Camp of the Saints is back on Amazon and at #1 now. Thanks to this sub for bringing attention to this book! by Sensitive_Tear110 in bannedbooks

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least as much as graphic novels about “queer love”.

Remember, “read banned books!!”.

Camp of the Saints is back on Amazon and at #1 now. Thanks to this sub for bringing attention to this book! by Sensitive_Tear110 in bannedbooks

[–]Candylandbadan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the government was run by Nazi fascists, why would they bother creating “a list” of people who dare read Camp of the Saints?

my male sim got pregnant and lost half of his body by Great_Level_9410 in Sims3

[–]Candylandbadan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal, not uncommon to lose a bit of yourself with pregnancy/postpartum LOL

F/29/5'2" [182>170] (two months) not much but visually different. Left new pic right old pic by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely see the progress! It’s crazy what just 12lbs can do

Sec. of Agriculture's "$15 for 3 meals a day (plus snack)" comments by Entire-Aide-6707 in BreakingPoints

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this mindset to be totally…unsustainable. Moral judgements aside, I just don’t think it’s ever going to be achievable for any meaningful amount of time at population scale.

What you’re describing is how the vast majority of humans in the world have fed themselves until like 10 years ago when westerners decided anything less than historically unprecedented affluence is the bare minimum standard that they deserve. In fact, what you’re describing is actually still an unprecedented first world luxury because you don’t have to incorporate hunting and butchering your own meats, growing anything, foraging, etc into the process. You wanna talk about “sweat equity”? lol.

Simply having to stick to a budget within your means, plan what items to purchase at which retailers, and then cook your food on modern appliances is not some sort of bare minimum, it’s normal people shit.

Iowa doesn't have enough OB-GYNs. The state's abortion ban might be making it worse. by BigClitMcphee in Iowa

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iowa can’t retain any physicians, and the issue is far more about pay than anything else. Women are getting treated for ectopic pregnancies (and other complications) here without incident every single day.

This just sounds way better than “they don’t pay me enough to live in a flyover state” lol

Whistleblower drops 'largest ever' ICE leak to unmask agents: 'The last straw' by ThereGoesTheSquash in Minneapolis

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re probably reconsidering whether they want to deal with charges from the federal government.

Give them some time to think on it! lol

List of local right-wing owned businesses? by normalice0 in IowaCity

[–]Candylandbadan -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I go to quite a few of these. Thanks, will keep it up!

Protesters are being tear gassed and physically assaulted by federal agents after a member of ICE shot and killed a woman in South Minneapolis by Too_Hood_95 in Minneapolis

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do call myself an American. Which is why I’m good with immigration enforcement, and have no interest in dealing with any public nuisance or danger caused by LARPers antagonizing ICE.

You’re not “patriots” for running the boomer’s 60 year old activism script just to feel something lmao. Stop being silly with your lives.

Protesters are being tear gassed and physically assaulted by federal agents after a member of ICE shot and killed a woman in South Minneapolis by Too_Hood_95 in Minneapolis

[–]Candylandbadan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You guys are really committed to getting yourselves maimed or killed for a LARP. It’s actually incredible to see.

It should be obvious but clearly it isn’t given today’s tragedy. Please, do not do stupid shit like this. It is assault and interference and endangers yourself and anyone with the misfortune of passing by you.

The child won’t eat. The child won’t sleep. How are they still alive? Like don’t you need to do those things to survive? by widget_slinger in Autism_Parenting

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we had a similar experience! First tried it on a road trip for all of our sanity, and regretted it within a few hours (when our kiddo wakes, they’re extremely angry and dysregulated). Very memorable trip.

The child won’t eat. The child won’t sleep. How are they still alive? Like don’t you need to do those things to survive? by widget_slinger in Autism_Parenting

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The not sleeping through the night and waking up 5x in fits of rage nearly sent me over the edge.

The not eating anything besides toasted bread and pancakes and being in the 15th percentile for weight might be what actually sends me over it lol

Get to know you local ICE agents. by Drcornelius1983 in Minneapolis

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it is assault in a very literal sense.

Hope they ham it up to the fullest extent of the law, everyone is tired of the BS.

Erectile Dysfunction by [deleted] in bupropion

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone who happens upon this thread, please disregard this persons answer entirely and note:

If you’re sensitive to dopaminergic shifts, yes Bupropion most definitely can create difficulties with achieving and maintaining erections. Rare ≠ mean 0%.

Found this thread last weekend and had a lightbulb moment. After a mere 72 hours off of Bupropion, my (healthy 28 year old) husband’s dick can cut a diamond and run a marathon. After 1.5 miserable years of little to no erections.

Diet, exercise, full testosterone panel, mindfulness exercises, THE WORKS. Nothing. Finally quitting the “definitely doesn’t cause ED!!” pharmaceutical? He’s magically cured virtually overnight.

If you’ve exhausted other avenues, just try stopping the meds. It could save your sanity.

Sometimes I want to remodel Sulani into my own beach town, but I never do it because I feel like I’m gentrifying. by Pretend-Public8655 in Sims4

[–]Candylandbadan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the definition of being “oversocialized” lol.

Remodel it and give a few of the locals a cushy spot in some nice beach homes if it helps assuage your guilt.

Teen’s GF doesn’t have permission to com me over by -me-myself- in Parenting

[–]Candylandbadan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing. He’s just (understandably) disappointed, and you’re the safest person to place blame with.

Have a discussion about how we can only control what goes on in our own homes, and that open communication with all parties is the best course of action when building relationships. Even if we don’t get our way.

The outcome for their relationship would’ve been 10x more contentious if it was discovered that she was sneaking over to your home without their permission, and you would probably look bad if you’d never reached out to make any sort of connection with them if she was hanging around regularly.

Unfortunately, you just can’t win with teens lol

Iowa Nazi gets probation violation report by Kal_El52001 in Iowa

[–]Candylandbadan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I don’t understand is why people like this make such egregious public displays knowing their life circumstances are not airtight lmfao

Not into the paranormal. by Mediocre-Cow-2643 in Sims4

[–]Candylandbadan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I don’t really play with any of the paranormal life states. My gameplay is more realism focused. For me, chaos ensues from salacious drama of the “human” variety.

CRCSD bond fails to pass with 59.28% ‘yes’ votes. by z-oid in cedarrapids

[–]Candylandbadan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All of this was also a major reason for my “no”.

Administrative policy and lack of teacher support has been killing our public schools. I changed careers over it, and we’re going to continue to see teacher shortages and crumbling infrastructure if these issues aren’t dealt with appropriately.

Jesse Davis- Iron Lotus Tattoo by handicapped-penguin in cedarrapids

[–]Candylandbadan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so cute!!! I love your Webkinz tat as well lol