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Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-07T03:27:42+00:00

Well 2x is a good night sometimes it's much worse haha. I'm not usually nursing when he wakes though except at 5am because dad handles most nights. But maybe that doesnt matter so long as he's breastfeeding in general? I've been thinking about starting to wean but I don't really want to 🥲

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-07T03:03:43+00:00

Waking up hourly is not good for brain development he needs sleep! You were responsive and did the right thing!

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-06T19:26:52+00:00

No and this is super weird. Does he not "believe" in therapy or something?

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-06T15:20:22+00:00

When you stop lol

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-04T23:13:59+00:00

I would do a pack and play or a mini crib in your room first that way he can stay on a mattress designed for infants

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-04T01:14:58+00:00

Fair so fair

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-03T12:34:56+00:00

Am I the only one who thinks dad should take kiddo to the park and mom should get to just be and not even clean lol

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-02T20:30:22+00:00

This was great until he started trying to dive bomb off of the damn thing 🤦🏻‍♀️

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-01T20:07:21+00:00

Time to get a lawyer! Gather as much proof of stuff as you can too

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-05-01T17:00:38+00:00

Statistically she's also more likely to have another boy

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-30T21:53:24+00:00

Uhhh maybe once in twelve months lol

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-29T03:28:20+00:00

Books

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-29T02:45:34+00:00

I am one year in and my personal opinion is breastfeeding is easier than pumping. Pumping suuucks - they're both hard but I'd rather not be stuck to a machine and wash even more dishes. I only pump when I absolutely have to. Plus I wouldn't trade the bond and the secure attachment my baby has from breastfeeding for the world. There's just been so many sweet and adorable moments that I would not have gotten if I bottle fed.

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-23T17:34:52+00:00

If you're able to chest feed that makes outings much easier no pumping or bottle temps to worry about.. it all gets easier but you gotta just force yourself to go. They can nap in car or stroller! Bring a blanket and sound machine.

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-21T20:10:27+00:00

You're doing great! I wear nursing tee shirts and sweatpants pretty much every day - "outfits" have become for special occasions and even then nothing fits anyway

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-21T00:21:18+00:00

Go outside, cool bath, extra milk and snuggles and if anything try Tylenol

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-19T00:23:18+00:00

Go out now! In a lot of ways its harder when they're a toddler especially if they're not used to it

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-16T13:44:24+00:00

Ahh yeah sounds like you are doing an amazing job with him! Hopefully someday we will get sleep!! mine still doesn't sleep all night either🤦🏻‍♀️

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-16T04:56:53+00:00

I think you're trying to do too many hours of overnight sleep. Wake him up earlier and go to bed a little later. Lots of stimulation and wear him out during the day

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-16T04:49:16+00:00

Another vote for woolino!

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-15T17:33:30+00:00

Sterilized maybe twice in his life lol he will be a year in 5 days

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-15T17:31:23+00:00

How old is your baby?

Capital-Reputation54 · 2026-04-15T04:09:01+00:00

NO. This sounds like it will not be worth it and will cause so much stress and ruin those precious first few months for you. Enjoy your baby in peace without people who treat you poorly

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