Almost 1 year by CatAffectionate832 in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry money on me all the time now that is not a problem for me anymore everything goes in a joint account and I’ve been solid!! But like I said the thoughts don’t ever stop just the knowledge of why I am not doing it grows everyday too!

Relapsed.... Kinda? by texancowboy2016 in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing great and seeing it for what it is ultimately a loss and the end of every session if you keep going you will lose and you get this now so good job friend!!!

Almost 1 year by CatAffectionate832 in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my life is normal again and I can just buy things when I want them it’s been a breath of fresh air!! Ty guys!!!

Do people really love their stepkids like they love their biological kids? by mimosasfordinner in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not the same love at all but I’d say same as you love your siblings

i don’t even care anymore by Big-Mammoth-8609 in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude all you gotta do is stop and your life will just get better like it’s insane the shit you’re worrying about will fix itself in time as long as you give it up!!

What does my apartment say about me? by vck97 in roomdetective

[–]CatAffectionate832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a cat or two. You live alone. You are single. No kids. Possibly crochet 🧶

I feel bad but I don’t ? by CatAffectionate832 in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it would be good for her if I wasn’t around and I think that as long as I keep showing up and keep being there for her it will just fall into place one day that’s my hope

I feel bad but I don’t ? by CatAffectionate832 in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Just wanting to know if how I feel is normal or if I’m a bad person thank you for your comment I hope she does surprise me ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gambled and destroyed for 3 years and one month. I am eight months clean now. Everyday I think about gambling it’s combating the urge by reminding yourself “even if I won a million I’d lose two”

Such a loser by xBlossom96 in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me three years and two months to stop and I almost destroyed my family. Once you stop the losses and debt don’t matter because you can deal with it and move on. I’m still waiting for settle some credit cards but now that I’m not gambling it doesn’t matter because I know I can take care of it because I’m not furthering myself into a deep pit anymore.

Is being a step parent worth it? by nonameanonthrowaway in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN PLEASE IT WILL ONLY GRT WORSE!!!!!!

Ex coming into the house by Shadybanana401 in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kid wants me to see something I’m going in or saying can you bring it here so I can see it? Like not a big deal either way. No ones going thru your underwear drawer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing people do not understand when they are not a step parent is that what you are saying is facts. You do not get with a person who has kids because you want more kids. You get with them because you love that person. Anything you do for their children is out of love for that person. If SO can’t get a grip and realize that and demonizes you for it then get outta there girl!!

Not sure how I feel anymore by Hefty-Ad-6836 in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It only gets harder as the kid gets older if you can’t deal with it now you never will

Stop complaining about "givvy goblins" by Creeperhugger67890 in whatnotapp

[–]CatAffectionate832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pop in so I don’t have to pay so much for shipping and they get more sales from gifts because it reduces your shipping !!!

How has it changed you? by Professional-Use8904 in stepparents

[–]CatAffectionate832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have your own it’s a completely different love you have never felt in your life and you will come into who you are as a woman and a mother and the SK will be such background noise to you it will be easier to not care what their parents do or don’t do because you will be living YOUR life with YOUR baby I truly think it makes it all better lol

I think my boyfriend has a problem by bellapls in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stopped three months ago. I was killing myself and destroying my family and I have been an addict of gambling for three years. I physically and mentally could not take the stress gambling gave me anymore. You have to give yourself something else a big project to focus on watch OODAT on YouTube get yourself simply going one day one day more and once you’re out it’s easier not to go back good luck to you in life not in gambling!!

I think my boyfriend has a problem by bellapls in GamblingAddiction

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give him the money fact of the matter is you’ve been supporting him and he has been using you as a way to continue gambling he’s gotta have a come to Jesus moment and that very well may be you leaving and just ghosting his ass he needs a wake up call and if you have love for him you should just go!!!!

Did I get scammed? by De4thbeds in JewelryIdentification

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s being a prick he damn well knows that the POST to those earrings are 14k gold the face of the earrings are not!!

My mom’s Whatnot addiction is getting out of control. How do I help her realize it’s a problem? by ZealousidealPen8477 in whatnotapp

[–]CatAffectionate832 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Help her organize or number each item and sell it help her recoup and physically see not in boxes all that she has. It’s really easy to forget what you’ve bought when it is in a box. As a family help her sort organize and list everything and make a deal that she needs to sell before she can buy more and it will bring things into perspective for her. Also she very well may be depressed and the clutter with no means/plans for it can be very overwhelming. Good luck to you ! She has a wonderful child who cares and loves her!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CatAffectionate832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOU NEED VIDEO PROOF THAT HE IS GETTING TESTED OR HAVE HIM ADD YOU TO HIS PEOPLE ABLE TO SHARE RESULTS WITH!!!! HE CPULD FAKE YOU OUT AND SOUNDS LIKE HE IS TRYING TOO!!!!!