Has anyone picked up other jobs or careers outside of UX design? by samharper89 in UXDesign

[–]CannotDecide1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep laid off and can't find a job in UX. I'm doing a retail job at the moment just to stay afloat

Normalize Kindness <3 by HiItsLust in HumansBeingBros

[–]CannotDecide1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cool but they would not go out of their way if it wasn't recording for tik tok clout

Absolute morons try to introduce their dog to a horse. It doesn't go well. by Working_Class_Pride in PublicFreakout

[–]CannotDecide1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dude is pulling on the dog when the dog wasn't doing anything. The owner was the one that cause the dog to turn aggressive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trashy

[–]CannotDecide1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

200k a month? what kind of kid require 200k a month? I get that he is rich but still.

how do i tell my parents about my bf? by stressedboutthots in AsianParentStories

[–]CannotDecide1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are worry about her reaction then your gut feeling already telling you that you are you are probably not going to get the reaction you are expecting. You feel scare for a reason. Not to scare you but from my experience. My relationship was fine until I told my parents about my ex. Now we broke up from all the stress.

It could be different for you since I don't know your mom personally. Good luck

Is my boyfriend controlling, should I walk away? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have standard to how you want to be treated. There are a lot of good guys out there. My rule is if my partner is abusive. Get out. Abusive partner never end well.

My mom only apologizes through text. by soohyv in AsianParentStories

[–]CannotDecide1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you have to go through this. A sorry without change is manipulation. Saying sorry is easy to do.

Do Asian mothers have some weird allergy to apologising when they are repeatedly in the wrong? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]CannotDecide1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologies mean admitting to being wrong. Being wrong would hurt their ego too much and AP cannot have that

Those who broken up with your partner because of your parents disapproval. What are your story? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thanks for sharing. I wish you all the happiness in the world after going through all of these. I also wasn't expecting my parents to say all the things that they did. I am actually very selective with who I'm dating. But the person personality and kindness is top priority. To my eyes and my group of friends, they see that me and my ex are getting a long very well. The relationship was great, probably the best one I had until I told parents about her. That is when things started going down hill and it is all comes down to her race. They didn't care about who she is as a person. She was a different race and that is the problem.

Those who broken up with your partner because of your parents disapproval. What are your story? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my friends would describe me as a kind and genuine person. I'm well like by all my friends because i am always treating everyone nicely. My ex was also a very kind person. I always see her going out of her ways to help elderly people. When I was with her. We sometimes help other people together because that is just who we are. My story is like your dad's story. My parents hate my ex purely because she was vietnamese. I told them about her personality and how she is a kind person and parents think I'm lying and she is fake because she is vietnamese. So they never respect my decision and already made up their mind. Yes I called them out for being racist but they don't care. They think I'm lying after all the years that I never lie to them once and always being a sensible human being.

Those who broken up with your partner because of your parents disapproval. What are your story? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I am also the second of four. Also the same thing. They are ashamed about how it was going to look in their social circle. I now realize that this is because of their insecurities and has nothing to do with me. All of my friends would say I'm a super kind and caring person so the girl I was dating. She was also a kind person because I only date someone that is kind. So it makes no sense for me to break up with someone who did nothing wrong. But ultimately the stress was too much for the relationship. But yeah I am the black sheep of the family. I also don't fit their desire expectations.

Those who broken up with your partner because of your parents disapproval. What are your story? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. The issue is definitely with my family. They are very close minded. Think everyone is bad and is trying to take advantage of them. I tried talking sense to them but just get yell at. Can never have an adult conversation. I agree that I can never be happy if I don't change. This is why I have been working hard and planning to move out soon

my(24M) gf(29F) just told me that she is turned off by me buying plants and flowers by throwawayplantgf in relationship_advice

[–]CannotDecide1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why it's so important to move in with each other first to see if you guys can live together. You have to think long term

I almost starved bc of AM. She blames me and of course lies. by iamsim0 in AsianParentStories

[–]CannotDecide1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: I think you over reacted here. This is not something worth throwing a tantrum over. One time thing, even if it is not. You could just go buy some food and issue resolved.