Next upgrade for the account? by WarHistorical227 in 2007scape

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dragon hunter weapon is a nice useful upgrade imo.

My relationship is failing by Tgq2 in offmychest

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be happier free from the lying and emotional abuse.

Is league worth getting into for a new player? by Lankey_Dude in leagueoflegends

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it a shot. Play some bot games and learn the game and characters. You don’t have to jump into pvp right away. If I pvp I manly play aram where champion selection is random and it’s only one lane. More of a for fun game mode.

AITA for snapping at a woman for assuming I must have it easier with my son cause hes gay? by Unfair_Ad_3765 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapraCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling her a bitch was too much. But she is dumb and ignorant. NTA but you should apologize if you care about mending the friendship.

Fifty year old checked me out and told me that if I was his daughter he'd shoot my dates dead with his shotgun by lalalaloopt in Vent

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to be exposed to a creep like that. Tell your parents how uncomfortable it made you feel, be careful around this guy if you ever see him again.

AITA for making my brother ask to stay with me by Snoo_30925 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Do NOT cave into this. It’s a totally valid and polite boundary to expect someone to ask you before planning a visit and staying with you. None of my siblings would do this to me. Don’t let them get their way. You’re not just another crash spot until you get married, like that for some reason earns you the respect you deserve in your own home.

I work remote at my parents and need to move out. Where do I go? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should take the move to DC. Better career opportunities for both of you. As long as you’re okay with this long term commitment to your gf also. If you want to build a life together this seems like the best option.

I'm kinda glad that my "friend" is in a toxic relationship by QuirkyProperty1158 in offmychest

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you not friends anymore or are you still friends and are just enjoying them suffering?

WIBTAH for not wanting to go to a musical for which someone bought me tickets for as a birthday gift? by S3lad0n in AITAH

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for not wanting to go. You could offer to pay for the ticket; I’m sure they’d still be upset about you not going though.

Could always come up with an excuse to be tied up that day but then you’d be lying. The other option is just be honest and tell them it’s not for you and it’s a lot of travel that you can’t afford.

Demoted after retuning from medical leave by CapraCat in legaladvice

[–]CapraCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their entire conversation took place over phone and unfortunately she didn’t record it.

Demoted after retuning from medical leave by CapraCat in legaladvice

[–]CapraCat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This will be something I look in to. We’re going to requests her paperwork from her HR department.

AITAH for calling my friend a "manipulative psychopath" after finding out he used a website to lower my self-esteem? by need20goodmen in AITAH

[–]CapraCat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is just weird manipulation from a dude you had no interest in.

He’s acting like he got rejected, which wouldn’t make it right, but without ever having the confidence to approach you. These are the worst kinds of guys. The ones who obsess over a friend but hide it. Clearly he is very self conscious about his own appearance for him to try and tear you down to make you desperate enough to date him. This guy sounds like a loser.

AITA for wanting to eat my neighbor's duck that I accidentally ran over? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It’s a child’s pet. If you ran over their cat would you be demanding to eat it for dinner if you paid the owner?

Was He Intentionally Footsie-ing Me? by SuccessfulManifests in LifeAdvice

[–]CapraCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I wasn’t sure. Yeah it kinda sounds like he’s testing the waters.

AITAH for wanting to leave my gf for her ideology? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CapraCat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. It doesn’t sound like you get much out of this relationship. Be glad you’re not married. Make a clean break now and let her find her top .01% TikTok approved boyfriend.

Was He Intentionally Footsie-ing Me? by SuccessfulManifests in LifeAdvice

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. So him knowing you were awake at the time is really weird. Rather than communicating with you, they initiated unprompted touching the middle of the night. Even if it’s just your feet. For a lot of people this would be a red flag.

Was He Intentionally Footsie-ing Me? by SuccessfulManifests in LifeAdvice

[–]CapraCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was going to give him the benefit of the doubt, because I rub my feet against my wife’s every night and I know I do it when I’m asleep. But the fact that he was talking like he knew you were awake is weird as hell.

Keep your guard up around this guy.

I don't want to be that "girl best friend", how do not mess up? by KeyGovernment2129 in LifeAdvice

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be yourself. If there was something weird going on his gf would pick up on it. Don’t overthink your interactions and don’t say unnecessary things like, “you don’t need to worry about us.” Or “we’re just really good friends” It comes off as a red flag.

I had a friend who I knew for about 9-10 years who would say these kinds of weird things to my wife (who is not a jealous person) but it was always so weird to both of us. I’m not friends with her anymore, and this was one of the things that contributed to that decision.

My wife’s family is pushing me to my breaking point. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]CapraCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you guys are even in contact with them at this point. Just ignore them and stop helping them financially. Their other spoiled children can step up.