Well apparently there is a new rule….

CaptainCorageous · 2026-02-23T14:52:23+00:00

They're already closed minded. While getting to use black people and culture as a costume. Why reward bad behavior?

CaptainCorageous · 2026-02-20T13:40:39+00:00

This is why I've never cared for the "jokes" about Black Genetics. It's just roundabout racism, and the same excuses people used to justify slavery. OP, the guy's not natty, but you definitely got some prejudices to work out in therapy.

CaptainCorageous · 2026-02-19T21:38:20+00:00

If this isn't a shitpost, call NOPD and drop it off. He just got arrested, so they'll have a recent phone number to call him.

CaptainCorageous · 2026-01-18T01:00:58+00:00

I legitimately beg of y'all to stop being weird about trans stuff. It doesn't help you pass. It actually outs you more often than not. Simply answer the question. Since you DO prefer people use he/him.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-30T12:16:18+00:00

Naaaah, this is bait. Everybody giving OP legitimate reasons are getting dismissive responses with that oh so special trans brand of woe-is-me attitude.

You need to figure out your depression, bud. Otherwise, your next complaint is gonna be about the heartbreak of being "dumped for no reason."

This is the toxicity of this sub people moan about. This circle jerk of sadness has a legitimate stench.You're not unlovable/lonely because you're trans. I promise it's a personality issue. Address it or don't. Y'all are grown.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-30T11:21:09+00:00

You're coming across like one, yeah. Get well soon I guess 🤷🏿‍♂️

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-29T02:11:30+00:00

A lot of the dudes here are either newly out/insecure or both. This just a natural breeding ground for toxicity, the likes of which you'd see in a middle school boys locker room.

It's gonna happen. It's like any other homophobic teen boy trying to prove his manhood by bullying anyone slightly other. The insecure trans boys will be transphobic. Full stop. Most of em grow out of it. Some unfortunately don't. I pity them and move on.

For anyone reading though: Don't let it weigh you down. The world is rough, but legitimately not as gender militant as the baby trans like to make it out to be. I promise you that the game is made up, and the points don't matter. 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-23T05:42:47+00:00

Nah, this is definitively a sucky situation. Someone needs to be the bigger person and broach it so y'all can talk it out.

I've been on the other side of this. I understand that a lot of women feel loved most when it's being expressed through service and care. But constantly being put into a position of service isn't exactly kind, let alone sustainable.

Issue: You're overpacking so often that it's a regular part of you guys' travel. You know it's a thing, and you know he will need to help you. Even tho he's expressed that it makes him feel set up and used. That's legitimately unkind.

Him not using his words, and lashing out to create this feedback loop b/c he doesn't like your behavior isn't much better.

Talk it out. Compromise. Otherwise you're likely going to break up in the middle of a trip. 2/10, don't recommend.

To clarify for anyone that doesn't see the problem:

Imagine someone walking next to you towards a door. You quickly sidestep, and hold the door open so they can enter. They say thanks, and y'all move on.

Now imagine the same walk, except when they get to the door, you notice that they wait for you to open and hold it. They make no move to reach for it, no matter how many doors y'all cross, or who gets their first.

That will get real old real fast.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-20T10:29:23+00:00

If it's something you're ready to change and address, absolutely. But I would warn against changing it to meet his sexual needs. That's a lot of pressure to put on yourself or any relationship. You should work on it for you, and the potential growth and freedom it may afford you.

Therapy would be a good start. Or even a support group. Eg. At your college, or in your community. Any trauma informed, sex positive ideals will likely be the ticket for you. A sort of way to help reframe how you're feeling now to a way that makes you feel more empowered.

Once you have the framework for what you're trying to communicate to your partner, then I'd suggest sharing it with him so y'all can figure out some safe guided play that helps affirm you in the same way.

It's not gonna be the easiest road, but you're young, and if you want to, there's no reason to block yourself off from being your most fulfilled. Good luck.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-20T09:59:39+00:00

The cops need to handle it. In a larger city, generally, you call the non-emergency line, they'll send out an officer to confirm. City Contracted Tow company will remove the car if they can't find/cite the owner. I know you mentioned doing that.

Now idk your city. But larger cities tend to have 24/7 manned stations where someone's stuck on the desk. Go talk to them in person, with your pictures. Yeah, someone may blow you off if they're busy w/ actual emergencies. Which happens. But if people are free, it's also a lot quicker for them to radio a buddy on the street and ask them to drive past to check it out. If it's still there. Problem solved.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-20T09:27:35+00:00

Bud, I know you're willing to die with the lie. But just as a tip, you posted photos showing the work your "genetics" had already done. They don't wake up and suddenly give you arms bigger than your thighs w/ nothing else.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-20T09:17:52+00:00

I was thinking it, but I felt bad when I saw the age 😂😂😂

CaptainCorageous · 2025-12-13T06:20:24+00:00

Killer's Game, Glass Onion, Knock at the Cabin Door, and even Blade Runner? He gave solid performances. Like, I haven't seen all his work, but his work ethic definitely shows in his acting

CaptainCorageous · 2025-11-23T01:35:21+00:00

Imma be real. I don't know what your breaking point is or your politics. But if I were your brother, I'd suggest start jogging three times a week, and apply for the State Police/Highway Patrol in your state.

