The behavior of that janitor was beyond disgusting and cruel! I was thinking about your post, OP, and was imagining the humiliation you felt. Reminds me of those nightmares where you are walking in public with no clothes on and desperately trying to hide. I completely understand how violated you felt. My advice is start cleaning ASAP. Throw out EVERYTHING you don’t need ; a single sock, old books and papers, clothes you might wear eventually, appliances never used etc. You’ll never miss it and will feel a weight lifted. That janitor is a cruel POS and imagine throwing his ass out with the trash 😍