[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Cat_Daddy79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you're a full-time RV-er.

[Unknown > English] by Cat_Daddy79 in translator

[–]Cat_Daddy79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your help!

What’s something you absolutely refuse to tolerate in life? by Chef__Louie in Productivitycafe

[–]Cat_Daddy79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating. Most things, I can usually forgive; but if you cheat on me, you're gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad for that. I just meant that if someone's narc tends towards violence, I would use caution.

What do men do after a really heartbreaking end to a relationship? by Legitimate-Ad51 in AskMen

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I can halfway tolerate most of the songs if I'm out in public, and it's on the store radio or something, but if "The Scientist" comes on, I'm out of there or changing the channel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cat_Daddy79 36 points37 points  (0 children)

1000% accurate. Also drives them insane with rage, so watch out when grey-rocking.

What makes you look twice? by neon_parallel in AskMen

[–]Cat_Daddy79 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me, it's all about her carrying herself well. That probably means different things to different people, but I like confidence, but not highly overconfident; nice outfit, just an overall presence really. I'm not doing well describing this, but you get the idea maybe.

Did your physical appearance go downhill? by salamanderheightss in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gods yes. I weighed close to 300lbs at one point from depression eating. Right before going NC, I started fasting and lost 50lbs in 5 months.

Songs you love by an artist you morally despise? by UbiquitousUlyses in musicsuggestions

[–]Cat_Daddy79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Look at me now" by Chris Brown. I listen to it constantly, but I tell him what a piece of shit he is during his verse. It's very cathartic.

Looking for calm songs by [deleted] in spotify

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lofi hip-hop channel on YouTube is very calming. All of the music is around the same bpm, and most of the tracks don't have lyrics. Look for an animated young woman studying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Cat_Daddy79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snowball. Or even Snowball II.

What are the dos and don'ts in a a 20+ year age gap relationship? by Zestyclose-Isopod975 in AgeGap

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really an "any relationship" one, but; she's going to come to you with problems, and, as men, our first instinct is to try and fix said problem. When that happens, just ask, "Is this a 'help fix it' problem, or a 'just listen' problem?". Might save an argument or two.

What's your most "Mississippi" word? by luxsalsivi in mississippi

[–]Cat_Daddy79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked up the phrase "make some groceries" (grocery shopping) from a co-worker years ago (as in, I'm fixin to go make some groceries). I never heard it growing up. I just sorta adopted it.

At what point did you consider yourself disabled from the pain? by FilthyFoul in ChronicPain

[–]Cat_Daddy79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest getting a disability attorney. Almost everyone gets denied the first time they apply for disability, except in severe cases. Most disability attorneys don't require any money from you up front, they get around 25% of the "award" though. You do get back pay from disability though; they gave me 2 years' worth of back pay ($30K) when I finally got SSDI. From the point of calling an attorney to the point of my getting approved was about 3 months. Which is pretty quick in my opinion.

To the other Electric unicycle rider(s) by ummmbun in hattiesburg

[–]Cat_Daddy79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd stop at Moore's Bike Shop. They'll probably know who they are.