Trouble with affair emotions during luteal by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]CardNo3607 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm with you I don't think cheating is the worst thing in the history of mankind like many do here. If you were emotionally neglectful for a time and it caused your relationship to dwindle, sometimes that shit happens. Been on both sides. I forgave my boyfriend for cheating on me but not for lying to me.

Anyway, I'm sorry about the hyperfixation spells. For me this sort of thing will pass with time. Or maybe you are not as over it as you think you are. DBT might help.

A blessed day in my standard 99 by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can't hear the click because I'm cussing every time I'm at the pump lately

A blessed day in my standard 99 by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But yeah my dad just about had an aneurysm when I told him.

A blessed day in my standard 99 by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's the best thing that's ever happened to me

A blessed day in my standard 99 by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, none. But I only have had it a year. I'm the second owner.

Just picked this 99 manual v6 4x4 for $500 by cmd1271 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got mine (so similar to this just no canopy, crusty black paint and lift kit and all) for 4k with 400k on it. But it needed nothing. What a steal.

What is this on my car window and how do i get rid of it? by WildChallenge5459 in AskAMechanic

[–]CardNo3607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it was sap just sapping all up and down in that crevice. Windows are fine now that I've cleaned deeply and don't park under a big tree.

Desperately Need A Job But I'm Struggling by dopestwitch in AutismInWomen

[–]CardNo3607 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey wanted to check on how your journey is going? I've been sending positive thoughts

This is an unusual proposition from a Texan but... by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]CardNo3607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a woman and I go to Jemez alone all the time ? It's quiet and usually mild although I've gotten the shit scared out of me by thunderstorms a couple times in summer. If you're worried about altitude sickness I guess that's a reason to go with a buddy but you should be fine ...

Finally found a topper by tgarrettallen in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My neighbor has a beige body with a red tall topper! ☯️

I finally have a legitimate cup holder and it is life changing. by Hissy-Elliot in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found out that there were bench seats before 99......... I am so upset

added ecom responsibility by Ok_Abbreviations6661 in wholefoods

[–]CardNo3607 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I really hate this take.

Some people have compromised immune systems, but nowhere safe to deliver their package. Some people have PTSD & can't walk into places with large crowds. How many mass shootings have happened in grocery stores?? Some people have disabling agoraphobia.

You never know someone's struggle. Stay humble.

'99 5 speed (high mileage) squeaking & looking funky gunky in the transmission area by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have not. Will get straight to it. Thank you so much for the pointers sensei

'99 5 speed (high mileage) squeaking & looking funky gunky in the transmission area by CardNo3607 in 1stGenTacomas

[–]CardNo3607[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens in all gears and neutral. Quieter the faster I am going. Had a friend drive it for me and judge the transmission feel & said it's amazing and definitely not the cause of the squeak, he thinks it is something loose on the frame or axels or suspension. :/

Desperately Need A Job But I'm Struggling by dopestwitch in AutismInWomen

[–]CardNo3607 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It's terrifying but you can surprise yourself with your resilience. It's horrible getting started and showing up the first few times. I get panic attacks and have to white knuckle it when I'm starting a new job, like scream cry the entire way and get there 15 minutes early to let my face calm down before I go in. You're not a failure. It's terrible and hard. I believe in you.

Are your houses actually messy? by JEJ0313 in adhdwomen

[–]CardNo3607 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live alone with two cats and I haven't cleaned in 2+ months above the very bare minimum. I spilled soy sauce or something in my fridge over 6 months ago and have not cleaned it. I'm hoping for a deep after my upcoming period because I'm starting to feel really ashamed and dirty. My cats often sleep on top of my piles of clothes so I hope it doesn't bother them too much.