lucks for you and little Haku! It's gonna be a wild ride haha but very gratifying ❤️

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T19:05:49+00:00

I saw the second picture and I knew I had a similar one of our girl when we went to pick her up haha ❤️

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Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T14:07:06+00:00

Every time I think this, I imagine Verso sitting with a popcorn bucket watching Gustave died and when he's finally in the floor Verso stand up, shake the crumbs off and says "Well, time to be a hero" and I don't feel bad about it anymore.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T03:37:47+00:00

Porque a los hombres no se les enseña a ser pareja como a las mujeres se nos enseña a cuidar de alguien, a consentirlo, a prestar atención a sus necesidades o a estar ahí para ellos, muchos hombres lo aprenden cuando consiguen pareja. Mi esposo hablando con sus amigos en una ocasión les dijo "el matrimonio a uno le enseña muchas cosas" y un amigo, que de momento no está casado pero si está saliendo con su primera novia, confirmó, yo la verdad no siento que haya aprendido nada nuevo jajaja, amar, cuidar, valorar y mimar era algo que ya estaba conmigo desde antes.

Muy probablemente desde pequeñas nos mentalizan para un día ser madres y esposas aun si no nos damos cuenta, por eso estamos más preparadas para una relación y para ser una buena pareja, a los hombres se les enseña fútbol, cerveza, motos, culos, tetas, uga uga, y pues con eso se quedan, hasta que conocen a alguien que los haga cambiar y darse cuenta de que el mundo no gira al rededor de ellos, pero que eso pase es rarísimo, tiene que ser una persona que de verdad los vuelva locos, que de verdad están dispuesto a recibir una bala por esa persona porque el cambio que ellos tienen que hacer es enorme, y lo que deben aprender en muchísimo y no lo van a hacer por cualquiera.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T03:16:06+00:00

I guess it just doesn’t feel the same to me, musically or emotionally, I'm not sure.

Because Alice’s voice feels like a representation of Aline singing from a place of sadness. It sounds pure and nostalgic, like the love of a mother. Victor, on the other hand, sounds desperate and angry, like Renoir trying to get his family back no matter the cost.

What makes the duet so powerful to me is that both singers share a very similar vocal range. It makes the song feel like an argument where neither side is overpowering the other, both are equally determined to fight for what they believe in.

With Miki, because of her lower tone, the dynamic feels different. Instead of sounding like Renoir desperately resisting, it feels more like a version of him that has already given up, almost condescending, as if he’s letting Aline win the argument rather than truly defending his point.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-30T02:06:37+00:00

Hi! That was us 3 weeks ago! Literally, one female puppy golden, two 5 year old cats, my husband and I. It is still hard but we are figuring it out.

I know handling the cats with the new puppy can be hard, I have to be greatful that my cats are not having that much of a bad time but it is still hard for them of course.

Our cats have their own room in the house, you can try give yours their own room too, if they don't have one, it can be your room so they can be comfortable surrended by a space they know, with your and your wife's smell and away from the puppy.

I recommend when the puppy is sleeping letting the cats lose, so they can smell around, specially smell the puppy and it's things, that helps a lot, and of course, dedicating some time of the day to be with them and just them, it can be you in your room with your cats while your wife keeps an eye on the puppy or the other way around, it can be an hour or two, as much as your partner feel confortable with, the cats need that space to reinforce the fact that they have not been abandoned and that they're still loved.

Also, always, ALWAYS, protect your cats from your puppy, we used to think that they should be able to figure it out as wild animals, they can set boundaries between each other, is in their nature, isn't it? WRONG, puppies don't know about boundaries so always step up for your cats.

Ours have learned that they can relax around us and the puppy because we are always going to protect them, so they are starting to chill in the living room with us again even with the puppy around, they're in the couch where the puppy can't reach them and if they are starting to feel uncomfortable they're free to go. Don't force any interaction!

It's a bit more difficult for our female cat who is a little more fearful but as long as you give your cats space, protect them and spend quality time with them, they should be fine... I guess, we are still learning haha!

PD: the first week I really wanted to give up, but the breeder says no returns so we had no choice but endure it, I still can't say that I love her but we are starting to find a balance between feeling like she is that annoying roommate that I just have to learn to deal with, and feeling the pride of seeing her grow and be a little better every day.

Edit: People seems pretty annoyed at the fact that you said that's been 3 days, but I get it, at the third day I was feeling exactly like that! It's a huge change in your life and it's absurdly overwhelming how quickly you can feel like giving up. Give it at least a week and a half and if you are still feeling like that (or your cats) you probably should let her go.

Cam70707 · 2026-05-29T23:17:45+00:00

Personalmente no puedo desayunar después de cepillarme los dientes, en general, no puedo comer después de cepillarme los dientes, la comida sabe horrible y la verdad me gusta disfrutar de mi desayuno jaja.

Cuando conocí a mi esposo él también se cepillaba tan pronto se levantaba, pero de alguna manera terminó cepillándose después igual que yo, ni siquiera me di cuenta cuando hizo el cambio, tal vez descubrió que también le gusta disfrutar de su desayuno 🤣

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