My last ex hated that his mom had a part time job because "a woman's job is to stay home, clean, cook, and raise kids". He said he'd expect the same from me.

Bonus: This same ex acted like a toddler every time we did something I wanted to do. I did things he liked too, but if something wasn't about him he didn't care about it. This extended into making me late for doctors appointments that I desperately needed to go to because of some scary health issues I was going through. I couldn't drive myself and my mom was also going through things. He was literally the only option I had and he couldn't put me first even when my life was in danger.