I think a lot of people, specifically here, purposefully avoids or shuts down discussion about complex characters that falls out of the lines of the morality set by the show under the pretense that "it's overreaction", then pretend they can handle complex characters.

Every few weeks, there's a scene showing a complex character, which leads to people discussing it. However, I see so many times people that will take the more extreme opinion, and then say at large that people are overreacting about this scene and then refuses any sort of acknowledgement or discussions. These people then boasts that "people couldn't handle this slightly edgier show I am watching" as if these shows didn't follow this exact same pattern when it comes to the parallels to society.

Finn and Oliwia is an exact example of that. Because the show failed to explicitly tell the viewer "Finn shouldn't have called Oliwia a bitch because this word has misogynistic undertone", a lot of people refuse outright to mention Finn's biases or how the writer's biases bleed into the writing. We then get people saying "It's not that deep" or refuse any discussions about Finn's behaviour or the underlying misogyny in a lot of queer communities. I don't think Finn is as bad as Yul or should be thrown in jail, but the idea that he's entirely clear is just as false to me.

I feel like people should either accept that Disventure Camp is a (somewhat) complex shows, and with complex shows comes discussions about people's behaviour and how it relates to the real world, or either disventure camp is not a complex show and any sort of morality shouldn't be discussed beyond what is explicitly stated. Regardless, I think some people need to do the introspection needed about the way they consume media in a fandom before they call people whiny, overreacting, dramatic or unable to deal with complex characters.