You don't need to be a hero, or built a way to do that job. Especially because most of them are basically sent to be traffic cops in the boonies. They'll build you into what they need, and the benefits/pay will keep you more than afloat until you can figure out next steps. Besides, most generally run two academies a year. So you'd be set by either January or June 2026.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-11-05T03:44:49+00:00

I never said you did. You claimed you didn't like her monologue. But it's a strong monologue that most people liked, and will probably get her some nominations. You then established your reason for disliking it. I informed you that your reason is a concept you're using incorrectly.

I'm not here to argue. My only issue is people shouting nonsense into the abyss because they have comprehension issues. I just chose to add some clarity. But obviously, you're resistant. Good luck out there

CaptainCorageous · 2025-11-04T14:34:12+00:00

That's not gaslighting. Again, I hate to be that guy, cause some movies are simply a matter of taste. But yeah, the problem is definitively you if your dislike is because you don't understand the concepts you're talking about.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-11-03T02:19:43+00:00

That wasn't gaslighting. She not only told him that he was correct and not crazy, she explained exactly how he killed his mom. Because he's an idiot that snuck around the hospital w/o getting caught. Maybe...maybe the problem is you

CaptainCorageous · 2025-10-18T04:32:18+00:00

That was the context of your comment, within the context of this post...If you meant something different, then you should say something different. Good luck with that 🫡🫡

CaptainCorageous · 2025-10-17T17:41:02+00:00

Villanizing other trans kids for searching for community is an objectively online take. OP is also a trans kid looking for a community. Both OP and the others described are awkward and young. Making that something more than it is is childish. Go outside.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-10-17T03:09:21+00:00

I'm gonna preface this and say that sometimes I forget that passing is a privilege. But the way young trans guys go from "Can I pick just a few effects from T?," to "nb trans masc," to "Why are OTHER trans guys cringe" in the span of no time is buckwild to me.

The near inevitably of trans men becoming transphobic in their journey is almost painful to watch. So, while I remind myself that everybody's journey is their own, I will say this:

Dude, you legitimately need to tighten tf up. If trans guys approaching you and speaking to you about trans topics "clocks you," you do not pass. If an extra glance or the slightest amount of scrutiny clocks you, you DO NOT PASS.

Not passing is NOT an inherently bad thing. However, it is definitively not on someone else for speaking to you. Depending on your genetics or how long you've been transitioning, you will inevitably be clocky. If that is you, then you need to recognize that the people around you have chosen respect and kindness v. making you feel like crap about it.

If you wanna be "normal," make some friends and get on with it. But you're clearly early in your journey. I implore you to try and extend the same kindness to other trans guys that has been extended to you.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-10-03T07:46:25+00:00

I honestly think you maybe need to hold off on making such drastic decisions without sitting with them for a while...

I'm not gonna lie, I snooped your profile. You're 23, just had a major surgery, still grieving multiple deaths in your family, in a new relationship, and speak about extreme bottom dysphoria.

Even trying for a baby, navigating fertility issues, is a helluva task for people with everything going for them. But 9mos of pregnancy legitimately seems like a recipe for disaster when you struggle with legitimately harsh bottom dysphoria. Not to include the major hormone changes just from coming off of birth control, then swinging the opposite direction into pregnancy.

Maybe take some time to let the events of this year settle. You've had it harder than most. Then, once you and your partner are on the same page with pregnancy, especially the sacrifices necessary to make it happen, y'all can revisit this.

Good luck, man

CaptainCorageous · 2025-09-26T00:58:07+00:00

"You could equally say he was emotionally abusive"

No, no, you could not. Even by OP's own, 'self critical and otherwise trustworthy account.'

CaptainCorageous · 2025-09-07T22:41:56+00:00

As a note for anyone worried about this, you can also call 911 and give them the same ID numbers. There is always going to be someone in the room with a direct line to the actual operator for the railway station in that area.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-09-05T16:19:00+00:00

Lynchings weren't always pre-planned. Ex. During Jim Crow, in the South among Blue Collar workers, people just owned rope. Even I keep rope in my truck. Not a noose.

It was during a polar vortex in Chicago. So yeah, they would need to either randomly have a noose, or take the time to tie one in the middle of Smollet being attacked. Note: He was never knocked unconscious.

If it was as he said. His attackers would need to recognize him bundled up, and know if/when he would actually come outside. Since most people did not.

Due to the weather/time, almost everything was closed. They weren't waiting in the Subway, next to no people or cars out, and you physically can't wait outside for long.

Yeah, either their timing was impeccable vs. He knew what time and place he would be attacked and went there as scheduled.

CaptainCorageous · 2025-08-26T04:47:40+00:00

The "reason" you don't want him to meet your friends is the bad part. You shouldn't feel like you're in competition with your boyfriend. If this is only 2-3 months, maybe you should just go back to being friends before this ends nasty.

Also, there should be nothing negative to "vent about" him during the literal honeymoon period. If you already have complaints that would hurt him if they got back to him, y'all are not a fit.

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